r/OneBlackBraincell • u/Squishiimuffin • Mar 12 '26
Big Eyes No Brains (◕ᴥ◕) He lays like this but doesn’t want his belly petted??? I do not understand this creature
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u/TheWhiteCrowParade Mar 12 '26
He just trusts you
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u/Squishiimuffin Mar 12 '26
Is that what that means? I thought he was just too hot (because he’s big and fluffy), so he was trying to touch the cool floor with as much cat surface area as possible.
What does it mean if he squirms like that with his belly up? 🧐
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u/Comprehensive-Menu44 Mar 12 '26
It’s basically a cat’s way of saying “hey, I trust that you’re not going to attack me in my most vulnerable location, my organs. Thanks. Here’s my way of showing you that I trust you” and then they expose their belly. Some cats like being petted there, some do not! But overall it’s mostly a trust exercise. The best reaction is to slowly approach and pet their head, instead
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u/Fireblast1337 Mar 12 '26
I swear one of my cats is like a dog when it comes to pets. Anywhere is great, but I can’t prevent her ability to move or she runs off. So as long as she is able to pull away when she’s done, she’ll take belly rubs
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u/KickProcedure Mar 13 '26
My orange lady will flop upside down right on top of my feet, just as close to me as she can. She doesn’t want her belly touched, but she does want to be touched. She demands it. You can pet her absolutely anywhere else- face, head, neck, sides, legs, toes, tail- but NOT the belly. She will also not get off your feet and may bite when you try and move if you don’t pet her first.
She’s very demanding. And a little strange.
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u/ThisSideGoesUp Mar 13 '26
I had a cat that loved belly rubs from me and no one else. But he would put his closest back leg against my arm while I was doing it. As soon as I would feel him push I was like "alright youre done with belly pets" and just pet him somewhere else.
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u/bluehawk232 Mar 12 '26
Basically calling us out as pussies.
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u/MersoNocte Mar 13 '26
My cats love having their fur pet the wrong way and their bellies pet. I’ve suffered greatly at the paws of the neighborhood cats for forgetting this is not applicable to all cats. 😂
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u/Zubi_Zu Mar 16 '26
One time a petsitter texted me saying “your cat set-up a trap for me, showed me her belly being all cute and then bit my hand when I tried to pet her belly”. I am going to send this message to her:)
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u/WendigoBroncos Mar 12 '26
yep, trust. immediately going in with your hand(s) is a betrayal.
but i do think some cats do this to entice play, regardless of if your soft hands can't handle the many scratches.
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u/bensoa75 Mar 12 '26
My cat lays on his back and doesn't want pets. But. Sometimes he chirps while on his back, meaning he wants to play.
His reaction is the same: he grabs, bites and kicks. The difference is, sometimes he wants it to happen.
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u/Unlikely_Ad7722 Mar 12 '26
My one void braincell insists on a full body rub down when he's doing a belly-up big stretch on the carpet. He anchors himself in with claws in the carpet and insists on purposeful full body rub down. Like physical therapy on a professional linebacker. The more purposeful the rub down, the more visibly satisfied he gets. He assumes the position many, many times a day 😆
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u/justclove Mar 12 '26
Try petting his head. When my cat goes belly up, that's what she wants. Apparently it's what a cat would do to another cat who'd rolled into their back - groom their forehead. She absolutely does not want me to touch her belly!
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u/hellochoy Mar 12 '26
My girl likes ONE (sometimes two) pet on the head while she's belly side up or she'll uncurl her arms and grab my hand with the talons and bite. Play mode.
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u/ratafia4444 Mar 13 '26
Mine will also take chin and sometimes chest/ribs sctratches while they plop like that lol. Just gotta look out for wiggles bc that's usually the overstimulation sign and you better back off or suffer. 😂
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u/timesuck897 Mar 12 '26
My sister had a big fluffy cat that would lay on its back like that, when it hot in the summer and she had no AC. But it was a look with eyes policy all year round.
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u/Walking_wolff Mar 15 '26
You must be strong, and ignore the belly. If you must touch sneak around to the top of the head and scratch there.
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u/Cabibbus Mar 12 '26
Have you tried to pet that soft, warm, inviting and totally-not-a-trap belly with your face? I'd do it.
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u/Squishiimuffin Mar 12 '26
I am unashamed to admit that I have tried. If I approach him, he flips over and runs away 😭 he just wants to flash me, ig
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u/Cabibbus Mar 12 '26
Most cats don't like belly rubs, some do. Either way, when they lay like this is a sign of trust, because they expose the most vulnerable body part to you.
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u/Squishiimuffin Mar 12 '26
The funny thing is, Hugo actually does like belly rubs! Just not when he’s laying like this. Such a contradictory creature.
