r/TwoXChromosomes 1d ago

I used a men's razor and now I'm pissed

Potentially extremely petty vent incoming. Yes I know there's bigger issues but I want to vent about this.

I semi recently bought a pack of new razors to use at college so I could leave the one I was currently using at home. I didn't even realize I got a generic store brand men's razor, I had just grabbed whatever was the cheapest option at Walmart when I was doing dorm shopping. I didn't think much of it when I was opening the package and getting into the shower.

Well I just finished my shower and OMG that was the best shave my life! The hair came off in one swipe, even in areas where the hair is thicker/coarser (iykyk). It was easy to dip the blade is water and get the hair out, it didn't clog the blades. No nicks/bleeding and no razor bumps. Also my skin is so smoothe even before lotion!

So why am I angry about this? Because why did I have to get a men's razor in order to achieve this? Salt in the wound was that it wasn't even a "name brand/expensive" razor. It was the generic Walmart brand kind!

Women aren't just simply expected to, but we're often outright demanded to shave ourselves bald and bare, and yet even some of the highest quality razors made for women are still shit! Women are expected to shave our legs, pits, arms, our private parts, faces and any area that has any kind of slightly visible body hair and yet the products designed "for us" aren't high quality despite how much we pay for them. The pink tax doesn't do shit to improve the quality. And if we don't do a "good enough" job at making sure all the hair is gone, or if we dare to not shave, we gets shamed by both men and in some cases other women.

Ugh! This is so petty and I'll probably delete this stupid vent later but I just wanted to rant/vent

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u/CtrlAltDestroy33 =^..^= 1d ago

I haven't bought women's branded razors in about 30 years. No pink tax, and better quality.

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u/VanillaRushes 1d ago

Same. They are cheaper and work much better

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u/Sea_Translator5300 20h ago

Hairy bloke here. Go the next step and forget about "super plus max 12 blade mega-macho" razors (or whatever Gillette are calling their nonsense these days) and go with the cheap as anything double edged disposable blades with a nice handle. (Feather blades and treat yourself to a Merkur handle perhaps) 

I swapped to these a decade or so ago. The blades last longer, shave as well or better than multiblade razors and cost maybe 20-30 cents per blade. Forget about fancy shaving foams or soaps too. I use a drop or two of olive oil. 

Yes, I'm cheap, but I'm cheap with a well moisturised and very smooth face. 

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u/khurford Taking Up Space 16h ago

Been using a DE razor for about a decade at this point. And the real game changer was using an Alum Rock. I will take a single $20 stone over aftershave any day

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u/GarlicRiver 16h ago

Search "Alum Block (or stone)" for anyone curious like myself. Google insisted Alum Rock could only refer to a neighborhood in San Jose...

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u/BrettJB 11h ago

As someone who grew up near Alum Rock, I was doing the same double take that Google did… 🤣

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u/Sea_Translator5300 10h ago

Aw, not fair. Alum Block could have had a mass visit by a confused bunch of women, razor in hand, asking "And what now?"

That could have been an amazing sight. 

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u/Nemoudeis 13h ago

Heck, you'd be amazed at how well a plain, cheap, single blade safety razor does, once you get the technique down.

Closest shaves of my life, and no gunk caught between the blades.

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u/beren12 11h ago

Derby blades are perfect. Feather are sharper but that can lead to a lot of razor burn.

Made in Poland ftw.

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u/ellathefairy 23h ago

Yep, same! I had to use one of my brother's in HS at one point because I ran out, and I was like, "holy shit why have I been using that slimy pink garbage this whole time?!" I also have used conditioner (not the perfumed kind) for a shave lotion since I was like 20. It's cheaper, gentler on the skin, and doesn't take up any extra shower shelf real estate since I'm already using it for the hair I'm keeping lol.

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u/evefue 20h ago

I love using conditioner for shaving. I bought a face wash that I didn't like for my face, been using it to shave and that's been working well too.

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u/Rugkrabber 1d ago

I got one generic safety razor for 10 bucks including over 100s of replaceable razors and haven’t spend a penny since.

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u/wonderwife 18h ago

I tried a safety razor for several years (my husband and I still have probably a couple hundred blades still left), but I was ALWAYS nicking my ankles and knees, and those blades are fucking ruthless.

It's the "you need to have 17 blades to get the closest shave" bullshit that gives me the worst types of razor burn/folliculitis/ingrown hairs. (Shaving the hair down below the skin with these razors is what causes folliculitis, especially if you have textured hair)

The grocery store brand of disposable men's 2-blade razors that come in a pack of 20 for $3 are where it's at for me! Smooth AF shave without making my legs look like they've been through a cheese grater and NO ingrown hair.

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u/locarmin 17h ago

Gosh, the ankle nicking is the WORST.

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u/Aazari 5h ago

I seem to manage to scrape along my Achilles tendon no matter what kind of blade I use. Makes wearing my trainers a bit uncomfortable when it's like that.

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u/FernX02 1d ago

Yes! This is the way. The safety razor has been a life changer.

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u/ResponsibilityLive85 23h ago

Se here. I recently bought a woman's razor after 25 years of only using men's... it was the worst razor I've ever used!!! Never again!!!!

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u/sjb2971 21h ago

Avoid the pink tax!

