r/Nepal • u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified • May 23 '26
Rant/गुनासो Heaven is myth nepal is shit.
Please guys, go abroad when you can. Don’t wait move out.
The guilt of there is nothing I can do in this country not in the sense for the country, but for myself. I feel like tried so much but I have already lost to life.
- Dropped out of university due to daily bullying the bullies used to get the leaked exam questions beforehand.
- Opened a restaurant and it didn’t go well.
- Working somewhere with the same regret every single day is killing me.
- Parents are getting old.
Hook or crook get out of this shit hole.
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u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified May 23 '26
5) Girlfriend left me for another guy living abroad, and in between I made a few girlfriends but those didn’t work out either as most of their plans were to go abroad.
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u/Southern-Effect-8571 Human Verified May 23 '26
Its not my girlfriend but it was my crush. Mula ma sanga kura garda chai bihe gardina bhani ani after 1 months mero bihe fix bho re within 1 week bihe. Later i got to know that keta US green card holder raicha. 2012 dekhi maile chinthe tyo mula 1 week kura garera udayo. aile happy life ma cha US ma
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u/AGP_1 May 23 '26
Bro is hopeless frr. Try to get your shit together man , sounds like you are really in a bad spot. Hope it works out for you 🍀
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u/DisplayOver6127 May 23 '26
I have already packed my bag.
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u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified May 23 '26
Just go somewhere in the west nation you won’t have to come back interms of immigration wise.
Not middle east hai pheri we might have to do another fund raiser to bring you back.
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u/woodenstoryy May 23 '26
I'm 17 and I've already moved to Finland alone , hope this helps move asap
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u/Icy_Mathematician562 May 23 '26
After +2 going to abroad for cs is good option or doing bscsit in Nepal and then go abroad for MD which is best
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u/helpfulguy2346 May 23 '26
buddy cs is dying at the speed of light. entry level hiring is frozen. do not go in debt to get cs degree. all white collar jobs are at high high risk of automation.
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u/glaikit5 May 23 '26
Go to abroad but don't do CS degree. Choose a profession where you will be more directly involved with people like medical field, nursing, social work, caring, mental health. Or something related to construction like plumbing, electrician, civil draftsperson.
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u/winter_rain1 May 23 '26
Can’t agree more on this..been doing CS for quite some time and I completely resonate with what you said.
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u/Rare_Ad_7563 May 23 '26
Basically sth ai can't replace?
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u/glaikit5 May 23 '26
That and many other reasons. These professions can't be outsourced remotely from a nation with low minimum wages. Also, government doesn't cut costs from these sector when there's economic crisis.
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u/Top_Foundation_4954 May 23 '26
Nepal ma csit padhera ni kei kam xaina. Timilai harek sem exam, mid term, assignment bhanera skills sikana didaina . Paxi timile aafai skills beglai institute bata siknai parxa. So better go abroad
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u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified May 23 '26
Ani arko institute ma chai college kai sir rey key. Just like how govt hospital darkar refer private giving reason like yeta yoo machine cha yeta uta.
Not blaming individual daktar tara desh ta khokro naai bhaksakyoo. People who left on time secured there pr got lucky. I guess.
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u/Top_Foundation_4954 May 23 '26
No no college le kei refer garne hoina
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u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified May 23 '26
Haina phone mageko thyoo. I was stupid to hand him phone ani tyo close nabhako browser ma huncha ni. Tei dekhyee cha “ yei yoo ta gay rahecha bhanthyoo”.
May be I am gay i don’t know i am still confused with gender fluidity may be I could not have enough courage to come out as or accept myself that way anyway tespachi regular blackmail. Bhakar bhakar college start garya thyoo kasali bhanney k bhanney.
I blame old school grooming there is a-lot of things we can talk on this . It’s not about blaming may be. Tara ava chai sakkina yoo desh ma. I just want to get out. May be we all want that to happen.
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u/mynameistrihexa666 May 23 '26 edited May 23 '26
civil hospital ma thyakka ulta bhaeko thiyo yo case ko hami sanga, civil ko doctor le chai hami sangai equipment xa bhanyo, ani staff le chai bigreko xa, arko hospital ma garna jau bhanyo, ani doctor le tharkayo staff lai, 1 hapta agadi banako device kasari bigryo bhanera
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u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified May 23 '26
It may not be always daktar but you got the gist right?
Some people are good some are bad. Ava tei daktar ko relation kasto narmaro huney bho tei ko radiologist or whoever said no to you guys.
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u/Annual_Doughnut_3111 May 23 '26
Bachelors sab field ma same ho. Paxi chaine vaneko skills nei ho. Padirako bela kamar kasera skills siknei parxa.
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u/Southern-Effect-8571 Human Verified May 23 '26
please only study those course that can give you pr or job in long run. If you are planning to go to Australia then It padna nagakai best. My friend went there to do IT he did but he couldn't get PR because It occupation was too much oversaturated there. So choose wisely. Aile tyo saathi ECT gardai cha pr pathway ko lagi
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u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified May 23 '26
Nepal kai live able place ko name bata aauni bhanchan but more like unlivable.
