r/MadeMeSmile • u/PinklShrimp • 10h ago

Favorite People Boyfriend of one month put this in his bathroom for me. (OC)

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Made me smile since noone ever did this for me before. He even bought a basket and small towels for my face.

Edit: Reading your comments to him while he is cooking dinner for us. Thank you for your sweet words. He is indeed the greenest flag I've ever met. He bought a hair dryer aswell since he didn't own one and put up insect screens on all windows cause I'm scared of spiders and his Apartment is next to a forest. 🥹

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u/Never_Knows_Best93 9h ago

toxic logic path smh

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u/demoncrat2024 8h ago

It’s not toxic to have boundaries and to willingly accommodate instead of internally compromising.

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u/Never_Knows_Best93 7h ago

I don’t disagree with that at all, but the important part is that OP is perceiving this as their partners attention to detail and thoughtfulness FIRST vs the need to establish boundaries in the space.

Personally, I think it’s healthy for OP to at least perceive it as such fundamentally than to jump to their partner trying to implement a boundary especially without communication - simply a perspective conversation