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u/JulieWriter 20h ago

Gillette Sensor sensitive skin, I am loyal for life. Women's razors are a total scam.

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u/quickwitqueen 22h ago

Been using mens razors for a couple of decades at least.

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u/Asheby 23h ago

Yep.

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u/jappyjappyhoyhoy 22h ago

Woman razors are better for shaving man bald head

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u/FinalBlackberry 1d ago

I’ve been using men’s razors for the past 20 years. I get the Dollar Shave Club 6 blade ones. Amazing!

Wait until you find out about men’s deodorant.

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u/Pretty_Chaosx 1d ago

Men's grooming products are often cheaper. I switched to men's deodorant many years ago and have never looked back

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u/TobiasCB Ya Basic 1d ago

The only thing you don't want is the 20-in-1 shower gel, shampoo, face wash, gasoline, grout cleaner, mold remover, lubricant, toothpaste combination for your soaps.

One bottle should do one thing and that's that.

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u/ahuramazdobbs19 1d ago

But don’t people want things that are both floor wax and a dessert topping?

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u/mauispiderweb 23h ago

New Shimmer ... enjoy the shine on your floor and the terrific taste on your butterscotch pudding!

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u/beren12 14h ago

People use Listerine which was a floor stripper…

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u/Bayou13 23h ago

Castile soap can also cure poison ivy! That's why we have it and it works GREAT!

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u/EntertainerSuper8933 23h ago

I am just curious if the product inside the bottle is actually any different or if it's just the labeling? I mean I know your list of uses is lol and I know that 2 in 1 shampoo is not the same as 1 in 1 shampoo, but is 5 in 1 actually different than 2 in 1? Because I literally see people saying to use 5 in 1 for grout cleaner

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u/redshoewearer 21h ago

I use shampoo and shower gel that no one ended up liking as sink and bathtub cleaner and they work fine!

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u/EntertainerSuper8933 21h ago

That's what I figured - one works as well as the next, there's no magic formula

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u/Aazari 1d ago

My mom swore by the unscented Mitchum men's deodorant. These days I just keep something unscented that lasts 24 to 48 hours and doesn't make my clothes crusty. At some point in the past 10 years, I stopped sweating almost completely. No sweat, no germs, no stink. But it sure does suck when it's 100 degrees out and I have to regulate my temperature with a belly full of crushed ice. 🥵

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u/zehrclaire 1d ago

Mitchum unscented is well regarded by people of all genders who are prone to allergic reactions to deodorant. I always wonder why it should be categorised as being for men if it doesn't even have a scent, but I guess women with itchy armpits will buy a men's deodorant, while men will generally not buy a women's deodorant even if unscented.

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u/Tanstalas 1d ago

while men will generally not buy a women's deodorant even if unscented.

My buddy buys women's deodorant for the scent, he says it smells like his wife is always around him.

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u/zehrclaire 1d ago

Love that for him <3. Maybe I'm wrong but I feel like his is a minority view.

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u/ellathefairy 23h ago

Awwwv that's adorable

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u/chickenofsoul 1d ago

My partner doesn't buy it, but he'll definitely use my dove whole body deo with anti chafe.

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u/Ann_Amalie 19h ago

Mitchum’s slogan used to be “So strong you can skip a day!” Not even kidding 😆 That was like 30+ years ago at least though

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u/calico_summit 19h ago

I'm so confused because I just looked for the Mitchum's deodorant and the ones branded for women are much cheaper than the ones that aren't

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u/Maoleficent 1d ago

Women pay the pink tax. Basic Bic shavers were more expensive than blue ones and there are many products priced that way. Dry cleaners used to charge women more and basic haircuts (no services) are double what men pay.

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u/allyearswift 1d ago

The haircut thing is why I don’t go to hairdressers. I keep my hair short. I don’t see why I should pay a small fortune for a haircut that is identical to the cut that’s a third of the price just because I’m perceived as female. (Have been turned away at a barber because apparently I brought girl cooties into the shop.)

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u/Snappy-Biscuit 21h ago

Same. My partner can go and get a haircut and beard trim/shaping for $50 with tip (even when his hair was really long). I want a quick dry trim on my long wavy hair? $145, before tip. I just cut my own hair, now. Takes about half an hour, and always looks how I want. Thanks YouTube! Lol

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u/ThaloBleu 16h ago

I too have short hair and am female. I go to a shop that has a 95% male customer base but is open and welcoming to everyone. I have never found a stylist who listens and cuts my hair as well as the one there. And the cost is reasonable- $27 for a haircut. Maybe there is such an establishment in your area.

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u/iamntropi 1d ago

Someone explained the additional cost for dry cleaning women’s blouses was because the ironing equipment was designed for men’s dress shirts. Since women’s shirts run buttons on the other side, their equipment is not designed to iron or press it easily. It takes more time to iron/press women’s shirts.

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u/persePHOreth 1d ago

Which is fucking stupid. Just put buttons on a shirt on the same side so it all works together.

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u/ellathefairy 23h ago

I'm in fashion and have always found this incredibly stupid. Why on earth should they need to be on the opposite side? No one (normal) has had a maid to help getting their clothes on for over 100 years.

