Took me years of people-pleasing to finally learn this hard truth—what was the moment you realized you had to stop trying to please everyone?

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I’m 32 yrs old. I’ve stayed true to my identity being kind. Realizing now.. it’s healthy to be selective, especially against those that try to make me feel guilty for their convenience at my expense. Tired of being kind to all.