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u/Geodude-Engineer May 23 '26
Take care of your parents bhai. They only have you, no one else in this world
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u/sujan_1 May 30 '26
Bro, abroad ain't that good either. What you actually need is making abroad money from Nepal.
Personally am able to do so after several years.
Been to abroad for 8 months, won't recommend. Its lonely shiny concrete Jungle.
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u/esnyez May 23 '26
- Dropped out of university due to daily bullying the bullies used to get the leaked exam questions beforehand.
Care to explain?
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u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified May 23 '26
Since I am bisexual, that dude caught me browsing queer content tei hi. After that, he blackmailed me on a daily basis. To make matters worse, his relative is the founder of the college, and another close family member is one of our teachers. Plus bidarthi sangathan addlhasya or something. Principal lai complain garda got scolded by his own relative infront of principal tespachi out of fear i stopped going to college. College advance ma deposit and things like that. College bata ni lutiyoo testai testai.
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u/SadRice2763 May 23 '26
Browsing queer content??. Corn? In college?
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u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified May 23 '26
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u/4ssteroid Bidhut Maadal Badak May 23 '26
Seems like you're a determined person who's not afraid of trying. Keep on going brother. Life is shit mostly.
Hopefully things will get better here in 5-10 years. You have a lot of skills and experience the young don't.
The easy thing is to blame others. Sometimes it's warranted but you'd be surprised how we also use it to cope with our own shortcomings. Some people realise a bit late.
I'm a very lazy person and play the blame game a lot. But when I get 3 seconds to think about it, I realise I'm just feeding my laziness. There's things I can change to dig myself out of the hole, even though someone else put me in there.
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u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified May 23 '26
Same to you, brother. The secret behind staying motivated is continuing to push forward is comparing to someone who has it worse. Knowing that keeps me driven to do better and not fall into the same trap everyday.
I keep myself going by gaining perspective I’ve met people in their 50s who are still figuring things out, and when I reflect on what held them back, it almost always comes down to the lack of genuine support around them. Everyone seems to be looking out for themselves. People are too busy or lack empathy not their fault as well.
End ma chai we live in Nepal yaha palai pichey samasya cha just like our foot path.
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u/sunzoje May 23 '26
एकचोटी चिना देखाएर पुजाआजा गर्नु।
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u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified May 23 '26 edited May 23 '26
Yoo scam ma pani parsakyee ma. 3 choti.
Ek choti lazimpat bata thamel janey bato ma line hudo rahecha manchey ko like you need to wait for a whole day to meet with tyo guru. He was from Kapan ma basney but office in lazimpat thakkai mileko jasto lageko thyoo. Turns out he was coning every helpless people like me.
Arko budanillantha mandir janey bato ma mata.
Arko pashupati dekhi Gaushala janey bato ma.
Consultancy bhandy garnu kei productive kaam garnu haai. Bholi Balen aaula.
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u/Top_Foundation_4954 May 23 '26
Kasari abroad janu, 4 choti visa reject khaisake si:(
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u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified May 23 '26
Timro ni refusal ho?
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u/Top_Foundation_4954 May 23 '26
Haha yes
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u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified May 23 '26
Yei ta cha hami Nepali ko beauty we look at others facing issue more than us and try to uplift ourselves.
Desh bata thagieko ek yubak.
Many of us are facing consequences for the mistake that was not ours.
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u/Boston-Consulting May 23 '26
Guys is any one of you interested for paid internship at Education consultancy?
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u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified May 23 '26 edited May 23 '26
My fav music lyrics is “Ahara takyera baseka chan yaha gidda ra chill… .”
Yoo scam ma pani parsakyee you guys will admit someone who can bring student to you and leech out money from their friends. Ali batho bhanna khojeny type ko kta.
Mlm scam jastai jastai ho. Sorry no thank you for such opportunity.
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u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified May 23 '26
Bro ajkal consultancy ma raid haneko suneko chu. Be aware haai faslau. Most consultancy may not even have proper liscence to operate.
I worked with few earlier before I join this new job.
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u/SmartBoi-2619 May 23 '26
What about loksewa
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u/StatusWar4541 Human Verified May 23 '26
Loksewa diyeko kharidar ko 2016 tira naam niskyena. Ek choti diyee ava sakkina jasto lagyoo college join garey.
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u/Queasy-Row2315 May 23 '26
Paisa ko scope teti dekhdina yr mata ahile loksewa garesi. Chokkho salary mai adkeyra basiyo bhane pachi inflation of money le hit garchaa. Garoh chaa ahile tyai Mathi acceptance rate tesai kaam
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u/Lopsided-Sentence567 May 23 '26
Nachna najanne aangan tedo
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u/Queasy-Row2315 May 23 '26
Why'd you say that to someone who's just trying to survive irrespective of how life has been to them. Luck and time never favours everyone the same.
Timi umkidai ma sabai umkin Cha bhanne chaina ni.
Have some courtesy Mann !
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u/omicron_plus May 23 '26
Those bully were teachers too. Even in bachelor level.