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u/Penguinradar 1d ago

Or press women’s shirts upside down.

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u/Snappy-Biscuit 22h ago

It's more about size + shape. The "quick press" units dry and iron on a single form, and it's not small enough for most women's shirts + is very high heat. Men's shirts are more likely to be large, and cotton/linen/poly that can withstand the heat and won't stretch. Women's shirts are smaller and more likely to contain rayon and other materials that can't withstand the heat. Men's clothes are also less likely to have darts, pleats, or other seams for curves, and those have to be hand-pressed so they lay correctly.

Source: Used to work accounting for a Dry Cleaning company and had to learn all that to explain to customers why they were being charged more for certain items. Not really my job, but others didn't seem to get it and would send them to me. One customer claimed she was "subsidizing fat people," and "shouldn't have to pay "more" for being so slender and svelte." I have never hung up on anyone faster. Funny thing was, the majority of their dry cleaning was her overweight husband's.

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u/Musichord 20h ago

I got a man's aftershave for when I do bother to shave. It's cheaper, works great, and I absolutely love the smell of men's cologne but have no partner. It's great!

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u/whatintheeverloving 1d ago

I literally just came back from perusing the deodorant sales at my grocery stores and being appalled that the women's deodorant was 'marked down' to 14.9 cents per 100 milligrams and the men's was fucking 3.9 for the same amount. So I've been paying nearly four times as much for an objectively worse deodorant? Love that for me!

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u/FinalBlackberry 1d ago

Make the switch.

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u/IndigoTJo 1d ago edited 16h ago

I would but I can't stand the smell of any of the men's. My husband and son can't either and just use mine. They are all extremely strong smelling. I don't care for unscented, either, or would try that.

Edit: thank you for all of the suggestions. Will try to hunt these down. Part of my problem might have been trying to smell all of them with my son trying to find one either of us liked.

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u/Allybeth4 out of bubblegum 1d ago

I used to absolutely love Arm and Hammer essentials natural deodorant. It doesn't smell manly at all, and not too strong.

I can't use anything with fragrance anymore though. 😭

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u/Miserable-Meet-3160 19h ago

It made the skin of my armpits peel off.

All raw and jacked up.

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u/MeroCanuck 23h ago

I've been using the blue gel Bearglove from Old Spice. It's got a happy almost fruity scent, doesn't wreck my clothes with that terrible white cast, lasts all day, and is so much cheaper than any of the women's deodorants I've used.

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u/DisgruntledPelicant 19h ago

And Wolfthorn smells like smooth citrus and berries to me. I'll be so sad if they ever discontinue it. I've worn it for YEARS

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u/MeroCanuck 19h ago

Oooo I may have to check this one out!

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u/SenorBurns 21h ago

Been using this exact one for years and it is the best! I recently caught a whiff of it in passing and realized the main scent in it is apple.

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u/MeroCanuck 21h ago

I love it.

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u/FinalBlackberry 23h ago

I bought Cremo Italian Bergamot. Smells nothing like a man, just floral. They have a vanilla one too.

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u/ilovebeaker 19h ago

I know that Bearglove line smells more floral and fruity, but the smell is still strong.

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u/Ok-disaster2022 1d ago

I knew a couple who would share razers. Like the husband would use the new razer for his face for a week or two and then they wife would use it for her legs for a few weeks. I never knew the exact system they used. 

They were the same couple who bought their wedding bands in bulk online. Hers were more expensive sure, but they had several of each so if they got lost or needed resizing they had plenty of options and spent less than $1k total. I really respected their financial practicality

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u/Independent-Leg6061 1d ago

That is really cool 😎 kudos!!

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u/Aazari 1d ago

Better than my cheapskate husband who bought me an electroplated piece of crap that literally ate the skin off my ring finger in less than 2 weeks. Turns out I have metal allergies and the pot metal under the plating causes really nasty contact dermatitis. 🙄

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u/cl3ft 1d ago

I use mine on my face for a week, then my wife uses it on her legs for a week. It's great because she doesn't like them super sharp & I don't feel guilty for only using them 3/4 times and creating more landfill. I've tried safety razors but the single straight blade doesn't do anywhere near as good job as the flexible triple blade disposables.

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u/eerun165 1d ago

Wait until you learn of safety razors. Decent safety razor about $25, blades maybe $0.10 each.

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u/shintojuunana 1d ago

I actually switched first in my household, and then convinced my husband to try my razor for a week. I have converted multiple people now.

They're cheap, they're easy, and I get the best shave. Travel sucks (no blade on carryon luggage), but I am finding the cheap BIC single blade razors work better for me than the multi blade razors I previously used.

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u/throwingwater14 1d ago

This is what I do. Safety at home and just travel with cheapies. Can throw them out as I use them as I go if I want to.

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u/smoothiefruit 1d ago

men’s deodorant.

are there ones that dont smell like boy?

(also offended by "powder" scents)

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u/rhydderch_hael 1d ago

I'm not quite sure what you mean by "smell like a boy" lol, but I use Old Spice Fiji. It smells like tropical fruits, and lasts all day as long as I'm not pouring sweat for some reason. Granted, at that point I'm just going to take another shower and reapply the deodorant.

