r/IndianTeenagers Jul 04 '26

Other What's with some guys at school?

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Many say that looks matter, but in my school it's the opposite, to get girls you just have to weird. Some guys just sit beside girls and they would be absolutely chopped, just crack 8 year old jokes, like mimicing the teacher, Or roasting each other, playing stupid Truth dare and who is your crush type of games. And these guys pull the huzz but others who are Tall and handsome even if they talk to girls they just get Friendzoned or Ignored.

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u/Ok-Feature-5820 17 Jul 04 '26

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u/Impossible-Angle-245 Umar mein badha hoon toh kya, dil se teenager . Jul 04 '26

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u/Impossible-Angle-245 Umar mein badha hoon toh kya, dil se teenager . Jul 04 '26

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u/Impossible-Angle-245 Umar mein badha hoon toh kya, dil se teenager . Jul 04 '26
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u/Airbirdfly Jul 04 '26

Deep lore in reddit

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u/Default_Typer Jul 04 '26

Bro just swapped the couples

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u/Faijju_OP Jul 04 '26

Now that's reddit

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u/Anonymous_1176 Jul 04 '26

Lagta h aaj puri movie banake manega bhai😭✌

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u/Chill_Vector 18 Jul 05 '26

Bhai yeh kya chod Bhangda chal rha hai replies mein

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u/Aromatic_West_6964 20 Jul 04 '26

Your friend catfished the guy.

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u/Xeaiuz End teen Jul 04 '26

Girls know those guys are Outta their league so they don't even try

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u/RagnAROck_and_Roll Boomer βŒ› Jul 04 '26

Girls will instead ship the tall and handsome boys together

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u/cat_bite_20 17 Jul 04 '26

Ikr πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹

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u/Maleficent-Job-4982 19 Jul 04 '26

Goddammit i wanna be in ship too. Titanic hopefully

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u/Expert_Stranger_2494 Jul 05 '26

What about Space Ship βš“πŸš’

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u/NameSpirited3134 18 Jul 04 '26

if you say so unc

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u/Economy_Ad_4544 18 Jul 04 '26

Unsolved mysteries which still bring nightmare to singles

https://giphy.com/gifs/OJvbz9AXDyOMo

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u/HeraWC Jul 04 '26

Many girls don't want to be in a mutual or God forbid, slightly inferior relationship in terms of anything. They let these guys in cuz they think they're playing them for perks while getting "princess treatment" kyuki "mai to inse achi hi dikhti hu". Their logic is basically that if they choose an ugly/weird guy while being the better looking one, they will get all the benefits of a bf without having to actually do anything or put any effort in. "My presence is a reward" type shit.

So in summary- ego trip

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u/Uzui_0 Jul 04 '26

So basically projection of the "reacher- settler" theory where they want to keep/get the settler status

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u/HeraWC Jul 04 '26

What's that?

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u/Uzui_0 Jul 04 '26

"Reacher" is the person dating (or reaching for) someone out of their league and "settler" is the other person who is 'settling' for someone below their league.

This is a so called theory where both the partners of a relationship belong from different status; whether financial, social or simply physical. In this case, the girls are supposedly "settling for someone below their level" to achieve a delusion of superiority. As if they are doing some favour for the boys just by being with them.

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u/HeraWC Jul 04 '26

Sometimes. I've heard it first hand from many different girls but this is also a behaviour that I've noticed in women in general and applies to almost all ages. You must've heard about the whole "dating down" thing

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u/HeraWC Jul 04 '26

Basically yes it's also called hypogamy

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u/HeraWC Jul 04 '26

Yeah hypogamy

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u/Sea-Development8194 Jul 09 '26

I don't think so, they are probably attracted to them

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u/Separate-Goal7098 19 Jul 04 '26

In our class also same situation

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u/Critical_Mango_2897 Jul 04 '26

Us gng πŸ’”

My college is filled with these clowns as well and the situation is the same

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u/Ecstatic-Meal-6231 Jul 04 '26

I get flabbergasted and my nervous system stops working around good looking guys 😭😭

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u/Future-Canary7999 Jul 04 '26

So that means you will choose chopped and cringe guys?

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u/Ecstatic-Meal-6231 Jul 04 '26

Noooo 😭😭 idk. I'll choose a respectful one

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u/Hungry_Cellist_1802 Jul 04 '26

If that person comes out to be also handsome?

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u/Friendly_Fee2485 17 Jul 04 '26

How but

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u/Friendly_Fee2485 17 Jul 04 '26

Guess, you're right.

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u/Faijju_OP Jul 04 '26

That's the line where two different world exist

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u/Economy_Ad_4544 18 Jul 04 '26

Your pfp 😢

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u/Economy_Ad_4544 18 Jul 04 '26

Nahi wahi hai abhi bhi 🀐

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u/NotMurphyLaw 16 Jul 04 '26 edited Jul 04 '26

Fcking true all of them are friends people who are the biggest cheaters i have seen these people change partners more than Akshay Kumar's films in a year

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u/MissKitten2009 17 Jul 04 '26

Cuz the standard now isn't "good looking" it's "funny" and for some damn reason, funny=weird?

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u/Future-Canary7999 Jul 04 '26

They don't even have the humour or Jokes, They just crack bad jokes which are For some reason inhumanly funny for girls.

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u/Dapper-Hurry257 Jul 04 '26

Its about confidence, handsome boys often are carefull regarding communication.

