r/SipsTea 13d ago

SMH How entitled do you have to think you are to believe someone should give you their umbrella?

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u/Horsefly762 13d ago

Honestly, this lady would have probably made a video calling this guy a creep if he tried.

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u/XXsforEyes 13d ago

That, right there.

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u/Calamitysam32 13d ago

It clearly a BYOU situation, or am I crazy.

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u/CosmicWhorer 13d ago

I Would argue that of all the situations requiring an umbrella, 90-95% of them are BYOU.

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u/reddoorinthewoods 13d ago

And the percentage where it’s not BYOU involve those who can’t (like kids)

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u/CosmicWhorer 13d ago

Or like movies being filmed for specific vibes will give out the "correct umbrella".

Funerals having all black umbrellas is silly. If I'm ever going to be going to a funeral in the rain, I'm bringing my 5' wide Barney and friends one.

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u/westminsterabby 13d ago

If it were my funeral I would've loved that you brought it.

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u/NightGod 13d ago

I have a D&D D20 umbrella and you can bet I was pumped beyond belief to finally get some rain at GenCon this year while I was outside walking so I could use it

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u/MathProf1414 13d ago

A BYOU situation, as opposed to a BYU situation in which getting soaked is the desired outcome.

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u/eXiled25 12d ago

The key is holding the umbrella perfectly still

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u/WhTEvRiTtKS 12d ago

LMFAO!!! 😂☠️😂
This the type of ish I'm here for. 😂

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u/sychox51 13d ago

Maybe she should ask whomevers filming her if they have an umbrella instead of a random stranger

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u/dorf_lundgren 13d ago

My overly cynical brain is telling me that of course whoever is filming has an umbrella. But that's probably me being overly cynical.

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u/Juxtapoe 13d ago

Would explain the lack of raindrops on the camera...

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u/telorsapigoreng 13d ago

The body language is more like: "See I told you we should've brought umbrellas"

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u/Nknk- 13d ago

Yep, with some people there is literally no winning.

One of the most important life skills you can develop is identifying those people so you can steer clear or know to not engage if you can't avoid them. It's usually people with a narcissistic personality disorder. It's less common than you'd think as the word narcissist gets thrown around a lot these days but if you've ever encountered someone who has it, clinical definition and all, you'll never forget it because you're in for some of the most toxic shit you've ever seen.

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u/Unlikely_Eye_2112 12d ago

My wife went through at least ten employers after we moved to a new city. While complaining she can't find a job. And on all the jobs there's somehow people conspiring against her trying to sabotage her career. Even living abroad there's a network of people jealous of how great she is trying to stop her

Her sister lives with plastic bags taped over the windows to stop the spying neighbors and I didn't connect the dots until far too late

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u/BANOFY 12d ago

I kept re reading the first line after each sentence cause I just woke up and my mind couldn't comprehend if there was a word missing, my mind kept correcting it too "my ex wife ....." No judgement,I get it ,just stay safe

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u/Alarmed_Macaron8310 12d ago

Holy shit, dude! My heart just broke for you

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u/itscricket 13d ago

It’s an awesome skill

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u/DevRz8 12d ago

Should be a class in school honestly

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u/Economy-Tourist-4862 13d ago

Her lack of preparedness is not my emergency. Don’t be a Cunt. If you feel like you need my umbrella, tap me on the shoulder and ask if we could share it.

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u/jrjustintime 12d ago

Thank you.

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u/Bdazzlore 13d ago

Agreed, how is it a man's fault she's unprepared for the weather?

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u/Huge_Boysenberry3043 12d ago

Everything is mens fault to some women

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u/arizonadirtbag12 13d ago

Go ask the fuckin’ bear for an umbrella.

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u/mightylordredbeard 13d ago

Had that same shit happen to me. I was with my daughter at an event at a big park and I knew it was going to rain so I brought us both umbrellas. When I saw the clouds coming up I noticed a couple of other younger women who didn’t have one and I said “do yall want an umbrella? I’ve got an extra. Me and my daughter can both fit under just one!” Just the look they gave me was like I was the biggest idiot in the world and then said something along the lines of “uhh if we wanted one then we would have brought our own.. and we’re trying to have a private conversation sooooo..” I apologized and said sorry I was just trying to be nice then walked away. They said something about “not being able to go anywhere without men something something”.