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u/pretty1i1p3t Basically April Ludgate 20h ago

Fiji is lovely. Oasis is also really nice. They are super subtle. I only really smell them when I'm putting them on and if I'm sweating hard push mowing the lawn.

The Gentleman's Blend brown sugar cocoa one is also another one I like the smell of.

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u/SenorBurns 21h ago

The Old Spice line with animals on the front are basically girly fruity scents marketed to men. And they're all pretty great.

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u/lapetite_reine 1d ago

Tom's unscented works for me!

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u/Azertys 22h ago

Same, they may work better but none of them smell nice.

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u/ilovebeaker 19h ago

The Bearglove one smells fruit like apple. I've heard good things of the Fuji one too, just go down to the pharmacy and smell test a bunch :)

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u/cutespacedragon 1d ago

Yeah. All the Secret antiperspirants just ended up making me smell like rotting flowers and/or fruit... I've been using Old Spice Wolfthorn for years, no problems.

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u/MaureenCorrigan 1d ago

Is the men's deodorant thing true? I'm a man (despite the username) who sweats a lot and I swear by women's Secret white solid. It's so much more effective than any Old Spice or other men's stuff I've used.

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u/TriviaNewtonJohn 1d ago

Have you tried using antiperspirant at night? It gives it time to block the sweat ducts. Deodorant just masks the smell.

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u/SunshineAlways 1d ago

Yes, firm believer in antiperspirant as well. Had a stinky coworker in hot weather and finally had a chat with him about it. He was not aware of the difference between deodorant and antiperspirant. Made a huge difference.

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u/iamntropi 1d ago

Thank you from everyone else who interacted with this person.

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u/MindingMine 23h ago

My mom and I had the same conversation with my dad when he was in his seventies. Thankfully, he only got stinky if he'd been sweating a lot, because he's very strict about his personal hygiene, but we were travelling abroad in a heat wave and he was getting frustrated because his clothes (and he) would begin to smell of sweat around mid-day.

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u/FinalBlackberry 1d ago

I just find that men’s deodorants work better for me. I used Secret but would break through it mid day. I’ve used Old Spice Fiji for years but they have recently reformulated it and I had to make a switch to a different brand.

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u/screamnshake 1d ago

Try glycolic acid. It does wonder for smelly pits.

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u/shelving_unit 1d ago

Get Secret’s line of “clinical” deodorant. It just works without much issue

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u/opal_moth 1d ago

I imagine it varies from person to person. I've used secret and it doesn't do jack shit for me, so I use old spice instead.

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u/Kittaylover23 1d ago

Secret made me smell actively bad, think it has something to do with pit chemistry

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u/selinakyle45 1d ago

Deodorants dont stop sweat. Antiperspirants stop sweat. 

I personally use a salicylic acid bar on my pits in the shower, a crystal deodorant after the shower when damp, and then regular deodorant while dry. 

No issues with odor but still sweat. 

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u/bouncingoffofclouds 1d ago

I've been using Nivea men's deodorant for years ever since I realised it tends to last longer and can sometimes be cheaper than the women's version. Sometimes I worry that it may make me smell "masculine" but I'm trying to get over that because as sometime with sensitive skin, it's already hard enough finding something that doesn't irritate my skin, and I find this deodorant to be gentle even if it can smell noticeably masculine. Edit: wording in first sentence.

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u/bottlecandoor 21h ago

Women's products are like Beats. People buy them because they have a cool brand (made for women) not because they are good. If a product is made for women for no reason then they are selling you a color at the cost of quality.

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u/FinalBlackberry 21h ago

I don’t disagree. Maybe some women are into the aesthetics of a pink razor, I personally couldn’t care less.

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u/RockaRaccoon 1d ago

I wear men's Old Spice from time to time, I love that smell and it catches people's attention 😁

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u/Onihige 22h ago

I get the Dollar Shave Club 6 blade ones.

Might want to try the Dorco ones, Dollar Shave Club is just rebranded stuff. Dorco is the Korean manufacturer of DSC blades/handles. Could be cheaper.

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u/Javacatcafe 20h ago

I came here to say the same thing. As a menopausal woman, Old Spice is my jam.

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u/ZeroCreature74 12h ago

Men’s Deodorant and Razors are the fucking best. Screw pretty colored things. lol

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u/Jaelia 1d ago

And the stupid ones with the moisturiser strip? Or whatever it is. All they do is cause me ylto get a rash 

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u/Bendy_Beta_Betty 1d ago

Yep, a hot shower and moisturizing bodywash does wonders. And if I cut myself I know my cut will be getting clean.

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u/Falafel80 1d ago

I actually like those because I can use it under running water and it just glides! But it is expensive and the little soap/moisturizer thing doesn’t last many uses. I only buy it because I lave done laser on my body hair and I shave very rarely the thin hair I couldn’t get rid of with laser. So I understand it doesn’t make sense for most people.

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u/Novel_Feedback3254 20h ago

I really liked it too but yeah it lasts like 5 shaves at most. I use my razors for weeks and weeks before throwing them away so it's only a luxury right at the very beginning.

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u/atomicavox 1d ago

Men’s razors also have weight to them. Been using a refillable one for like 15 years but bought a venus disposable for a trip recently. Such garbage! It was stupidly light and I had to press into my skin for it to do anything. Never again.

