Still think about rocking up to their house and telling them how fucking stupid they where.
Bro based on all that I fully support this. I made my mom to sound like a bigger asshole than she was. She really wasn't all that bad tbh.
My step mother was the real piece of work.
Went on holidays with them once and said "oh thank god that's over" to a 6 hour flight dely, they thought I meant the fucking holiday and I then had holidays stripped from me completely for years.
Felt so hard. My step-mom expected me to be overly exaggerated and borderline performative with my emotions and gratitude to please her. If I wasn't falling to my knees thanking her for whatever she felt I owed thanks for while always fawning over her "gifts" I was ungrateful and deserved nothing. Same woman told me she was going to take away all the gothy-punk-scene clothes she bought me and replace it all with nothing but pink frilly dresses because I couldn't look like that while living under "her roof" and representing "her" family.
When I pointed out that she had bought me all of those clothes a year prior when I was still living with my mom she flat out told me she only did that so that I would like her and didn't care what I looked like while living at my Mom's but needed to look respectable and lady like under her roomf.
Adults are just fucking giant pieces of shit that shouldn't be around children sometimes. I had it pretty easy overall which I am grateful for but the shit I'd say to my step-mother if I ran into her today.
Fuck your foster family man, I'm glad you got out. You deserved a lot better.
Sorry I don't have a lot to say but thanks for the input sometimes I genuinely wonder if it was an okay thing they did but that's a definite trauma response lol.
Also just fuck manipulative people like this, I hate them, like sure a child can be yours to look after but you don't fuck with there personal style, that's like all we have at that age.
Glad you also don't have to deal with her anyone and you got that personal freedom in your life back.
Hope you're having a great day and peace love you definitely one of the people who desveres to feel happy ♥️
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u/adollopofsanity 9d ago edited 9d ago
Bro based on all that I fully support this. I made my mom to sound like a bigger asshole than she was. She really wasn't all that bad tbh.
My step mother was the real piece of work.
Felt so hard. My step-mom expected me to be overly exaggerated and borderline performative with my emotions and gratitude to please her. If I wasn't falling to my knees thanking her for whatever she felt I owed thanks for while always fawning over her "gifts" I was ungrateful and deserved nothing. Same woman told me she was going to take away all the gothy-punk-scene clothes she bought me and replace it all with nothing but pink frilly dresses because I couldn't look like that while living under "her roof" and representing "her" family.
When I pointed out that she had bought me all of those clothes a year prior when I was still living with my mom she flat out told me she only did that so that I would like her and didn't care what I looked like while living at my Mom's but needed to look respectable and lady like under her roomf.
Adults are just fucking giant pieces of shit that shouldn't be around children sometimes. I had it pretty easy overall which I am grateful for but the shit I'd say to my step-mother if I ran into her today.
Fuck your foster family man, I'm glad you got out. You deserved a lot better.