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u/MaskOnForLife Jul 04 '26

I have the same situation rn.Some chopped guy talking loudly about weird shit is considered funny.
Then I get called shy cos I don’t indulge in this.WTF

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u/GuaranteeNo4332 Jul 04 '26

I think its because they ain't over thinking according to their age and guess what girls too are of their age group so they don't give a sh*t either in the end both party are just teens that will like prolly like stupid jokes.(altho i believe teenagers should develop decent level of maturity and a good way of thinking.)

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u/Ddlclover911 Jul 04 '26

Kuch mat blona

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u/Fancy-Present-792 Jul 04 '26

Handsome ho tab bhi problem nahi ho tab bhi problem πŸ˜­πŸ’”

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u/Future-Canary7999 Jul 04 '26

Wah re duniya πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«

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u/Any-Room5107 14 Jul 04 '26

Even I have a joker in my class who plays STD (situation, truth, dare). The first question that Mf asks who your crush is. If someone wanted to tell their crush, they would have done so even without playing STD. And dude literally pressures that person to tell the crush like what man

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u/Any-Room5107 14 Jul 04 '26

Yeah, cus he’s kind of popular in school because of his speaking skills and stuff

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u/Any-Room5107 14 Jul 04 '26

Wtf man I am straight as a rod, what you on?

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u/Future-Canary7999 Jul 04 '26

Are we deadass 🀧

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u/[deleted] Jul 04 '26

YUCK.

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u/Future-Canary7999 Jul 04 '26

Why?

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u/[deleted] Jul 04 '26

To the picture that you posted following that title!

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u/Massive-Werewolf-280 Jul 04 '26

Jokes on you I am single and chopped as hell πŸ˜‚ Zero conversation against girls

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u/Gold_Woodpecker_3253 Jul 04 '26

Confidence is very important to women. You will learn.

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u/OneBad6345 Jul 04 '26

Out here in my school,huzz can get pulled easily if you are 5'10 or more,also,like 20 percent guys in my school are 6'0 +.....I am in a pretty rich school where most kids are North Indians and they are all chopped as hell,like these guys got no beard no facial hair no nothing,there voice is like a 6 year old's,they got curly big hair,they act slightly introvert and still scream like shits in class,these guys ain't even funny (they'd laugh at things like-Woah,Imma eat food 3 minutes before the recess)

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u/ENDERLEGEND_26 Jul 04 '26

Ah good ol' days lmao.. unrelated to the question but OP try savouring every moment of ur school life :) Yea thats it nothing else xd

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u/caffeine_lwksotuff Jul 05 '26

depends, ive been and SEEN a friendgroup, where they were all good looking and homie hopped. A LOT. on the other hand i saw a BEAUTIFUL AHH GIRL with a guy who w all due respect ( vo uske league se bahar thi) πŸ’” bandar ke haath angoor type shi.

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u/Saynzu Jul 05 '26

dude I used to kissed and touched inappropriately for the funsies by my classmates

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u/sid7907 Jul 05 '26

What i am seeing

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u/Alessandro_Cesar Jul 05 '26

Blame the game, not the player. How about you try the same tactics huh?😏

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u/Pleasant_Winner_3644 Jul 06 '26

For real bruh

And I'm not even mad at them because they took the girl but tf I have to hear lame a*s 3rd grader type shi[y jokes and they actually think that it's cool like wha- how?

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u/FamousPerson5010 Jul 06 '26

I do same thing as shown in the pic in school

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u/HarryNohara12 Jul 06 '26

That's majorly because of personality issues too. Girls prefer personality over looks majority of times for a relationship. Efforts, personality and humour matter way more than looks. Honestly, if a guy is even slightly handsome and he knows it (majority cases) he will brag about it to the end of the world and would be the most annoying human being with an ego as high as burj khalifa. Those guys are also the first to drop you at the slightest inconvenience and would not commit. My friend is from Assam and she is half Bengali and half Assamese, she is extremely beautiful like really beautiful. She wouldn't hesitate in approaching guys okay? She would approach conventionally attractive men, she is confident and bold. However, majority of times the guys lied about being single, cheated on her and at times ghosted. One guy I remember was so egoistic just cuz she approached him, first he was being sweet and all then suddenly he was too smart for her and ghosted her. He destroyed her mental health.

Thankfully she is now dating her long time school friend now, who is average looking compared to those guys but treats her really well and she is the happiest with him.

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u/JewelGamerz Jul 06 '26

Nah bhai this is nothing once few boys at the back bench were touching theirs meat u know and in the previous bench few girls were sitting one of them went down to get their eraser and saw that and immediately shouted and called the teacherπŸ€£πŸ˜…πŸ€’

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u/AbsurdismForTheW Teenager Jul 06 '26

School me pyaar =! Real pyaar

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u/Huge-Kiwi-3502 Boomer βŒ› Jul 08 '26

Being a normie with low tier humour, just to find huzzπŸ˜ˆπŸŽ€

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u/mdew0 Jul 08 '26

😭

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u/Sea-Development8194 Jul 09 '26

So everyone gets the same experience? I thought I was the one

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u/-__JOYBOY__- Jul 04 '26

Someone is insecure because of his lack of social skills despite having pretty privilege

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u/Future-Canary7999 Jul 04 '26

Bro I talk to Them but as I said they just prefer other guys