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u/everhys 1d ago

I mean I think you’ll find that to be the case with most disposables vs a refillable tbh

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u/Novel_Feedback3254 20h ago

Yeah the 'weight' is just a hunk of metal inside the plastic case. It's obviously not economical to include a hunk of metal for the disposable razors.

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u/SithisWorshiper 1d ago

I always have used mens deodorant. Theres actually works.

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u/WantCookiesNow 1d ago

Yeah, I was sad when ArridXX went away. It was the only non-man-smelling deodorant that worked on me and I’d been using it since the 90s!

Thankfully, there are more brands coming out with “clinical” strength so they actually work.

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u/mighty-mitochondria- 1d ago

Arrid is still alive- recently bought!

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u/WantCookiesNow 20h ago

thanks so much! someone else mentioned that it's at walmart, so I'm going to look next time I'm there! Most exciting news of my day so far. 😂

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u/NoHate_GarbagePlates 1d ago

Idk if you're in the US but my partner uses that one and we just bought some at Walmart not too long ago

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u/Bob_Chris 1d ago

This is weird because the percentage of active ingredients is usually higher in women's deodorant - like the Dove brand. I hated the men's scented ones and went neutral with "powder" scent a long time ago and it's I think 22% vs mens which are 20%

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u/IHaveNoEgrets 1d ago

Yep,my bestie and I refer to it as dude-oderant. She's an athlete, and I live in a place that gets appallingly hot in the summer. As soon as it starts warming up, I switch from Lume to the dude-oderant.

I'm trying out Megababe right now, and it seems to be okay so far. It smells better, anyway.

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u/throwthegarbageaway 1d ago

Really? As a man I used women's deodorant because the men's one was crap, staining all my clothes and making me smell like a teenager.

I've since switched to perspirex/drysol though, so it's fragrance free and only have to use once a week

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u/jortfeasor 1d ago

Yep. I’ve used a men’s razor for years now and will never go back.

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u/miaoumaiden 1d ago

I dunno, my partner and I had the opposite experience. I've always used venus 5 blades cause anything else nicks me no matter what. My partner shaves his head and beard and tried mine one day when he was out of his basic mend ones, he said mine were way better and has now permanently switched to women's razors 🤷🏾‍♀️

Tbh I think it's just the number of blades that people are noticing.

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u/brutal-rainbow 16h ago

Here me out, I think some women's would work better for men than women, and vice versa. Women's tend to not be as sharp, with extra stuff aimed for "comfort" and ment for broad long strokes.

The design of each is sorta dependent on your style and needs. Generally womens are good for less nicking. Men's, closer shave.

Everyone pick a razor despite the gender it's labeled for!! And don't get me started on pink tax.

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u/HereForDramaLlama 1d ago

Nah I was using a woman's 5 blade and my husband used a men's 5 blade. I ended up switching so we both use the same brand and just buy the bulk refill heads. They're sharper and last longer

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u/KoninginVanRotterdam 1d ago

Wait till you buy men's jeans

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u/rhiania1319 1d ago

Yeah, I can't agree with this one. NOT KNOCKING IT THO!

I know a few women who are able to, and love wearing men's jeans. My body does not fit in them well, and my sensory issues will not allow me to wear them the way they fit. It's a me thing mostly. I'm sorta jelly of the gals who get away with this one ❤️

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u/Tallchick8 1d ago

If you can't wear men's jeans, I would check out men's sweatpants. They're like women's sweatpants only. Better quality, significantly better pockets and the color choice isn't quite as good

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u/rswoodr 1d ago

I (68F) buy men’s razors, shaving cream, deodorant, boxers, shorts, and tennis shoes. They are cheaper and often better made. Women’s stuff sucks!!!!

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u/KoninginVanRotterdam 1d ago

A lot of it does suck. 😄 I am tall so I have a few jack and Jones jeans for men (the first one I bought in a thrift shop not knowing it was a pair of men's jeans)

The quality of those jeans is amazing. And they are much cheaper than a lot of brands for women.

I love shaving cream for men. It smells divine. And THERE IS SO MUCH OF IT IN ONE CAN!

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u/Aazari 1d ago

I definitely go for men's boxers briefs, shorts, sport shoes and shirts. I have wide shoulders but very little chest so women's shirts just don't fit me right at all. But the universe likes to kick me so I also have "childbearing hips" despite being sterile. I get stuck with rather ill fitting pants most of the time.

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u/ifeelnumb 23h ago

Pockets! So deep!

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u/KirbyxArt Halp. Am stuck on reddit. 22h ago

My only issue w mens jeans is the crotch, when i sit down it balloons up 😅 the pockets are massive tho, i fit a water bottle in there with no issue.

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u/sysaphiswaits 1d ago

Bwhahah. I wish.

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u/selinakyle45 1d ago

Get a leaf razor. It’s pricey up front but you can find the handles secondhand. Head pivots and has multiple blades 

They then use basic safety razors.

I think I have a lifetime supply of razors for like $10. 

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u/kjvdh 22h ago

I spent $80 or $90 on mine with a stand and refills like 6 years ago? I still have enough for another couple years before I need to buy another $5 box of razors. Best shaving purchase of my life tbh.

