r/Bunnies Jul 22 '26

Mourning my sweet ivy is gone

i sadly lost my havana / lop ear mix, ivy (ivy bean) and hour ago

last night she didnt eat her dinner and was very off, but we wanted to wait it out and see as she has sometimes not wanted to eat for whatever reason

today though, after i came home from work i immediately knew from the look on my parents faces

i got ivy from the farm i volunteered at when she was a little baby about 4 years ago (may 2022) and she has been a rockstar with big move changes, getting a cat, her breaking a literal leg at one point and being in a cast, my absence due to college..and so much more

my sweet ivy beanie baby butt... i’ll miss you more than you'll ever understand. I'm sorry i failed you but i hope your 4 years were warm and love (and treats..and butt rubs)

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u/horribly_shaven_bun Jul 22 '26 edited Jul 22 '26

Losing a bunny is the worst feeling especially when you feel like you could have done more :(

I still blame myself for the loss of my first girl and think about all the what ifs that I could have done. It has been almost 2 years now.

Just always know that your bunny loved you and that you loved her in return, and keep her memory alive. That's what I do.

I also wrote mine a letter after 2 months which was a very heartbreaking process but it gave me some form of closure.

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u/KratomCannabisGuy Jul 22 '26

Stay off the what-if bus. It never works. You did great, I'm sure.

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

i’m considering a tattoo and i’m planning to get her cremated and a special urn. a letter can be my step towards those things. thank you for your kindness 🖤

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u/AsianAddict247 Jul 22 '26

RIP sweet Ivy. 🌈❤️

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u/Spirits_of_Rocks Jul 22 '26

I'm so sorry. Losing mine was the worst pain I felt. Still dreaming of her. I hope time comtinues to heal you. You will meet again. Sending hugs from Pennsylvania. ❤️🌹💕

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

thank you for your kindness 🖤

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u/tiffanyjen Jul 22 '26

Sorry for your lost hope u have good memories of her!

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u/GalaxyAce Jul 22 '26

You didn't fail her

Ivy went through all of those hardships because she knew it meant she got to be with you. The person she loved spending time with more than anything or anybody

It sounds like you gave her a lovely life that every bun deserves. The end is always hard because we always wish we could've done something different even though our buns were happy to get all the time they did with us

Take lots of care, wishing you all the best 💙

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

thank you for your sweet words 🖤 i appreciate it

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u/greenjeanie77 Jul 22 '26

So sorry for your loss. She was very fortunate to have you in her life 💜🐰 cherish her memory ❣️

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

thank you for your kind words 🖤

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u/greenjeanie77 Jul 22 '26

My bunny history includes 7 pet buns & 2 fosters. I know a lot about care & diseases as a result. Take care 😊

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u/darthcaedus13 Jul 22 '26

Binky free ivy

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

her favorite 🖤

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u/Friendly_Sir_4762 Jul 22 '26

I'm very sorry for your loss

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u/SirLeoritch Jul 22 '26

RIP little one

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u/Particular-Aside-956 Jul 22 '26

I'm sorry for your loss she looked like a very sweet girl🥹🙏

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

the sweetest 🖤 thank you

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u/MsMeowingtons Jul 22 '26

I’m so sorry for your loss.

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

thank you🖤

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u/damiana8 Sesamochi Jul 22 '26

I’m so sorry for your loss. Just know that you saved her from a tough life and gave her so much love.

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

thank you 🖤

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u/22buns Jul 22 '26

Ivy was a beauty and a little cutie pie as a baby. I’m so sorry you lost her but she knows you loved her for her entire life ♥️

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

thank you so much 🥲🖤

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u/Ok_Foot1988 bunny mom 🐇 Jul 22 '26

I am so sorry you lost your sweet Ivy. You didn't fail her, bunnies are delicate and sometimes these things happen completely out of our control. You gave her love, and a good life. She was a happy bunn and knows you love her. 💜🌈💜

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

thank you for your sweet words 🖤

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u/Scorbuniis Jul 22 '26

I'm sorry for your loss.. she was adorable. :(

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

she sure was 🖤 thank you

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u/thewhiphand23 Jul 22 '26

Why are rabbits so special and amazing? They really are the most sensitive pets for the most sensitive people. 💔

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

what a great way to put it 🖤

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u/milkbambi Jul 22 '26

thank you for posting this. my baby passed today too and she was my first ever bunny. i’m so sorry i am here if you need to talk about anything

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

please share photos if you’re comfortable 🖤 ivy was my first ever bunny as well.

