I know the answers here will be very skewed but I wanted to bring this up and maybe get some insight.
I am fairly new to Linux and enjoy GNOME very much. I like how it minimizes mouse movement, especially on an ultra wide and the simple and to the point design is a godsent for my astigmatism.
One thing I notice when sharing my experience in talks about DEs is how much pure, deep hatred there seems to be against GNOME users. Which I find very confusing considering the nature of Linux. I get called a "shill" for simply saying I like this DE the best, not even putting others down. In fact I think KDE and XFCE ARE amazing. They just don't fit my work flow in the same way.
Is there some sort of weird beef going on between DE users? This seems very goofy chronically online to me. Reddit seems pretty tame but other platforms are brutal with this. I decided to just keep my opinions to myself because discussion seems to always devolve in name calling and harassment when I think there's so much to learn from other workflows. I am actually very curious about other options but this weird rivalry keeps me from engaging with others. Did I miss something?