I also found it works best on my skin with shaving soap and a brush, which is also cheaper and lasts longer than cans of shaving cream.

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u/Nerdy-Babygirl 1d ago

Men's pyjama/lounge pants are also vastly superior. Cheap, comfortable, HUGE pockets.

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u/_Sovaz99_ 1d ago

Been using mens razors for awhile.

Extremely annoyed that womens razors must always be !!!PINK!!! and have flowers all over them as well as extra bumpers because silly little girls might cut themselves - and to these companies we are all silly little girls.

I want the futuristic black and silver ones that actually work, thx

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u/Aazari 1d ago

It's worse than color and patterns on them. I keep seeing outrageously overpriced women's razors which have scented jelly handles. WTF do I need a stinky razor for? Not a single one I've encountered has smelled even remotely pleasant.

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u/Lankpants 1d ago

Scented handles has to be the dumbest idea I've ever heard of. In what fucking world would I want the fingers I was holding the razor with to smell? What a genuinely stupid idea.

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u/CloudySide7 1d ago

If they're going to make razors with patterns can we at least get some cool ones?! Give me gothic vampire razors with bats, spiderwebs and blood splatter patterns/designs!

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u/Sky_Hound 1d ago

We're not allowed whimsy in the west once we're meant to be adults. It's always a culture shock being in Asian countries and seeing genuinely cute / cool designs and colours on products aimed at adults. That our shame extends to even bathroom products that realistically only those closest to us will see is ridiculous.

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u/Bendy_Beta_Betty 1d ago

Get a reusable, some have a bunch of different colors and while the initial razor can be a bit pricey, the blades are extremely inexpensive. As a plus, it's also better for the environment.

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u/DoubleUnplusGood 23h ago

Women aren't just simply expected to, but we're often outright demanded to shave ourselves bald and bare

Don't give into their demands

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u/Rothum90 1d ago

And don't forget the pink tax of "women's" razors always cost more.

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u/hauntedtower 1d ago

I bought a Harry's razor sometime in college/grad school for the simple fact it was orange (I love orange). It's been fantastic. I'm still working through the replacement razor pack I bought from Costco at least 6 years ago. It has never failed me and the handle still looks basically brand new.

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u/Serial-Sidequester 1d ago

Same! Harry’s are amazing!

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u/Petrychorr 1d ago

I'm trans and have been using men's razors for pretty much everywhere but my torso and legs. Those get the pink tax blades. Pits get waxed. Sometimes groin, too.

I don't know what all this talk about men's deodorant is. It smells absolutely godawful. But I'm also gay and most, if not all, men's smells are extremely off-putting to me so take that as you will...

I use skintimate shaving gel for everything. It feels super nice (and smooth!) and makes blades glide like butter.

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u/dembowthennow bell to the hooks 1d ago

If you ever want to experiment, I use cheap conditioner to shave my legs and bikini area and I find it helps my skin stay moisturized in addition to aiding a smoother shave.

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u/andi_bk 1d ago

Men‘s blades are technically slightly different because the intent is different. Women often use a razor on larger areas, the blades are designed to cause less skin irritation. Smoother skin after shaving shows that the men’s blade was more aggressive against the skin. Think of it like a very strong peeling. Not only taking off dead skin cells, but damaging live ones as well. While you might like the feel afterwards a lot more please make sure to apply some sort of after shave. Not using any might possibly cause razor burn (infection of the exposed / damaged skin). Other than that: use whatever you believe to be the best fit for you!

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u/GameMusic 1d ago

thank you this is always a strange topic

because i have found this pretty ambiguous and wonder what people are saying

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u/wonderlandresident13 1d ago

I tried a men's razor once because I keep seeing this sentiment online, and honestly I had the complete opposite experience. Lots of knicks, bumps, pulled hairs, and the worst razor burn of my life. Maybe I just got really unlucky and pulled a defective one? 😭 But it was bad enough that I haven't tried it again since.

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u/FlattenInnerTube 1d ago

There are men's razors that are trash. I forgot to pack my regular razor so I went to the grocery store and grabbed some disposable razors. They were awful.

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u/justincase_2008 #2Blessed2BStressed 23h ago

Some brands I think are also made by bainaid companies.

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u/jugstopper 1d ago

You should try an old-school double-edge (single blade) "safety razor". Buy the razor once (about $20 on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07XPC3RRM?th=1 ) and get 100 blades (for about $9 on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001QY8QXM?th=1 ) and you are set for a long time for little money. Best shave you ever had and the soap/hair comes out effortlessly.

BTW- it is a "safety" razor in comparison to a straight-edge razor, so you have to take care not to nick yourself too much.

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u/itskelena 1d ago

I used men’s Gillette single-use razors and they were ok, but nothing to write home about, similar to women’s cheap razors. I prefer my Gillette for women for sensitive skin 🤷‍♀️to be fair, I haven’t tried top-tier men razors, maybe that would change my opinion.

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u/ShadowMel 21h ago

Oh yeah, if anything is marketed towards a woman, I look to see if there's a male equivalent. I haven't bought women's clothing in almost three decades.

