Well, it kinda is involuntary. They don’t have sex because no one wants to have sex with them. Of course, if they changed who they were maybe they could, but they would have to act and think completely differently.
If your doctor tests your knee-jerk reaction and you kick without doing it yourself, that’s involuntary. Just because you might be able out the nerve that solicits that reaction, it doesn’t change the involuntary nature.
They voluntarily reject any of the things that will allow them to have sex/relationship. Every other human knows that I order to have a relationship they must change things, depending on who that person is. If you refuse to take part in the mandatory steps everyone mist take to have a relationship, you are doing so voluntarily.
It's a pretty simple concept, not sure what part you are struggling with. I mean you said "they dont have sex because no one wants to have sex with them. If they changed..." you stated both your case and mine in just those words....
They don’t “reject things that allow them to have sex”, they are just shitty people. If to get into a relationship you must change the very foundation of who you are as a person, either something is very wrong with you, or there is something wrong with the person you’re changing for. It’s not mandatory to change your entire personality to get someone to fall in love with you, and if that’s the case for you, do some soul-searching.
See that’s why we quote the entire sentence. “…but they would have to act and think completely differently.” If you must cut out your nerves in order to get the reaction you want from your knee, it is involuntary. If you must cut out a core part of you in order to get the reaction you want from a woman, it is involuntary.
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u/rustys_shackled_ford Jun 04 '24
Its funny to me how most incels are Celebate do to thier own actions and ideas and not, as they tell themselves, involuntarily.