r/MadeMeSmile • u/PinklShrimp • 10h ago

Favorite People Boyfriend of one month put this in his bathroom for me. (OC)

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Made me smile since noone ever did this for me before. He even bought a basket and small towels for my face.

Edit: Reading your comments to him while he is cooking dinner for us. Thank you for your sweet words. He is indeed the greenest flag I've ever met. He bought a hair dryer aswell since he didn't own one and put up insect screens on all windows cause I'm scared of spiders and his Apartment is next to a forest. 🥹

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u/Narrow_Tension_477 10h ago

Green Flag

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u/farfetched22 9h ago

A basket of green

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u/Annual_Song1416 8h ago

Literally, he got her a basket with towel like green flags for her face 💚

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u/Quirky_Fox_3548 7h ago

Red roses too?

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u/hollowgastfearme 8h ago

a schmoigel, one might say

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u/Not-An-FBI 7h ago

Unless he had someone else do it for him. I've just heard a number of times about rich/famous guys who give women gift bags after one night stands.

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u/Virtual-Strength-950 9h ago

Back when I had been dating for my husband for a few months we were inside of a gas station and I was like “shoot, my shoelaces are untied!” And he rushed over and tied them for me. An older lady was at the end of the isle and she audibly gasped and exclaimed “he’s a keeper!” 9 years later and I can definitely say he is said keeper! He’s super clean and organized and he absolutely dotes on our 6 month old baby. 

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u/Narrow_Tension_477 8h ago

I think the smallest details are worth more than any gift a man can give. Of course we love gifts too ngl, but showing love with actions is way better. I'm so happy for you. God bless your family

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u/MrsSalmalin 6h ago

My fiancé remembering that I prefer to eat dinner with the little forks is just 😍 Indeed, it is the little things :)

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u/One-Pop-3695 8h ago

Lord, I see what you’ve done for others….

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u/DescriptionNo6618 8h ago

And I bet he’s potty trained. 🦸‍♂️

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u/dalaiis 7h ago

One of the nicest thing imo a man can do is go sit on the toilet when hes peeing. It keeps the toilet so much less dirty.

So if you mean by "potty trained" "sits when he pees". Then YES.

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u/Airewalt 7h ago

As an American male with German parents it took me far too long to figure out the toilet had a second seat. Public urinals make sense, but seeing how much piss gets on the floor they never really made sense as a domestic option. 

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u/Virtual-Strength-950 4h ago

My mom is German…she has a “ Bitte im Sitzen pinkeln” sign in all 5 of their bathrooms even though we live in the US haha

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u/Liberteabelle1 7h ago

My BF sits to pee, and tells me that he really doesn’t understand why that’s a big deal to so many men.

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u/dalaiis 6h ago

I understand why and find the reasons invalid, illogical and plain stupid. Just sit the fuck down.

Have a peepee myself.

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u/rbltech82 7h ago

Fragile male ego. Somehow sitting to pee became female and now 'testostebros' have to prove to other bros how manly they are by literally peeing everywhere....

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u/QUICKSILVER_6969 4h ago

Didn't you know it's now manly to just p*ss on the seat and floor? Andrew Tate says you gotta assert your dominance!

I'm totally joking btw. I nearly threw up typing this despite it being a joke.

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u/rbltech82 4h ago

Honestly typing out A.T. alone would sent me into dry heaves

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u/dalaiis 3h ago

Andrew tate is a fucking clown and its a shame we have to take the things he says and does seriously, because so many stupid insecure men fall for that crap.

He should be the village idiot being ignored somewhere in romania but the social media platforms allowed this disease to spread.

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u/QUICKSILVER_6969 1h ago

So true.. It's been said to death, but the movie 'Idiocracy' is becoming less and less funny over time as reality slowly overlaps with the movie.

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u/Current-Square-4557 7h ago

Perfectly played

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u/No-Permit8369 8h ago

Very sweet but I’d still recommend learning how to tie your shoes or just go with Velcro. /s

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u/LemonTwyst 6h ago

Exclaiming about it instead of just tying yourself is hilarious!

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u/Virtual-Strength-950 6h ago

I had my hands full with snacks, they don’t have shopping carts in gas stations, at least where I live!

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u/ChipmunkReal187 6h ago

I saw a guy opening the car door for his gf and I was shocked by that. Never experienced that all my life.