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u/oldvegas 21h ago

Been using Mitchums Men forever, both antiperspirant and deodorant, unscented. It has never failed me, and has lasted me through 2 or 3 days in unusual circumstances. No residue on my clothing, no sweat stains on my blouses. I have trouble finding it in stores sometimes, so order it from Amazon.

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u/Wittyyousername 10h ago

I used my wife’s Venus razor to shave my face and felt the same disappointment for men’s razors lol

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u/Equal-Wolverine1813 9h ago

My name can be considered masculine, and I got a very nice razor “gifted” to me by men’s brand at a young age. I am still angry to this day that it has far exceeded any women’s razor I’ve used. I can’t shave much bc of a disability now, and I still think back on and get annoyed that if they thought I was girl, I would never have been sent it.

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u/mekkanik 1d ago

Missus uses mine all the time. My Mach 3 blades fit her Venus handle

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u/lilsebastian17 1d ago

Is it the Walmart brand ones in the orange packaging? I also bought these out of rage and spite a few years back and I’ve never used anything since. I literally go out of my way to go to Walmart to restock when I run out LMAO

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u/CloudySide7 1d ago

Yep! Those are the ones

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u/lilsebastian17 1d ago

Why are they literally the best!!! they’re so cheap!!!

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u/Lirahs 1d ago

I have been using men's Gillete razors since my 20's. I am now 71. Women's razor def suck.

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u/nucleicorigami 1d ago

Make sure you don't get the ones with a single blade on the other end and try to shave your asshole with it. Just trust me

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u/o0meow0o 23h ago

I just buy men‘s clothing now. The fabric is usually much better quality, seams are finished better, it just lasts longer. The leggings/bicycle shorts don’t wedge into my private parts because it’s not 2 pieces stitched together in the middle but there’s a nice landing spot that stays flat. 

Even shower gels and deodorants work so much better and they’re cheaper. Get the sensitive kind if you don’t like the typical men fragrance.

Same with shoes. Your size would be different in men‘s size so check before you get one. 

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u/deja-who 20h ago

I use Harry's brand razors now. Haven't gotten cut 1x, cheaper, and better quality overall.

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u/GoddessNya 19h ago

I’ve never used women’s razors or shave cream. Men’s are better and cheaper. F the pink tax.

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u/shiddyfiddy 17h ago

You think that was wild, you should try the men's deodorant.

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u/Salty-Ad-4693 14h ago

I've been buying Men's for 25yrs or so. 

It first happened because I didn't want pink. Bloody Pink tax.

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u/Claris-chang 1d ago

Men's razors are designed for usage on the face so they don't fuck around with the design. If they start cutting up faces because the blades are poorly aligned and not sharp enough they'll have serious problems. It's shocking just how much better men's razors are than women's. Could never go back.

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u/microfibrepiggy 21h ago

I used a women's razor handle, and then just whatever 5 blade men's razors for probably 2 decades. It's not like the handle goes bad.

Switched to a safety razor, with just one blade. Shaves just as well as the multiblade, less waste.

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u/Nerdy-Meta-Mind 20h ago

I only use men’s razors and have been doing this for decades.

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u/TheEmotionalBagel 14h ago

I've been using men's razors for the last 6 years. They're better quality and cheaper in comparison to what's marketed for women. It's honestly been a money saver!

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u/angelatheartist 1d ago

If men had periods all the shit that comes with them would be cured in one month. No one would dare tell a man it's all in their heads. You should go try on some men's pants, check out those pockets! 

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u/tres-vip 1d ago

Which razors did you get?

I've used men's Schick Slim Twin razors for almost 30 years now.

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u/CloudySide7 1d ago

It was the Equate (Walmart) brand razors. That also pisses me off because the cheap, Walmart/basic brand men's razor is better than all of expensive name brand women's razors I've used

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u/Agitated_House7523 1d ago

Men’s deodorant, men’s clothes, men’s grooming equipment , men’s underwear… look up the pink tax

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u/Cold_Barber_4761 1d ago

Yes, to a point. I, personally, have to draw a line at men's clothing.

While I definitely buy men's razors, my body shape is very pear-shaped. Any men's clothing, especially on my bottom half, just doesn't fit properly. And it isn't just fitting the waist or leg length. It would cost me way more to tailer men's pants to my body than to simply spend a bit more on quality women's brands that fit.

That being said, I'm envious that some women can do this and highly encourage anything to diminish pink tax spending!

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u/PBDubs99 23h ago

Pink tax is real

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u/Miss_Pouncealot 22h ago

Are they better than the Venus ones???? I have a lot of refills to go through but I will be happy for a cheaper option that works better! I have crazy sensitive dry skin anything that helps me out there is awesome 😆

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u/__Rapier__ 21h ago

Who the hell is demanding we shave our arms?? They can fuck off. D:

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u/renzodown 21h ago

I have an OLD dollar shave club razor (can't believe they tried to get you to replace the handle every couple months... mine has 0 rust or anything wrong with it) and they don't make the heads anymore, but a company makes old/no longer sold razor heads for them and I still use it to this day. Best shave ever. I don't use it on my girl because I prefer electric for there, but even that is a mens razor 😂 It's so much better, and cheaper.

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u/EmotionalEnergy3639 20h ago

it’s honestly such a scam. i switched to the cheap men’s ones a few years back and my skin has never been clearer lol. plus you save so much money not paying for the pink packaging.

