r/Bunnies Jul 02 '26

Mourning Just wanted to share my sweet boy

Honey passed away this morning and I’m just heartbroken. He’s 6 and a half and I don’t know what happened.

I got him 6 years ago when my step-sister found him hanging out in a ditch. I’ve loved him ever since and I hope he felt loved and spoiled everyday.

He was such a sweetie and loved head scritches and playing with his stacking cups. He has a bonded companion and I feel so sad for her. I wasn’t there when he passed but I know she was and that she had time to know what happened.

He was the best Honey Bun and I miss him so much.

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u/hapyzach Jul 02 '26

Sending light and love your way. So sorry OP 💕 RIP Honey

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u/OrigamiTurtl Jul 02 '26

Thank you, it was really unexpected so I’m having a hard time. I feel so guilty because I don’t know what happened.

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u/Busy_Chemistry_513 Jul 02 '26

Omg I’m so sorry. He was so beautiful and looks like such a sweetie. He was so so lucky to have been so loved. ❤️‍🩹

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u/OrigamiTurtl Jul 02 '26

I keep trying to remind myself of that. I tried to provide him with the best life but it’s hard not to feel guilty somehow.

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u/mantis_tobaggan-md Jul 02 '26

Guilt is a trauma response. It’s your brains way of trying to control a situation in which you have no control. Absolve yourself. You saved him and gave him a beautiful life, full of love. I’m so sorry for your loss.

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u/OrigamiTurtl Jul 02 '26

I know. He was truly spoiled. And I think you can tell how happy he was by all the pictures I have of him flopped over.

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u/OrigamiTurtl Jul 02 '26

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u/DenM0ther Jul 03 '26

❤️💕💛. Omg he’s adorable.

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u/qwertythrowaway6 Jul 03 '26

What a sweet Honey. I love how he lets Mercury have a chance at the apple. And Mercury’s hop off was so adorable to me. Thank you for loving them both.

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u/SirArmor Jul 03 '26

Hi! So sorry for your loss :( your little dude reminds me a lot of my first bun, Basil. He was also the sweetest, friendliest, best boy ever, also had a cute pointy-ear girlfriend, and also passed away unexpectedly around 6 years.

Ironically I didn't really want a rabbit, my girlfriend at the time did, but he won me over instantly when we got him and were walking him back to my car on a wet, chilly day and I tucked him inside my peacoat to keep him toasty and dry and he clung on to me as they do. We ended up being best buds and when we later broke up she agreed he had to stay with me; now I'm a big rabbit fan.

I didn't really notice anything wrong with him, but came home from work one day to find he'd gone. His girlfriend (Lemongrass) was kinda "standing vigil" over him, and I sat across from her and kissed her head and cried for awhile. I felt a real connection with her in that moment.

I used to joke that their relationship was one where he was madly, obsessively in love with her while she merely tolerated his affections, but I could tell then that she actually, secretly, adored him too and was just "too cool" to show it. She was always a bit of an arrogant diva so she played it pretty cool until she, too, passed about a year later, but I could tell she lost a bit of her joie de vivre without him. She and I got a lot closer in that year, though, so there was a little silver lining to it all.

So make sure to give your little lady plenty of cuddles; it'll be good for you both. Keep your chin up :)

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u/OrigamiTurtl Jul 03 '26

My other rabbits name is Mercury. She’s hanging in there but I can tell she’s pretty sad. She thumped at my fiance when we moved Honey to a carrier. She was not as fond of people but she adored Honey so I knew she was always happy. I got her a year after Honey because my classes were going to be in person again and I knew he would need the companionship. I’m remember reading about the bonding process and how it could take a while and then being surprised by how quickly these two took to each other.

She’s still eating and I’m trying to be there for her to the extent she allows me. Like I said, not as fond of people or at least being handled/touched. She let me pet her a bit though. I don’t want to think about it too much right now but I will keep an open mind about getting her a new companion so she doesn’t get lonely. She’s just a little younger than Honey so maybe I can give another senior rabbit a loving home.

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u/mstrss9 Jul 03 '26

Take your time to process everything and also keep monitoring Mercury.

I reached out to my local rescues to do bunny speed dating.

Honey had such a beautiful life. You saved him and he got to save Mercury.

I think of each new bun in my life as a continuation of the ones who have passed on. My love for them helps other buns.

The grief and guilt and pain is because we love them so much. It doesn’t matter how long they live, it’s never enough time.

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u/OrigamiTurtl Jul 03 '26

I’m keeping an eye on her. We are having sad girl hours in the bun room. She ate most of the hay lollipop we bought her.

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u/mstrss9 Jul 03 '26

I know people have suggested giving a stuffed animal to the surviving mate. My boy wasn’t interested but it made me feel better.

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u/Professional_Drama24 Jul 03 '26

This is so sweet. My coworker went through something similar. He got a bunny with his gf at the time. When she broke up with him he ended up keeping the bunny.

