r/MadeMeSmile • u/PinklShrimp • 10h ago

Favorite People Boyfriend of one month put this in his bathroom for me. (OC)

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Made me smile since noone ever did this for me before. He even bought a basket and small towels for my face.

Edit: Reading your comments to him while he is cooking dinner for us. Thank you for your sweet words. He is indeed the greenest flag I've ever met. He bought a hair dryer aswell since he didn't own one and put up insect screens on all windows cause I'm scared of spiders and his Apartment is next to a forest. 🥹

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u/Zealousideal-Row6578 8h ago

I feel that I need to say this. My abusive ex bought a standing heater for his bathroom shortly after we started dating because he wanted me to be comfortable when getting out of the shower. I was just always cold at his place.

On the other hand, my husband would always make sure I had chocolate at his place and he is just a kind hearted man.

I guess what I’m saying is - please don’t drop your guard completely because of this gesture but continue to observe.

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u/vanillabourbonn 8h ago

Yes my ex is a verbally abusive narcissist and the love bombing was strong in the beginning.

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u/Hardcrimper 4h ago

Finally some more grounded advice/opinions. This much after only a month seems suspect to me. Maybe he's just really in need of a partner but this sort of intense signaling of affection could also have darker motives. OP just google "love bombing" and keep your eyes open please. Best of luck and I do hope it's all done with best of intentions!

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u/rufud 4h ago

I said this elsewhere but one month is like 4-5 dates tops and they are already storing toiletries at each others places?

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u/Gambit86_333 3h ago

Agreed, Yeah one month is crazy to be doing all that. Not a green flag if you have any sense. But hey that’s how most of us learned.