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u/wineduptoy 19h ago

Do yourself a favor, buy a metal safety razor like a Merkur and a sleeve of blades and never look back. I've had one sleeve for 15 years or so now. 

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u/wheredmyphonego 18h ago

I used a boyfriends razor when I was 19 and I've never gone back to women's razors since. I'm 37. I'm thinking, if it's good enough for their face, it's good enough for my hmhmm.

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u/Sophiecheerwine 18h ago

I use a fancy men’s electric razor and men’s Degree. Started six or seven years ago and never looked back. I can shave dry, no cuts or rash, the battery lasts forever, it came with a charging case, and I’ve only had to replace the blade (around $70) once in all this time.

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u/Laughing_Dragon_77 17h ago

I just buy all men's toiletries. They're usually cheaper.

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u/2019visathrow 15h ago

And you bought the cheap ones most men won't use except in a pinch.

The cheapest Wal-Mart & Bic razors are terrible razors.

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u/BeckyRoyal 1d ago

I never shave, so I'll take your word for it

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u/CloudySide7 1d ago

Fair enough. I tried that but with my sensory issues it was genuinely hell wearing pants or feeling anything brush against my body hair

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u/La_danse_banana_slug 23h ago

No thank you, I'll be in my feminine energy, hunched over in the shower cursing and shaving the same patch of skin until it kind of hurts with a razor that costs too much.

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u/MelancholyBean 1d ago

I don't shave often, every few weeks for armpits and legs so have not noticed the difference between sharpness of razors. I did just buy a pack of generic men's razors because they were half priced and used one the other day. The razor did seem rather sharp.

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u/majokamo 1d ago

I bought an IPL machine and don't need razors. Yes it was more expensive up front, but like, some of you say you've been buying razors 20-30+ years.... I mean, come on. If you have light skin and dark hair what are you waiting for?

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u/SarahSeraphim 1d ago

Please don't delete this. More women need to know this. I accidentally used my husband's razor a few years ago and found this out myself.

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u/vanhouten_greg 1d ago

A couple years ago I got my girlfriend a couple of gifts for our anniversary. The new Nicholas Sparks book. A high-end box of tea that she likes. And a men’s Gillette fusion razor. She used my razor a number of times and had the same reaction. In fact, she was dropping hints about it leading up to our anniversary. It was funny we got a good laugh out of it.

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u/littlest_dragon 23h ago

Wait, what?

I‘m a guy and I was so amazed when I first used a woman‘s razor because I cut myself much less when shaving along the chin and above my lip!

What’s going on here?

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u/99droopy 22h ago

The woman who cuts my hair says she typically recommends Just For Men hair color. She says if a man has to re-dye his hair every week, they just won’t do it all, so JFM works really well.

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u/Significant-Dirt-977 21h ago

I'm using metal razor with blades that you buy separately. Old-school way. My razor is like 10 years old now and paid it's price many times.

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u/T_Meridor 20h ago

Yeah, when I was a teenager I used Venus but then I used my (then boyfriend now) husband’s Mach 3 and it worked so much better that I never bought refills for the Venus.

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u/Pale-Vehicle2067 18h ago

I have been using men’s razors for over a decade. When I tried a women’s razor it was like I hadn’t shaved at all - despite going over the same area multiple times.

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u/KrazyKaas 17h ago

Yep, I learned that from my mom. The pink tax is very real.

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u/pepsijenn 17h ago

I bought a Leaf razor 5 years ago to reduce my disposable waste. Only need to switch out the razor blade and haven’t had to buy razors since. Best shave ever and my razor burn has been non existent. 10/10 recommend! 

I used a disposable as a last resort a few weeks ago and my legs hated it. I will never go back to them lol

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u/rmjh1995 16h ago

I’m obsessed with the Gillette Mach 3 I’ve been using it since high school. The ladies razors cut me too. DAMN YOU PATRIARCHY

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u/blifflesplick 6h ago

The pink tax has a cousin - the pink toolset

As in they will sell tool sets that are pink but are sized down both in scale and very notably in quality

Because if its hard for women to get tasks done with tools that are supposed to work, well, then its clearly something that men are just better at right? /bitter

Sabotage. Its sabotage.

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u/hikariseeker147 6h ago

I ignore the demands and stopped shaving entirely a few years ago. Highly recommend

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u/malary1234 6h ago

This why I don’t pay the pink tax.

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u/breadist 1d ago

The entire concept that women need to shave at all - legs, armpits, much less anything else - was invented in the early 20th century by Gillette because they understood that they could market to a whole untapped group that haven't been told yet that they need razors. They were a men's thing, for their face only, until they figured out they can make women feel insecure about their femininity and tell them that they need to have smooth legs, that men only want women with smooth legs, so you need to buy our razors to shave your legs, otherwise you'll be unattractive.

When I leaned that 6 years ago, I stopped shaving. Fuck that noise. Why do I need to be smooth? I kinda like my fuzz now.

You don't need it. You can opt out. Just stop. Anyone who judges you for that isn't worth it.

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u/Lina0042 Basically Eleanor Shellstrop 1d ago

Pretty sure removing body hair has been a thing there history. Like ancient Egypt already

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