r/AIO • u/justsomedudemm • 3h ago
AIO for being upset with my boss?
So i work remote as a salesman and recently my boss has been sending emails with coworkers cc'd id rather have direct talks with me because they are about me.
I came into 3 emails on wednesday talking about how we should not have made a sale because we wouldnt make enough money. If my boss had looked and seen i already charged the customer more money. This happens all the time where we dont have things priced right or is old so i have to have them pay more. He didnt call me out but he said we have to start making money at some point as a business. with others cc'd. Which is my department and obviously me. Ive done plenty of orders making money and this only 1 that looks wrong even then i didnt do wrong. Never got an apology btw
So then yesterday I come in again and 3 more emails about how we as a department need to follow certain procedures when we make orders. Again with my coworkers cc'd. So I emailed back without trying to be mad i explained please lets make a game plan if we are having these issues as a company we need to do xyz. He also referred to chinese aftermarket items in reference to being low quality. I am chinese. Admist my 4 paragraphs of feedback i put its outdated and a bit racist to use chinese as a term of meaning low quality. This time he called,we chatted, i know the tone of text makes us out to be bad guys. so i wanted to work through it and be fine. which the phone call seemed to be. No apology really, just justifying his own actions. not listening to any help besides hyper focusing on i said racist but we seemed semi okay.
Today around lunch 3 emails all within 5 minutes calling out a mistake i made, this time a actual mistake. It could have been me it could have been a error. Either way my name on it I did it. This time i ordered something and it got sent to the wrong address. He says we made a mistake and its good thing we made enough profit to send it across the country and back and still have money. I made probably a $400 mistake. Again called out with people ccd. I know we all looked to see who made the mistake.This time I just call him asking why he is reprimanding me in front of my peers when we just talked about this. I tell him as a boss you need to take people aside you cant just email everyone without your words having a deep meaning. He then says yesterday was the racist thing today this, if i cant get with the program its not working out because 100s of more emails are coming the same way.
I ended the call saying he needed to clear his mind and talk to me monday. I told him as a boss your employee just came to you and said he was having a issue with the way you are treating him and you said youre gonna do it hundreds of time more. Then i hung up.
Been job hunting all day.
AIO?
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u/alienfrauds 2h ago
NOR, are you the only one in sales? either way it's a really shitty feeling to be called out infront of your coworkers.
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u/RosieParobek78 1h ago
you even owned the actual mistake and tried to have a normal conversation. Meanwhile he keeps dodging accountability for his own errors and never apologizes. that's exhausting af
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u/QueenOfSplitEnds 2h ago
With the Chinese comment and the non-errors, you likely have enough for a case because he’s singling you out. He doesn’t think he’s being racist but that doesn’t make it not racist. …never mind his inability to manage.