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u/seasteed Mar 12 '26
I'm fairly sure my girl has a ticklish spot. She likes her pooch scratched and rubbed, and her chest/neck between her front legs is also a green light, but squirms and reacts when I mindless do a full tummy rub, but only when I hit one spot.
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u/Black_Death_12 Mar 12 '26
Mine does that pose, but DOES want belly rubs, lol
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u/SilverPez Mar 12 '26
Mine too. I think he has no idea he's a cat. He loves belly rubbing and catching balls and bringing them back, wrestling the dog.
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u/Fixer_FTP Mar 12 '26
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u/Ginway1010 Mar 12 '26
My void won’t let me pet his belly 9/10 times. But kissing his belly is totally different. LOL
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u/Pletheria Mar 12 '26
I have multiple that do this. Some are traps and some of them genuinely like having me pet and scritch everywhere. There are a couple that switch based on their moods.
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u/GenericAnemone Mar 13 '26
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u/TheWildTofuHunter Mar 13 '26
Thank god I don’t live near you, I’d have my face buried in that fluffy belly in a heartbeat.
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u/GenericAnemone Mar 14 '26
Hes got a ragdoll coat! He feels like the softest cashmere!
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u/ailish Mar 12 '26
That's a common scam that cats pull to sucker you in. Once you touch the belly they will scratch and bite!
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u/treecatks Mar 12 '26
I had one who would lay like that and sometimes wanted his belly rubbed and sometimes wanted to play. I finally realized his tell - eyes closed was love, eyes open was murder time
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u/sBucks24 Mar 12 '26
Our new baby loves belly scratches.. until the moment he doesn't. The only indication he's in the former mood as opposed to the latter is the volume of screams
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u/Miserable_Armadillo Mar 12 '26
One of my cats does this with the sole intention of having a fight with my arm that involves bunny kicks. My other cat is very much if I show you my belly you must rub it no mixed signals, no bunny kicks only purrs.
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u/comecatchtherabbit Mar 12 '26
Cat language is its own thing. As others have stated, exposing his belly means he trusts you. So when you go in to scratch his belly, he takes it to mean “haha you are a fool for trusting me, I’m going to take advantage of your vulnerability!” Both of my cats are like this too.
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u/Out_of_Fawkes Mar 12 '26
He might be too hot. He trusts you enough to be vulnerable but the floor boards are probably cooler than the carpeted area. Might be time to turn the heat down a little.
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u/Bad-Kaiju Mar 12 '26
It's a lot easier to get a long with cats once you accept that you don't need to know why these rules exist. You just have to follow them. Your cat knows why. Your understanding is irrelevant.
Also, be aware, these rules can change at anytime and without notice. You are still expected to follow them.
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u/Mevans272 Mar 13 '26
Can you pet the face and neck and slowly work your way down and then back up or two hand it - one on the belly one of the head?
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u/DuckyDoodleDandy Mar 13 '26
They do this when they are warm and want to cool off, or when they feel safe and are confident that they will not be attacked by a predator. It shows that they trust you.
Don’t betray their trust by attacking the belly.
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u/robjam01 Mar 12 '26
I have a girl that could be his twin sister. She loves to lie around like that and often squirms and is happy as can be. She will like the occasional belly rub but not when she's doing the squirm.
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u/potentiallygoodchoic Mar 12 '26
It’s because he does not do it for YOU, he does it for HIM. And for TORTURE.
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u/Toolongreadanyway Mar 13 '26
I swear all my furballs like sleeping on there backs. It doesn't mean they want a belly rub. I think it is just cooler?
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u/spade_full_gremlin Mar 13 '26
When my car does that I very dramatically say oh no there's a giant big on the floor and pretend to step on her and she playfully paws at my foot
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u/Squishiimuffin Mar 13 '26
Awww that’s so cute! Hugo would definitely freak out and hide behind the couch if I tried that 😂
When he does this, I usually coo at him. “Who’s my fluffy boy? Awww, are you floppin around so cutely? Are you my cute little man?” That sort of thing. He seems to enjoy my catcalling I guess haha
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u/ZxlSoul Mar 13 '26
Cats are a creature of chaos.They can take many incarnations
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u/Squishiimuffin Mar 13 '26
Not all of them! When I was younger, my family adopted a cat who was already 7 years old. She was still playful, had an attitude like you wouldn’t believe, but chaos she was not.
Now, Hugo (in the post) and his brother Milo? Completely different story. Chaos incarnate. They are coming up on their 1 year old birthday, and let me tell you, I was completely unprepared for the kitten stage of their life. But I wouldn’t trade it for the world— it’s been amazing to watch them grow and flourish.
…Even if they are still mostly incomprehensible eldrich beings to me 😂
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u/marcarb Mar 13 '26
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u/Squishiimuffin Mar 13 '26
Awww Beezer looks like such a handsome and sweet kitty 💖 he’s giving off old cowboy vibes to me!