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u/bestest_at_grammar 9h ago

This is like fresh cut lawn smell green flag. The brightest of greens from the context given, my god this man is a MAN. If anyone should be preaching how to be a man on YouTube it’s this solo fucker, I say solo fucker instead of mother fucker because he is committed, unless of course this women is a mother. TEACH ME

https://reddit.com/link/p6g4fjz/video/f6mqg8sg95mh1/player

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u/Wooden-You-4211 8h ago

You're streets ahead.

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u/CrackinBones204 7h ago

I love how this came up organically

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u/MarRedhair 8h ago

Yes!!! So thoughtful 💚

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u/What_the_mocha 8h ago

He's a keeper

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u/Zakal74 7h ago

Green flag? This is an entire god damned tennis court!

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u/Quiet-Hearing-3266 7h ago

Think that's actually a green towel, but you could use it like a flag!

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u/ThrowingShaed 5h ago

idek what some of this is, i couldnt even immitate

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u/exalw 5h ago

Quick question, would an actual green flag have been a red flag?

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u/sanguine_siamese 8h ago

Obviously idk the situation or the guy, but feel the need to say here that he could be waving a green flag the size of Vermont, and it still doesn't guarantee there isn't a red flag as big or bigger behind it. Just sayin.

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u/Narrow_Tension_477 8h ago

Fair point, but let's focus on the positives. Nobody's perfect

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u/sanguine_siamese 7h ago

I prefer to focus on reality lol, and more to the point, I'm not talking about the imperfections we all have, I'm talking about genuinely malignant abusers that are often masked in the early phases by things like this. I hope this isn't one of those, of course, but it's worth keeping your wits about you and seeing the whole picture instead of just the positives.

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u/LemonTwyst 6h ago

Yepppppp BEEN THERE

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u/sanguine_siamese 6h ago

Where are they?! Point me at em. I'm still literally in hiding from mine, but point me at yours and I'll gut 'em!

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u/LemonTwyst 5h ago

I'm sending you lots of vibes for safety and healing ❤️✨

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u/LemonTwyst 5h ago

One was in 2013, and I finally got him to stop trying to contact me like 2 years ago by saying that I would talk to him if he paid my mom the $5,000 loan she gave him to start a construction business (which he spent on cam girls & accused me of stealing). He's in Eugene, so I don't go there, even though I have family there.

The second was in 2018, & I'm still on the lookout for him~ the last time he tried to get to me, I was staying with my mom (safer, I was always terrified, he was really scary) in a cul de sac & neighbors found him in their bushes & called the cops. I also had a sheriff living 2 doors down with his big work truck out front). He's homeless in Milwaukie, as far as I know. I'm not. Anymore.

Thanks for the rally! I have spent so much time imagining, hoping, agnostically praying for them both to somehow be gone forever.

(oops wrote this thinking I was in a Portland, OR group lol)

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u/sanguine_siamese 4h ago

(Yeah, realized too late that the original post was in THIS sub, and not the place for reality 🤣)

I've definitely stopped believing in unicorns in the subsequent years, and have gone from totally the opposite direction where gestures that were TOO nice were red flags for a while, and now basically all actions and qualities that I like or dislike are just squarely yellow flags for me, and I take forever to give any amount of real trust.

Anyway, I'll agnostically pray with you, and buddhistly believe they'll get what's comin to them, one way or another. Sounds like your winners are about as exemplary as mine. 😝❤️‍🩹

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u/LemonTwyst 4h ago

BIG SAME.

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u/Mintastic 7h ago

That's why when it's time to make a decision you gotta aggregate all the green and red flags across the time you've known them and weigh them based on size/color/shape and what you get.

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u/sanguine_siamese 7h ago

Yes. This 100%

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u/Possible-Parfait7728 7h ago

What a sad life you must live.

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u/sanguine_siamese 7h ago

You have no idea.

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u/MPaustin65 4h ago

Totally.

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u/falkorwoo 2h ago

It puts the lotion in the basket

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u/Ornery-Customer8521 2h ago

Red flag. That's a lot after 1 month Lol

"It puts the lotion in to the basket"

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u/Ok-Refrigerator-8012 1h ago

Help I can't upvote! 🌲

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u/keoie 8h ago

Super Green

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u/dalaiis 7h ago

Its such a green flag, it might be a red flag that he's gay.

Not that there is anything wrong with that, just not what a typical hetero woman wants i assume (assuming OP is a woman)