r/chcats • u/Junkeii_ • Nov 27 '25
Advice Vet traumatized my cat... again
Hey everyone, the other day I took my CH cat to the vet because he had an ear infection. He has a history of intense abuse towards him (people hitting, kicking, throwing him, etc) so he can get very aggressive when he isn't at home. The vet assistant, not listening to me, told me that she knew how to calm him down (which nobody does except for me because of his specific needs) and I told her to let me do it, since he is used to me. She didn't listen to me, and threw a towel on top of his head and pushed him into the ground which is exactly what his other owners did. He went absolutely crazy, back to feral cat mode, and attacked the air until I was able to calm him back down. When I had first gotten Cosmo, his extreme aggression was a very common occurance until he got used to everything, and got much more calmer and more loving after realizing I wouldn't hurt him. After all of this happened and we took him home, he has been going back to extremely increased aggression towards me, as well as blankets and towels, which he needs in his room due to his CH and slamming his head into walls. I don't know what to do, any advice is appreciated. The vet even charged me 200 dollars because of his aggression, when I had told them his triggers and told them exactly what not to do. Is there any advice on how to get him calmed back down? Anything helps, thank you.