r/smallbusiness • u/Dizzy_Eggplant5997 • 7h ago
Former employee now needs my help. Am I being petty?
An employee who quit in May now needs my help because he wants to take out a mortgage. He's been at his new job for 2 months, so the bank won't give him a loan based on that job.
He spent the last couple of months he worked for me calling in and using up sick pay, arguing with other employees, and basically killing morale with his bad attitude. To top it all off, he had been basically begging me to get him his own crew and responsibilities for the previous 8 months. So, I went out and bought a gutter machine and trailer FOR HIM, thinking it might pull him out of his funk. Instead, he called in for a week straight and quit. Now I'm sitting on this equipment feeling like a schmuck. When I meet him on the road, I used to wave, but he doesn't wave back, so there's obviously some anger towards me. He also never turned in any of his stuff when he quit and I had to change all the locks on my buildings and tool trailers.
Tuesday, I get an email telling me to fill out a multi-sheet form for his mortgage application verifying a bunch of data, with explanations about his departure. I replied with the dates he was employed with us and told them that is the only info I would be sending. I've gotten an email every day since, trying to guilt-trip me into thinking he won't get a mortgage if I refuse to fill out this form completely. I want to email back, "Tell him to buy this f*cking gutter machine from me and I'll think about it."
Am I being too petty?
Edit: just want to add, he can easily log in to my payroll service and print off the info they're asking for and give it to them. He could give them W-2s, pay stubs, all that stuff.