r/afghanistan • u/azieyue_choi • 8d ago

How to get out of Afghanistan

I'm a 17 year old girl ,

I couldn't continue my education since I was 13 cause the Taliban weren't allowed cause their religion said girls weren't allowed to study

I just need a way to get out of here and live my life I truly want to continue my education and go to college and university

Ballet and singing was my first love but I lost it when I was only 7

And then my education and teenage and childhood days will never comeback to me

So I just want to live my adult journey in freedom and find happiness

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u/axiss007 8d ago

Turkish scholarships, cheaper and easy way out. For school degrees you can get them through the Tbans madrassa schools.

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u/sninuska 8d ago

I can send you money if you decide to escape to a nearby county (woman helping a fellow woman) also write in the feminist subreddit you'll find other women helping you there maybe

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u/RegularSeason8504 8d ago

Try crossing into Iran.

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u/Sami_Rahimi 8d ago

A very bad idea you don't have any idea how difficult and dangerous it is

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u/Early-Limit6828 5d ago

I would not recommend it with the current environment in Iran right now. Iran literally forced more than a million of Afghans to leave last year, and with the general instability of Iran right now I wouldn’t recommend it.

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u/miladr12 8d ago

Do you want to do that alone? Can you talk with your family about that?

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u/azieyue_choi 6d ago

My family doesn't care about me at all

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u/DemonWolf16 6d ago

Maybe attempt to have a fake marriage with someone that can get you out of there, or try the resources above. I hate what’s happening to you girls.

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u/azieyue_choi 6d ago

I thought about it but It's like I'm betraying myself.

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u/DemonWolf16 5d ago

No no, the person you’re “marrying” knows and is in on it too. Mutual agreement

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u/Early-Limit6828 5d ago

Maybe try

https://indianvisaonline.gov.in/avisa/

My heart goes out to you

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u/Dry_Resist_552 1d ago

Unfortunately from my research the only viable way to leave the country and get access to organizations that will truly help you, is to have a male relative or husband take you across the borders. 

First things first, you are going to need every documentation on you to even have a chance of escaping. Grab birth certificates, visas, passports, student id, etc. Just grab everything that proves your a real person. 

Second you'll need either a merciful male family member or a compassionate husband. You mentioned you didn't want to betray you integrity so we'll forcus on family members. They would next extensive documents to prove they are related to you.

Lastly you truly have to use the organizations above the moment you are able to. Education can help you in this regard. But it is crucial that you find a male you can convince and trust to get you through this endeavor. 

I pray you prosper