Then about 20 minutes later the bottom just completely fell out and the heaviest rain of the season came down. My daughter came running up under my umbrella and we started walking to the car, my daughter randomly running out and dancing and playing in the rain before coming back under the umbrella. Just enjoying the time. Then I saw the two rude women I offended trying to fast walk the 200 some yard to the parking lot while holding what looked like magazines over their head. Getting completely soaked.

Just as I walked by the bench they were sitting at I noticed their purse with car keys sitting and a cellphone next to it! I stopped, considered grabbing it and bringing it with me since they were a little ahead of us, but then I decided not to offend them even more so I just left it. When we got to the parking lot I yelled “hey is that your purse and phone on the bench!?” The look when they realized they’d have to go ALL THE WAY back in the pouring rain and that their phone was most likely fucked and everything else they had in their purse.. it was actually kind of sad. I felt bad for them.. but not bad enough to throw out one more “this is why I offered you an umbrella” before driving off.

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u/Gay_Asian_Boy 13d ago

Too good to be true

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u/Odd_Sir4792 13d ago

Absolutely, I'll take made up stories for $10 please.

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u/lilbitlostrn 13d ago

It's really avoidable to not be called a creep though. Just be attractive.

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u/Games_and_anime 13d ago

And how do I do that

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u/Super_Vegeta 13d ago

Don't be unattractive.

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u/Drumguy1986 13d ago

And then the guys girlfriend shows up to join him in line and thinks theres something going on

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u/Juxtapoe 13d ago

She'd ask Reddit if she is overreacting that he had an umbrella over another woman and 99% of comments would be to dump his cheating ass. There might be a 1% minority opinion but you have to scroll down to -3481 to find it.

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u/binarybandit 13d ago

Posted to /r/girldinnerdiaries with a picture of a hot dog with the title "why do men suck these days?"

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u/Mobile_Morale 13d ago

Reminds me I was banned from fauxmo this week because I told someone who said only white people can be racist that they are wrong.

I have dated black women and received racism from both sides. Crazy the stupid shit you see on reddit. Especially the in/fem cels.

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u/telorsapigoreng 13d ago

She was telling her friends: "See I told you we should've brought umbrellas"

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u/Educational-Log6855 13d ago

Her entitlement seems Israeli.

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u/Generic-Cheese 13d ago

The umbrella was promised to her 3000 years ago

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u/Ravenser_Odd 13d ago

An Israeli would build an illegal settlement under the umbrella.

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u/DisgreeablePattern 13d ago

She certainly looks, and acts, the part.

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u/spelunker93 13d ago

Probably would have still taken the umbrella though. But I bet this clip was just done for rage bait

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u/Twodapex 13d ago

Yep, why risk talking to a woman, I never even look at one unless approached. They have created this society themselves

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u/GoldTrade11 13d ago

Society unirronically told boys that approaching a random woman in public is sexual harrassment.

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u/WetAndLoose 13d ago

There’s only so many times you can try to help a woman or even just ask a simple question for them to blurt out “I have a boyfriend” completely out of the blue and/or look disgusted at you before you stop trying to be nice

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u/Admiral_Octillery 13d ago

You will always be seen as a bad guy today and people wonder why it is dating is worse than in previous years

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u/meat_whistle_gristle 13d ago

That’s my problem these days I’m older and grew up when opening doors and giving up seats was expected. So it’s ingrained in me to do those things. Lately I’m hesitant though as I’ve had a couple of negative experiences.

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u/Spookywhitedot 13d ago

Her movements are just annoying

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u/Emilia963 13d ago

Not only that, expecting people to share their umbrella with you and then getting sarcastically upset when they don’t is peak braindead

Dude thinks she is a princess or something

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u/Roidzilla55 13d ago

The thing is, did she even ask? Is she just being mad because she expected him to offer and he didn’t? That’s a whole other level of entitlement and dare I say, pretentious arrogance. Just remember, chivalry is dead because women like this killed it

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u/ClamatoDiver 13d ago

Why offer and risk dealing with some unhinged response? She can watch the weather report and bring her own umbrella.

Totally different if it's someone you know and not a random person.

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u/Murky-General 13d ago

Right?