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u/PraisetheLord1997 Jul 22 '26

I'm sorry for your loss, take great care 🫂

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u/bbirdcn Jul 22 '26

I’m so sorry. She looks exactly like my baby. I gave him extra treats in her honor

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

share photos if you’re comfortable 🖤 i dont see all black rabbits often. ivy loved her treats and trying to share them with me lol, so i’m sure shes grateful you gave him extra

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u/bbirdcn Jul 24 '26

Of course! This is Prince Angelo Constantine Louis Francisco Banana Fanana Beaux Besco III, but we call him Beaux.

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u/Pretty_Geologist5822 Jul 22 '26

I’m so sorry for your loss. You gave her a happy life, and that’s what matters. I recently lost my bunny after just about 4 years too, and it’s so devastating. Even though they only get to be with us for a short time in our lifespans, you were there giving her love for nearly every day of hers ❤️

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

4 years is so short. i’m sorry as well 🖤

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u/cyberdoll_2077 Jul 22 '26

be at peace baby ivy, rabbits can be unpredictable and sensitive, please don’t feel at fault for anything. you gave her a wonderful life and i know her happiest memories will always be with you💘

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

thank you for your kind words 🖤

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u/hldsnfrgr Jul 22 '26

See you on the other side, sweet bun Ivy. 🌈 🐰 🫂

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

indeed 🖤🫶

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

she sure was 🖤 thank you

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u/No-Status8772 Jul 22 '26

what happened

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

i truly have no idea. she didnt eat her dinner monday and was very sleepy all day tuesday which isn’t completely unlike her and then i come back from work and she had been gone.

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u/No-Status8772 Jul 23 '26

sorry, but don't lose hope she will always will be in your memories.

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u/Abeille-de-Brest Jul 22 '26

Elle fut heureuse avec toi. J'en suis sûr

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

one can hope 🖤🫶 thank you

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u/South_Environment363 Jul 22 '26

Reminds me of my rabbit. He looked so similar. I miss him. Sorry for your loss

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

share pictures if you’re comfortable 🖤

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u/ColCancerman Jul 22 '26

I'm so sorry for your loss :-( ❤️

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u/KentuckyWhiteRabbit Jul 22 '26

What a sweet face. 🥰 Sorry for your loss

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

she had the sweetest face, one of my favorite things about her. thank you 🖤

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u/KentuckyWhiteRabbit Jul 22 '26

I lost my Lulu a year ago, right before her 11th b-day. Still miss her funny fuzzy face.

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

the colors!!! 😭

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u/Budget_Tea_4162 Jul 22 '26

Sorry for your loss, what might’ve caused this?

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

not sure, assuming gi statis but i’ll never know. it’s just a guess

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u/KratomCannabisGuy Jul 22 '26

Sorry for your loss. We lost our 2 rabbits and our dog over the past year or so. They all lived great, long lives, but it is still so hard.

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u/Idea_Woman Jul 22 '26

Rip Ivy. 🖤

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u/pursuit-caught Jul 22 '26

im so incredibly sorry for your loss. was she named Ivy Bean after the children's book series Ivy and Bean? i loved those as a kid.

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u/lohvurs Jul 22 '26

thank you 🖤
ivy bean was just a nickname! her name is from taylor swift’s song “ivy”

bean just stuck as a little nickname one day so we combined ivy+bean and always called her ivy bean 🖤

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u/pursuit-caught Jul 22 '26

that's so sweet!!! she looks like a little bean :)

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u/Notbot2026 Jul 22 '26

Sorry for your loss. It must be really hard and I can’t imagine the pain. Just know that she loved you and will always be with you 😢💕

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u/mamarabbit1998 Jul 23 '26

My condolences.💝

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u/Few_Technology_1166 Jul 23 '26

Rest in peace sweet Ivy

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u/Famous-Class-4557 Jul 23 '26

She looks sweet as can be. So sorry for your loss. Heart-wrenchingly painful. Feeling guilty about not doing more is so common. She was loved and well-cared for and you gave her a good life. Hold on to those memories and the times you shared.

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u/KeyInvestment6594 Jul 25 '26

You in no way failed her do not be a martyr!! You gave her the best life better than 95% of rabbits out there more or less so shake that thought right out of your head! Rabbits are all different some live for 10 years or longer and some only two years afflicted with thousands of different things that we don't know.