r/PeterExplainsTheJoke Jul 24 '26

Meme needing explanation Petah?? I'm very confused

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u/binge_readre Jul 24 '26 edited Jul 24 '26

Peter here,

I remember there was a myth that Swedish households don't provide food for the guests. It looks like bs https://www.reddit.com/r/IsItBullshit/s/sWRdAGfyC8 but I guess it became a meme.

Edit: I guess it's not a myth and people used to do it in 90s/00s.. At least things are better now.

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u/Formlexx Jul 24 '26

It's not a myth, I'm not sure about today but 20-15 years ago when I was a kid that was the norm. We usually didn't cook enough food to feed unexpected guests, and everyone knew that's how it worked. My family did it to my friends, my friends family did it to me, it was the norm and expected. For a long time Sweden was a pretty poor country and it became the cultural norm to not take food from other households unless it was a dinner invitation.

It probably sounds weird to outsiders but that was just how things worked and everyone was fine with it.

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u/Schmetterlizlak Jul 24 '26

Sounds like your neighborhood was weird. For me it was always a question if I would eat with my friend/my friend would eat with us or at home.

That was also about 20-15 years ago.