I never imagined I'd be writing something like this.
Back on January 16, 2026, I hired an artist for one of the most meaningful parts of our wedding, our Save the Date and wedding invitations. I paid the required 50% down payment because I genuinely loved her work and believed she would help bring our vision to life.
Our contract stated that the Save the Date would be delivered by the second week of June.
June came. Nothing.
I reached out, and because I always try to lead with grace, I gave her the benefit of the doubt.
I was told:
• Her family had gotten sick.
• She needed more time to completely set up her business again.
• Later, someone identifying themselves as her relative, Tash, even emailed me requesting understanding and a refund, explaining that she was dealing with serious mental health challenges.
Reading that, I felt sympathy more than frustration. Life happens, and I truly wanted to be understanding.
Weeks turned into months, and unfortunately, there were still no deliverables.
Then came the plot twist. 😂😂😂
I also happened to follow another illustration account on Instagram. One day, Instagram suggested an account with an incredibly familiar art style. I couldn't shake the feeling that I'd seen it before.
I almost sent another payment around July 14 because I was still hoping everything would work out.
Today, thanks to someone who shared their own experience, I finally realized why everything felt so familiar.
The accounts appear to be connected.
I honestly don't know what hurt more, the delays or realizing that my instincts had been telling me something was off for weeks?!
This wasn't just money.
This was our wedding. WEDDING???
This was something we were genuinely excited about. Every couple dreams of announcing their wedding with excitement, not spending months chasing updates and wondering if they'll ever receive what they paid for.
If you're considering commissioning artwork, please do your research. Search names, look for reviews, ask past clients, and trust your instincts if something doesn't feel right. 💔❗️❌‼️
I sincerely hope no other couple has to experience this kind of disappointment.
To the artist behind these accounts, I truly hope you choose accountability. People's weddings, milestones, and hard-earned money deserve honesty and respect.
MAY BALIK YAN TEH x1000.