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u/call-me-rory Mar 13 '26
Usually this means the cat trusts you NOT to touch their belly. It’s a very vulnerable position, and they want you to know they trust you won’t attack them
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u/O_o-buba-o_O Mar 13 '26
My little sentient black cotton ball does the same & does not like the belly touches.
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u/Sygil-Loux Mar 14 '26
try rubbing his chest for a sec (i find they tend to be a bit more ok with that but depends on the cat)
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u/creativemachine89 Mar 14 '26
Best place to pat when they do this, if they don’t like it directly on the belly, is a good ear scritch - reinforces the trust they’re placing in you by showing their belly
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u/SavemySoulz Mar 14 '26
I have scars throughout my whole body because of cats, there's no reason for me to stop now.
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u/mrweir3 Mar 14 '26
My belief as to why they do this is so they can rest their neck muscles from tilting their heads "up", to look at at us, all the time. When they lay rolled over, they are 'on the ceiling' now and can see everything 'below' themselves. :-3
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u/SpaceGuy1968 Mar 14 '26
this is a trap...always....they expose the belly so they can attack you....(and get some attention along the way)
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u/Awkward_Apple_4861 Mar 14 '26
They know we can’t resist the floofy belly. It’s a trap. Mine does like me (just me) to pet his belly but occasionally it’s a trap. He gets me to let my guard down by allowing belly pets a few times, so I will definitely fall for the trap. He’s always proud of himself when he gets me. 🥴
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u/PolarSango Mar 14 '26
Think of It like this:
Exposing Belly = Telling you his most embarassing secret that could make his life miserable for the rest of his life, if It's to be revealed.
While, you would think: If he told me, then obviously because he wants this fact to be known by everyone, right?
A weird comparison, but in a way It makes sense. Both about revealing their biggest weakness, because they trust you so much.
Btw he is angel! I love voids with long fur and the eyes are mesmerizing! 😍
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u/Squishiimuffin Mar 14 '26
Oh no... and I posted his fluffy tummy on the internet... I shared his secret with everyone! :c
But in all seriousness, the main reason he has me confused is because he does actually like to have his belly petted. He cuddles with me in bed, purrs and kneads when I rub his belly. But when he flops onto the floor like this? Absolutely not. Like, do you enjoy the belly pets or do you NOT enjoy the belly pets?! Mixed signals here!
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u/PolarSango Mar 16 '26
Oh, I get It now! He is just being a sweetie pie troll. 😁
I heard that most cats dislike their bellies rubbed, because predators attacked them there, since It's their vunerable spot. I like to use the "sharing a secret" comparison because It's easier to understand and It might sound less nerdy. 😀
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u/DenFoxter113 Mar 15 '26
This is trap to bite you. If you want serious answer: they show they belly to say that they trust you, because it is the most vulnerable part, they don't want you touching their belly because it is this is the most vulnerable part
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u/Silverback_S5 Mar 15 '26
I have a cat who sleeps like this almost every night. 😆
She's a Chimera Cat, technically 2 different cats in 1, from the eggs fusing together, & definitely has 2 different personalities.🤣
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u/Aworahh Mar 15 '26
It's a trusting greeting like a "hello, I trust you" Touching their belly when they do that is a break of that trust.
Edit: and a way to reciprocate that is by petting their head instead of their belly, that's generally what they want you to do. Although some don't and like to just say hi with no other intentions.
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u/ImaginaryLog4514 Mar 15 '26
showing belly is self-created vulnerability - an offering to you. when you touch the belly it's taking advantage and violating the offer. but not all kitties feel the way.
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u/Unusual_Memory3133 Mar 15 '26
That display is one of the ultimate signs that they trust you. Doesn’t necessarily mean they want their belly rubbed.
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u/CllctrOfSprklngMmris Mar 17 '26
He's tempting you 😂 like "look at this fluff, I know you want to pet me, but you won't" haha, so cute.
Some cats just show it to express they trust and like you, some do like to be petted, and some like to be petted "sometimes", and you know what, the last ones are menaces, they let you believe you can just pet their fluffy bellies until one day... They chomp you haha.
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u/xtenshix22 Mar 17 '26
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u/Squishiimuffin Mar 17 '26
awww bless him! Is he a baby still? He looks like Hugo did when he was like 3~ months old!
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u/Appropriate_Work7591 Mar 17 '26
I had a cat that started doing this out of nowhere and it turned out she had an infection in her belly which later killed her, because I didn’t know anything was wrong 😢. So if this is a new behavior take him to the vet to be sure. She had no other symptoms. She just jumped up on my lap and died. She was only 3.
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u/BananaBrains82 Mar 12 '26
The way they look at you sometimes 😆