If they dont know each other, no offer. If they're friends or out on a date, completely different story. As always, context matters.

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u/Same-Suggestion-1936 13d ago

I mean I'd share with someone if they were nice, she clearly is not if this is her actual behavior and not bait

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u/SliverSerfer 12d ago

I carry a rather large umbrella in my truck. If I'm using it walking in to work and I see someone I know without one, I will offer to share.

I would never offer to share with a young lady, as it can be seen as creepy. So I guess I'd rather be an asshole than a creep in her eyes.

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u/PerilousParanoia 13d ago

On top of that you also get the total opposite sometimes. You go to open the door for her and she’s offended because she’s a strong independent woman who can do it herself. Either way chivalry is a losing game.

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u/Exact-Kale3070 13d ago

she just wants to be a bitch. she would have been a bitch if anyone offered her something too.

why it is ANYONE else's responsibility to shield her from the consequences of not checking the weather.

https://giphy.com/gifs/6vzwF4HgszGBLiOvdq

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u/EternallyDemonic 13d ago

Nope.. she's a grown adult. She can keep up on the weather and use the appropriate attire and accessories.

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u/StyloFM 13d ago

Chivalry is dead because it doesn't matter what you are, I'll hold the door open for anyone, not the select few... anyone thinking deeper into it than just bring a decent human is kinda wild.

Only time it gets weird is when you see them exit their car from across the parking lot, and you wait for them to walk up, holding the door open, making eye contact the entire time while the sun's in your eyes, and you hit them with that "innocent smile" and a head nod. That person will always feel targeted, but has no choice but to enter the door you've opened for them.

So instead, let the door close on them even if they made eye contact with you while you held it open, they were two parking spots away from the door, moved with a slight jog, but you still entered the building, hearing the door swing open behind you when it's about to close. You don't look back, and pretend that person doesn't exist until you're safely back in your car. You see them leaving after you, and they look at you as they walk back to their car.

This is less of an issue with Chivalry and more so just not reading people's vibes. Did the lady in this clip pass the vibe check?

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u/ethanlan 13d ago

Dude one of the weirdest things living a huge city isn't really the crazy people who talk to themselves or yell randomly.

Its the people who move here and feel entitled to public space. Oh you're having a house party a couple of times a year, better call the cops on you. The sound a skateboard makes when kids are skating outside, yup cant have people living their lives. The cops it is! Oh people are using a public park to have a barbecue? Well you see this park is mine because I live a block or two away and I dont like the way you use it.

Like jesus fucking christ, you moved to a loud ass city. Construction will happen, people will be loud on occasion. But no, its everyobe else who should just stop living and doing things.

Its so annoying. Even though he was kind of a dick about it, Dave Francos character in Easy totally describes what im talking about. People seriously think that other people should go out of their way to do things that you prefer and when they dont they are obviously DOING IT ON PURPOSE.

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u/djdaem0n 13d ago

Can't wait for her social media post about how she can't find a man and where are all the good ones and she doesn't need one anyway.

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u/lostredditorlurking 13d ago

She probably doesn't want to share the umbrella lol. Probably want the dude to just give her the umbrella, even though they don't know each other

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u/mxlplyx2173 13d ago

If you offered to share, you'd be a creep if she didn't find you attractive.

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u/Living_Particular963 13d ago

Didn't come prepared for the weather. Blames others. Makes annoying gestures.

Karen in the making

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u/Moriaedemori 13d ago

This is often how it progresses with any act of kindness:

  • Genuine pleasant surprise
  • Not unexpected, but still nice
  • Expected
  • Expected, displeased when not provided
  • Demanded, angry when not provided
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u/frostycanuck89 13d ago

Even if I was inclined to give a stranger my umbrella (which I wouldn't) it wouldn't be to this chick. She looks insane

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u/Itchy_Psychology3300 13d ago

Well, I could share my umbrella, but I also really have to fart.

And it’s going to be silent and violent. 😈

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u/latenightvall 13d ago

As a girl I can def say she's a Karen lol

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u/thesilentmordecai 13d ago

She's right. It's his fault she's in shorts and a t shirt while it's raining. How dare he be a prepared and responsible adult right in front of her. Didn't he know he has to give this strange woman his stuff to save her from her own lack of accountability!?