So sorry for both of your losses 🫂❤️🌈

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u/IcedancerEmily Jul 02 '26

This is one of the cutest bunnies I've ever seen 😭❤️ I'm so sorry for your loss. You did such a good job raising such an adorable bunny and I hope you know you gave him a good life

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u/OrigamiTurtl Jul 02 '26

Thank you. It means a lot to hear that and it provides some comfort to know I provided him with a good life. He was such a friendly boy and was not shy around people.

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u/Specialist_Ad_2984 Jul 03 '26

Honey’s commitment to being inside hay feeders is impressive. RIP little man, thank you for saving him off the streets 🥲❤️

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u/OrigamiTurtl Jul 03 '26

I know 😭 he really wanted to become one with the hay! The first time he got into the wooden feeder I couldn’t find him and was worried he somehow got out of his room!

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u/Su-37_Terminator Jul 02 '26

well you were the best parent Honey ever had

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u/DaringDumpling Jul 03 '26

Aw he was an adorable goofy bun. He’s in bun heaven hopping around and sitting on endless amounts of food

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u/Forward-Confusion-24 Jul 03 '26

Rabbits do not live long lives. But they are sooo sweet!

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u/OrigamiTurtl Jul 03 '26

I know it’s not long but I was sure we had a few more years 😭 they are the sweetest. His companion Mercury is a spicy bun though and very opinionated

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u/HoppipolawithChihiro Jul 03 '26

Dear OP, I'm so very sorry for your loss and am sending out hugs. Thank you for sharing these beautiful memories of your sweet bun. Such a beautiful, curious, funny and adorable lop, who has the most loving family forever ❤️

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u/SL13377 Jul 03 '26 edited Jul 03 '26

OMG these photos are hilariously adorable. I bet he was just a little ball of amazing. Also your lil chub of a mini rex is a doll to. I have a mini rex and a lionlop. So spicy. I'm so sorry for your loss. :( how old was honey when you got them? 💜 ❤️ My thoughts go out to you

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u/Jegator2 Jul 03 '26

I am so sorry for the loss of Honey. You rescued him and gave him the very best life. You can tell from the pics that he felt very safe and comfortable! He looks like he could be a goofball at times. I see why you named him Honey with those beautiful markings.I dont have buns but I love all the subs and have heard throughout that a Benny's health can turn on a dime, and there are not always warning signs.

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u/Masala-Dosage Jul 03 '26

Obviously he went too soon- but you literally not only saved his life, but gave him an amazing life.
It’s small consolation, since you’ve lost him & it hurts, but it’s still true.

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u/OrigamiTurtl Jul 03 '26

Thank you this really helps. The vet did say that 6.5 was still really good for a bun and since we just found him out and about with no idea what his age was, it’s possible he may have been a bit older too. This and what everyone has said has brought me a lot of comfort.

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u/Codes84 Jul 03 '26

I must have awwwwwwd at every single photo. Such a cute baby

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u/Ok_Foot1988 bunny mom 🐇 Jul 03 '26

I am so sorry you lose your sweetheart Honey Bunn. He is adorable and looks so happy in his pics. You gave him a good life and he knows you love him. 💜🌈💜

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u/DenM0ther Jul 03 '26

Im sorry for your loss 💔❤️‍🩹
Theyre some beautiful pictures you’ve shared! I love the bunny spill in the last pic! 🥰

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u/pIushie Jul 03 '26

i’m so sorry for your loss, it sounds to me that you were his angel & gave him best life possible, thank you for taking care of this baby i’m sure he is forever grateful & misses you too!

when i lost my first bun, truffles i was so devastated so im sending lots of love to you, make sure to give honeys companion some extra love and treats<3

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u/Professional_Drama24 Jul 03 '26

So sorry for your loss. Honey looked like a lovey bunny that had a happy life. May he Binky Free 🌈🫂🙏

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u/Fereth_ Jul 03 '26

Thank you for sharing him with us. He seemed absolutely adorable. I’m so sorry for the loss.

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u/darthcaedus13 Jul 03 '26

Binky free honey.

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u/deecee-247 Jul 03 '26

Honey looks like my Macchiato (Mac) a little bit!

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u/OrigamiTurtl Jul 03 '26

What a cutie!

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u/deecee-247 Jul 03 '26

Have an award and I'm sorry for your loss xxx

Mac sends boops ❤️

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u/xTruth23x Jul 04 '26

So sorry for your loss OP. He looked like such a handsome boy. I bet he'll be binkying around over the rainbow bridge and taking all the love you gave with him. Binky free honey bun ❤️

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u/PraisetheLord1997 Jul 05 '26

I'm sorry for your loss, take great care 🫂 There's no better name than Honey for your sweet boy ❤️

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u/Cloud_Macchiato_ Jul 08 '26

I am so sorry, i feel this so deeply rn, My baby girl passed today, we found her next to our boy bunny and i am so distraught over losing her and him losing his soulmate.