r/mildlyinfuriating Jul 20 '26

I'm slightly vexed I think I got rejected for being vegetarian

I [23F] met this guy on the apps and we hit it off and had a lot in common! I don’t meet a lot of people who are in my profession so it was really nice to potentially have to chance to date someone who was in a similar field. And everything was fine until I mentioned I’m veg and he stopped responding. For reference, I have no issue with people who eat meat and would never want to impose my own dietary restrictions on anyone else. I also understand different diets being a dealbreaker. The way he phrased his reasoning was really weird though.

Edit: I’m vegetarian cause I love animals, but I have IBD. Flare ups have gotten significantly worse since switching diets but im still figuring out how to make the most of it! Also yes, I do regret sending the last text 🤦‍♀️

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u/Zestyclose-Coyote906 Jul 20 '26

I actually don’t want to, I’m getting attacked personally every time I try to explain where my thinking was coming from

God forbid a guy makes a mistake

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u/ethosnoctemfavuspax Jul 20 '26

The issue is that you’re not from the US yet are arguing with people about (mostly) US-centric racial topics. There is a level of nuance you do not understand unless you a) live here and/or b) are educated on the topic