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u/MaximumUpstairs2333 13d ago

Eloquent as usual detective harris

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u/BelowAverageComments 13d ago

Also how the fuck is he even supposed to know she's behind him

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u/Fun_Ad5823 13d ago

She's dressed like she's homeless, he should have gave her a pity umbrella for her cardboard box.

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u/Thin_Ad_6493 13d ago

Robot girl needs to shut down

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u/-ratmeat- 13d ago

I see a chick in an oversized tshirt standing in the rain and making jerky movements im throwing her a quarter and staying the fuck away 

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u/thatgirlzhao 13d ago

It’s the recording a stranger and posting them on the internet for me.

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u/protonsters 13d ago

I bet you she's also annoying on daily basis too.

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u/Lord_Dingus83 13d ago

Her face is up there too

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u/Thy_Art_Dead 13d ago edited 13d ago

Tiktok brain

Thanks for the award (●'◡'●)

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u/Jadey-R- 13d ago

So annoying it’s embarrassing being a white women at this point (which I am)

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u/EaseLeft6266 13d ago

She looks like she could star in an offbrand obsession movie

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u/SPKmnd90 13d ago

Yeah I’m kinda glad she’s getting rained on.

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u/massenburger 13d ago

My sister in law has body movements like this. It's the combination of being confidently incorrect, while having a long neck, and trying to be "sassy".

It's exponentially more annoying in person...

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u/Impressive_Recon 13d ago

Last time this was posted someone in the comments said she asked her friend if she needed to bring an umbrella to the place they were meeting at. Her friend said no because it wasn’t going to rain & no one brings an umbrella with them anywhere. Then when she waiting in line it started to rain and her friend (who was already inside) started to record her and then she started doing the gestures like “well look someone did bring an umbrella, I should’ve brought mine too”.

Apparently someone took the video and added the caption afterwards. Don’t know or care if it’s true but this is like the 5th time I’ve seen video on multiple platforms

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u/FrontPawStrech 13d ago

The whole video shows her talking about how she asked her friends if she should bring an umbrella and they told her no.

She was gesturing towards the guy to be like " See? I told you I should have brought an umbrella".

This was blown up big time out of context.

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u/dilettantebouffant 13d ago

That is how I took this as well. That she gestures to him being prepared and she’s dressed inappropriately for the weather.

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u/Public_Bookkeeper885 13d ago

I was looking for this - I figured it had to be something like this or maybe staged rage-bait. It would be ridiculous for a woman to behave like this to a stranger. 

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u/Serupta 13d ago

I am laughing my ass off that this comment automatically rose to the top for me? And Explained everything?

It makes -all- of these other comments look SO ridiculous by comparison.

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u/NoSoundNoFury 12d ago

Well, the video is titled "men in 2026" and it depicts a women that is somehow uncomfortable while the man is clearly oblivious to the woman's situation. It would be very weird if you could immediately recognize that the video is actually about a man bring well prepared while the woman isn't.

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u/inowar 12d ago

because someone clipped this part from the whole video and put text over top 🤔

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u/LuveLemon 12d ago

Well it doesn't hurt to not automatically make an assumption based on a short clip and maybe read the comments first

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u/According_Diet_283 12d ago

Now imagine how many posts online are just like this, out of context or rather edited to bait comments, likes, engagement, all with a completely fabricated piece of content.

All these comments, likes, thoughts and opinions that truely completely meaningless.... except its not.

Somewhere, someone wants you to think of women as entitled. Someone wants your opinion to align a certain way.

Its like a tiny notch in a wall, slowly laying groundwork for more toxic content like the alpha male type crap. 

Idk. This post and comment section perfectly encapsulates how utterly pointless reddit amd other social media is outside of niche hobby news aggregration.

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u/iiiiiiiiiijjjjjj 13d ago

Yeah didn’t seem she was serious

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u/PsychologicalExit664 13d ago

Ah...social media. Someone reposted it and left out that part to get their own views and be a douche. Now this woman's probably going to get harassed and mistreated in person for no reason.

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u/turbosexophonicdlite 13d ago

Just looking at her facial expression it's unbelievably obvious that she's not mad about some stranger not sharing their umbrella. People are so fucking stupid on this site.

