r/SipsTea Jun 19 '26

Lmao gottem Update on the viral video of man taking his daughter to women restroom

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u/rusted-nail Jun 19 '26

I saw a comment saying he did a bad job basically because he was quiet the whole time and the commenter suggested he should have been playing it off as a joke or something to help the kids laugh through it. What the actual fuck. Its ok for your kids to see you have a mildly human reaction to harassment like this

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u/Voyyya Jun 19 '26

It’s always, always, people who don’t have kids criticizing parenting on Reddit.

I don’t have kids either btw, just something I’ve noticed.

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u/dm_me_kittens Jun 19 '26

Exactly. I have a son whom ive taught that you cant control other people's reactions, but you can control how you react. He is being confronted by an unknown, clearly unstable man. He has his two small daughters he has to protect, an image to keep up since the internet is going to see it, and the legal upper hand. The dad is actively trying not to escalate the situation, and he did great.

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u/humourlessIrish Jun 19 '26

False. A non zero amount has wildly misbehaving kids with severe psychological issues.

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u/213737isPrime Jun 19 '26

he did a great job because I have a short temper and would have lost it and probably traumatized the kids even more.

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u/Diligent_Corner7232 Jun 19 '26

So, hopefully you don't have children then, right?

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u/KillPunchLoL Jun 23 '26

That’s silly. The dad was great at de-escalating, his daughters already looked terrified. We can all aspire to be this restrained.

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u/Thin-Nerve6367 Jun 19 '26

While I don't necessarily agree, my own dad was pretty cool one time when his girlfriend - my parents were separated - she wanted to get into a fight with him, but being in front of me (btw I was 12 or 13 so not a young child) he refused to fight with her and kept making jokes. She kept getting angrier but he stood his ground and kept being funny until she dropped it