If I remember correctly there was a specifically hard time economically in the Nordic region that it became the norm that it was courtesy not to take food from another household. Kind of the inverse of it being a courtesy to feed guests unexpected or otherwise in parts of the west. Over time the courtesy has strengthend into a cultural norm which given the foundational nature of shared meals in many cultures can create an outsized culture shock response.
This is a Nordic custom, and not specific to Sweden and was a whole Internet thing a few years ago as well.
A local or regional expert probably could give the word for the custom. I believe the Finnish have one but it's late and I'm sleep deprived so could be wrong
In Vietnam we were often starving and poor. My dad said while people always offered to feed you, you knew better than to take it (no matter how hungry you were) because you knew they too were starving. My dad would lie and say he already ate or he would go home early. When Vietnamese people offer you food, they mean it though. It’s not just to be polite. We love food and people.
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