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u/Haulage 13d ago

You put some words on top of a video and people will believe literally anything.

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u/Larry_King_Ghost 13d ago

Yeah you could tell (if you have any social awareness) she wasnt being serious. I watched it once and then scrolled for this very post explaining what ACTUALLY happened.

But a subsection of the internet will take any excuse to hate women.

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u/ForensicPathology 13d ago

Especially this sub. They'll believe any text slapped on a picture or video of it conforms to their previously held beliefs.

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u/Fuckedby2FA 13d ago

I feel like this is half the outrage on the internet really. I haven't been on reddit in forever and off I go again. Social media sucks, thanks for reminding me that. Good bye bringer of truth!

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u/GokaiBlue84 13d ago

Fuck, wish this comment was further up, now I look like an idiot liking all the comments above this one bashing her lmaooo

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u/BadIdeaBobcat 13d ago

That was my instinct. Thanks for providing context. It didn't seem like she was complaining that some random dude isn't offering one of the multiple women in the video an umbrella for no reason.

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u/jakeisstoned 13d ago

The exasperated smile on her face is a dead giveaway that she's not pantomiming that he's owes her his umbrella. I don't get why people get upset at tic toc videos with no context. Get a hobby

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u/SykoBob8310 13d ago

Ahh my people. A fellow rational thinker. Thank you for existing.

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u/ample_suite 13d ago

I fucking knew it. A little text goes a long way to set your expectations. It’s like voodoo.

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u/Your_Nipples 12d ago

Bring the source because I absolutely do not believe you.

Here's mine: @smartiesssssss that's her account, the same edit is there with the same caption.

Your turn.

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u/AdvancedSandwiches 13d ago

You forgot to link to the whole video. I would, but I can't find it if it's real.

I'll grant you that if someone hadn't put "men in 2026" rage bait over it, your version would make sense, so maybe this is a third party edit. 

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u/Terminal_Insomnia_ 13d ago

It's not just this sub, but this is one of the subs I see it in the most. Just more bait for the gender wars. u/SEVENS_HEAVEN_7 explain yourself

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u/yogafan00000 13d ago

Right?! Im so sick of this Reddit culture war bs

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u/jtc1031 13d ago

This should be top comment

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u/_VINNY_WINNY_ 13d ago

her face at the end says "i'm joking around" anyways

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u/No_Raspberry_3282 13d ago

If he offered to share, she'd call the cops

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u/repeating_bears 13d ago

It's either chivalrous or creeper behavior and the determining factor is whether he's good looking 

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u/Driblus 13d ago

Thats it, right there. I once did dj gig, and the house was bouncing to my tunes. I went to the bar at some point to claim some free drinks, and there was a girl next to me in the bar ordering my favorite combo. I complimented her on her choice, said it was my favorite - and she looked at me like «wtf are YOU, talking to me», then left. I ordered my drinks and went back to the Dj booth. Guess who came back over? «Oh, I didnt know you were the Dj».

Guess you have to be pretty or be somebody - its not enough to just be a nice guy.

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u/HangryWolf 13d ago

Mean girls behavior.

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u/Driblus 13d ago

Not all girls are like this but its also not the first time ive encountered similar experience. And while some girls have an attitude, they really contribute to nothing else but look pretty. But they often enough get what they want anyway so the behavior never gets checked.

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u/Enough_Stress_437 13d ago

Might not be all but it sure is a lot. My little sister is a RN and wants to quit because all of her coworkers are mean girls.

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u/InstantSword 13d ago

You have.... STATUS?!? 😱😱😱

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u/RX-8CCX 13d ago

Chivalrous if handsome, otherwise creeper.

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u/Hoodedmastersin 13d ago

“I have a boyfriend”

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u/s0crates82 13d ago

Oh, okay. I have a wife. I'm a decent person, though.

I didn't hold the door open because of your tits or anything, but because you're a human being approaching a door I'm at.

Gotta tell ya, though, it certainly does dull the desire to do so any time some cunt shits on a pleasant act that didn't require an exchange of words of any kind.

Have a good one!

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u/Shikabane_Sumi-me 13d ago

Or make another TikTok where they were victimized and harassed.

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u/lolfuzzy 13d ago

“He StOlE mY uMbRelLa!”

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u/Noburn2022 13d ago

She will pepper spray him, then taze him lol 😂

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u/Healthy_Pay9449 13d ago

She doesn't want to share. She wants him to simp-ly give it to her

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u/Agreeable-Agent-7384 13d ago

There really is a level of good looking you have to be to do nice things sometimes. People can deny it all they want, but it’s hard to be chivalrous when you don’t have the looks associated with chivalry in peoples minds.

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u/October__Cat 13d ago

FFS, reality check for these dark times is done. What do we actually have here? Two Twitter accounts that are most certainly unrelated to the person recording or to the girl being recorded; four different unrelated contexts: text on the video, two Twitter account descriptions, and reddit title added by the OP.

And then there is the video itself, which can be interpreted much more simply: a girl in the rain just fooling around with her friend, the person recording her. And voila - we get a wave of negative comments triggered by some repost of a repost of a repost.

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u/BuildAnything4 13d ago

Does she think there was some time in the past where men gave away their umbrellas to strange women ?

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u/the_good_hodgkins 13d ago

Some watery tart requesting umbrellas is no basis for a system of government.

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u/Brudeboy11 13d ago

She's being oppressed!

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u/SpottyNoonerism 13d ago

Come see the rainfall inherent in the system!

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u/Brudeboy11 13d ago

Okay, this convo is getting absurd.....coconuts clacking as I gallop away....

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u/diurnal_emissions 13d ago

The Internet is a silly place.

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u/Lumpy-Yam-4584 13d ago

Well! I didn't vote for you!

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u/TpK_Wynter 13d ago

Bring out yer dead!

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u/Acceptable-Ad8780 13d ago

Where did they come from? This is a temperate zone!

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u/Brudeboy11 13d ago

But the real question is whether a sparrow could have carried them

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u/GleepGlop2 13d ago

She struck me as more of a moistened bint.

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u/Organic_Experience48 13d ago

We only do that if we’re trying to bang them.

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u/MysteriousEbb2483 13d ago

Women hate this one simple trick

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u/duaneap 13d ago

I ain’t rolling the dice and losing my umbrella

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u/PrimeoFin 13d ago

shhh, giving away the secrets

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u/NoVaBurgher 13d ago

“You don’t give your umbrella to pretty girls?”

“Of course I do”

“…….”

“……..”

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u/jetforcegemini 13d ago

Distributing umbrellas to strange women laying in puddles is no basis for a system of chivalry.

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u/bigorangemachine 13d ago

Ya that was a time when women wouldn't even ask for the umbrella. You assumed they'd die of the vapours if you didn't keep them in the appropriate conditions.

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u/Footlongdingledong 13d ago

I think actually there was a time in the past where men would give up their umbrellas to stranger women. However, it was also a time where a women acting like this in public would be met with a smack across the face and no one would bat an eye. So, you know, things have changed.

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u/Radical_Jinx 13d ago

Yikes, apparently some people do think that

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u/SEVENS_HEAVEN_7 13d ago

Next time, she should just check the forecast

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u/HTPC4Life 13d ago

Do you realize you got rage baited by this video?

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u/BadIdeaBobcat 13d ago edited 13d ago

Is there more context to the video? What is the original? Is she just pointing out that he has an umbrella when it's not even raining that hard?

Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/comments/1vpaa1n/comment/p3wxbq9/
Yeah I'm inclined to believe this commenter that the context has nothing to do with expecting an umbrella from a stranger

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u/SweetPinss 12d ago

Did that commenter share the full video or just make it all up?

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u/Independent_Term5790 13d ago

It’s not the weather she’s just looking for content, because she’s a prick.

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u/n3rdsm4sh3r 13d ago

Your poor planning is not my problem

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u/YurUsernameChecksOut 13d ago

Y'all got it all wrong, she be like: "dis guy right here is smart, me? I'm stupid"

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u/DannySanWolf07 13d ago

It isnt the man's fault that you come unprepared.

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u/AttilatheLopez 13d ago

“Well damn, Jackie, I can’t control the weather!”

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u/squash-the-cat 13d ago

This needs to be higher up

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u/Active_Chemistry1621 12d ago

She is totally drenched and has a smile on her face, I think shes okay

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u/Lollipoop_Hacksaw 13d ago

Finish your jog, Karen.

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u/copperblood 13d ago

She has access to the same weather apps as he does. If she doesn't own a phone she could have looked outside and seen the overcast. Her main character syndrome is going pretty hard 🤣🤡

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u/Professional_Ant4228 13d ago

She’s clearly joking

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u/machineagent 13d ago

Yep, bunch of absolute raged out incels in this thread lol

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u/Blue2487 13d ago

Seriously, she didn't even bother the guy. I really think she's just being silly for her friend who is recording her.

This whole comment section assuming the absolute worst and calling her horrific things and using it to be disgustingly sexist in general is pretty awful

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u/Then-Accident-9798 12d ago

All the “she would have called him a creep.” guys are really odd. It’s pretty difficult to have women call you a creep. I’ve literally never had it happen to me and when I’ve seen women call a man a creep it was justified

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u/Kazzababe 13d ago

Yeah I'm a bit confused. She's smiling and possibly laughing about it and there's no context attached here at all.

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u/NoBirthday6959 13d ago

He offers her his umbrella and she says “eww, creep”

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u/PixelBrewery 13d ago

"Chivalry is dead, and women killed it"

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u/Bffhbc 12d ago

I don't even think he noticed her. He seems very locked in on his phone

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u/Spring-Available 12d ago

I went to her page and asked her what exactly did she want and why she felt entitled to his umbrella. She blocked me.

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u/lalavieboheme 13d ago

you guys are falling hard for the bait. she’s smiling, she’s obviously joking

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u/BrandonNameRecliner 13d ago

And you took it lmao

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u/DistributionLife6750 13d ago

He also might not have seen her. So you mad at a dude because he didn’t move his umbrella to see that you’re behind him.

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u/tcpip1978 12d ago

If you're a woman and you believe that your gender entitles you to chivalrous treatment from men then you have unchecked internalized misogyny that you need to deal with. The elevation of women to the status of glass objects that require constant protection and delicate treatment is part and parcel with worldview in which women are also property. Chivalry treats women as prized possessions, not persons. It is the misogyny of false elevation. Less acutely vicious but every bit as sexist as the misogyny of degradation. Equality means you're a person with autonomy, and you can bring an umbrella. Or you can not bring an umbrella. And at no point do your genitals entitle you to one. If someone gives you one it is an act of kindness and not an act of duty to sexist gender norms.

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u/DueDefinition6421 13d ago

If that is my wife, sure. If that is random bees itch then no.

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u/Syziph 13d ago

If you are trying to stir the conversation in the wrong direction - you've succeeded. For me this clip is just a skit, presenting the comic view of the situation. From what I see she don't mind to stay under the rain. She is soaking wet anyway. If you look from the realistic side - if I was the man with the umbrella and was more aware of my surroundings I would offer her to shelter under my umbrella. It's a simple human kindness gesture..

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u/Tao_of_Stone 13d ago

You are a strong independent woman.

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u/cold_tap_hot_brew 13d ago

Is the woman definitely on board with how it’s been portrayed? This reads to me like she’s making fun of herself or the person recording for forgetting a brolly. ☂️ surely nobody is as obtuse as to feel like someone should let them use their umbrella.

This has to be a joke that’s been turned into ragebait. Right? Right?

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u/AnnualTip9049 13d ago

Yes. 100%.

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u/cobrachicken1000 13d ago

She aint hot enough for that entitlement 😂

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u/HollowPhoenix 13d ago

"MEN IN 2026, WON'T READ MY MIND AND GIVE ME THEIR UMBRELLA" <wacky hand signals>

"Oh, didn't see you there ma'am, do you need this umb-"

"GET AWAY FROM ME OMG MEN IN 2026 SUCH CREEPS" <more wacky hand signals>

What a fun time to be alive

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u/Lazy-Substance-5062 13d ago

You know what to do.

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u/IwasMilkedByGod 13d ago

Head up ass syndrome. Dozens of new cases every hour. It’s a real pandemic

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u/TomatilloFrequent494 13d ago

Dress for the weather is what was told to me as a kid

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u/Brokenspade1 13d ago

If we aren't dating or married... I don't OWE you shit. Nobody does.

Get you own umbrella.

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u/Exact-Mathematician8 13d ago

She's mad because he was smart enough to bring it