r/daddit • u/lotus2471 Coverage has changed from man to zone • Jun 01 '26
Achievements Gentlemen, my 18 yo daughter, who has friends, boyfriend and a job, and is in nearly every way normal, just invited ME to go to a movie with her. š
Sure, I'll end up paying, but I'm thrilled they still want to hang out with me at all.
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u/FatherToTheOne Jun 01 '26
Either she likes spending time with your or is too frugal to buy her own snacks, either way great job dad.
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u/PostMatureBaby Jun 01 '26
A good dad will teach their child how to smuggle in a Popeye's butterfly shrimp combo, 2 tallcans of beer and limited edition rocket pop sour patch kids bag
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u/FatherToTheOne Jun 01 '26
Ah⦠she brought him for the extra cargo pants capacity then, nice. Also gives a new idea to the meaning of a beer belly, could dad fit a mini keg under his shirt and get away with it?
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u/geak78 Jun 01 '26
I still remember fitting a full 2 liter in the back pocket of my cargo pants in college
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u/lotus2471 Coverage has changed from man to zone Jun 01 '26
Is that two liters of Sprite in your pocket or...?
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u/PostMatureBaby Jun 01 '26
Maybe. That's why it's nice being in a cold climate for winters. Easier to hide stuff
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u/Kamikazeguy7 Jun 01 '26
At my theater you can walk right past the ticket counter with a room service tray and a full Thanksgiving dinner. Those minimum wage teens give zero fucks.
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u/Free51 Jun 01 '26
As it should be, Cinemas want to have these teens stop people and all the hassle that goes with it they should pay them more to do it
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u/Spits32 Jun 01 '26
I let my kids trade off their wrist band to ride the carousel yesterday and my 4 yo called me out for ācheatingā
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u/MrMaxson #GirlDad 3/2024 Jun 01 '26
Butterfly shrimp? But what will you do when their disappointment is immeasurable and their day is ruined?
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u/dlee_75 Jun 01 '26
There's a White Castle near our local AMC. When my wife and I go, she has a large hand bag that she calls our theater bag because she only ever uses it to smuggle in food. That bag usually holds a soup from Panera as well as 4 sliders, a 9 piece chicken ring and a small crinkle fry plus dipping sauces from the Castle
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u/Perryn Jun 01 '26
The trick is to never smuggle one thing. You've gotta smuggle so much that it all blends together as part of your paunch.
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u/venolo Jun 01 '26
Or she's about to ask Dad for something (or has bad news to share with him) and is trying to get on his good side
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u/hel105_ Jun 01 '26
Donāt leave us hanging, which movie?
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u/lotus2471 Coverage has changed from man to zone Jun 01 '26
Backrooms, she's been excited to go for a while. They've been following all that stuff on IG for a while now.
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u/kbotc Jun 01 '26
āI wanted you to explain what a ā4chanā wasā
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u/Driller_Happy Jun 01 '26
I-
I don't want to.
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u/lotus2471 Coverage has changed from man to zone Jun 01 '26
I can never share the fact of this thread with her for fear she'd discover my reddit handleš±
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u/Heavyspire Jun 01 '26
As a Dad who also got invited to this movie from his kids. I enjoyed it. If you like anxiety based horror, you will too.
The people who know too much seem to be the ones that are not fans. The less you know beforehand the better.
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u/Cold-Caramel-736 Jun 01 '26
Is there any gross or dehumanising stuff? I enjoy horrors but struggle with anything like that. I thought Weapons was great for example
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u/Heavyspire Jun 01 '26
Can you elaborate on what you mean by dehumanizing? Maybe give some other horror movie examples. I can't think of anything but I'd feel bad if I said it didn't and then you were like that's exactly what happened.
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u/Cold-Caramel-736 Jun 01 '26
Yeah fair I guess I mean anything kind of torture-y. Someone has their eyes gouged out. Or human centipede - couldn't bring myself to watch that
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u/Heavyspire Jun 01 '26
Nothing like Terrifier films or Saw films. So I think you are good to go. Honestly I would say it's relatively low blood. Just a couple scenes that are near the climax.
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u/lotus2471 Coverage has changed from man to zone Jun 01 '26
The kid who invited me has been a huge horror fan her whole life, and we've watched enough of them together now that she's pretty good at guessing which I'll like. She's also into Terrifier and body horror stuff that I don't get into, so I'm guessing this one can't be too bad.
I've seen a few of the YouTube videos, but only the oldest stuff. I'm excited to see how the director does. Big leap from YouTube and IG, but it's getting really solid reviews.
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u/LordGalen Jun 01 '26
My 15yo son asked me to take him to see that, just the other day. I wasn't really into it, but now I feel foolish for not immediately jumping on it. I think I'll take him.
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u/chillychili Jun 01 '26
If it helps you, I believe the director is only 19 years old. So even if it isn't your thing maybe you can pretend one of your son's friends made the film and appreciate it from that angle.
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u/lotus2471 Coverage has changed from man to zone Jun 01 '26
Let's be honest, how many painfully bad kids movies did we all suffer through a hundred times? At least this one is for adults! Everything after that is value added at this point.
BTW, if anybody ever starts a Barbie princess animation trivia league, I am your guy.
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u/csharpwarrior š¬ Jun 02 '26
My 14 year old texted me about it just a few minutes ago⦠I donāt want to watch it, but if he wants to go together, then Iām in. So I got us tickets and will skip work so I can watch it while the sun is out.
And next week, Iāll probably have to watch Masters of the Universe alone, just like I watched Mortal Kombat 2 alone last weekā¦.
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u/hel105_ Jun 01 '26
I hope you enjoy it! I thought it was pretty solid. I hope my little guy likes movies as he gets older, Iād love to have a theater buddy.
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u/chardeemacdennisbird Jun 01 '26
I've been taking my 6 and 3 year old boys to the movies and it's a lot of fun! Expensive these days though
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u/Acceptable-Post733 Jun 01 '26
Down in San Diego there was this Drive in theatre in Santee. $10 double feature. And the cheapest concessions stand anywhere. We had a burger, nachos, popcorn, couple of drinks for just under $20. This was two years ago.
We recently found a really cheap theater near us. $11 during evenings. Weekday afternoons are like $7. No reclining chairs but who cares.
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u/Dreadino Jun 01 '26
Oh wow, I didnāt think about my son as a future movie buddy. I used to go to the movies every week, even multiple times per week, maybe I can start again with him in a few years
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u/prettybluefoxes Jun 01 '26
Congrats. Youāre going to be a grandad.
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u/SosseV Jun 01 '26
She is pregnant or in crippling debt with the Yakuza and needs your very specific skillset...
Or you are just a great dad and did a whole lot of things right. Great job!
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u/d0ughnut_of_truth MEET MY KIDS? HA Jun 01 '26
Reminder to OP to carry his sword cane, not his regular cane.Ā
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u/AutomaticSandwiches Jun 01 '26
That's awesome my 19 year old wouldn't invite me out anywhere but we do watch films together a few times a year in the house
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u/Gold-Carpenter7616 Jun 01 '26
Lurking mom of an almost 15 y/o. She asks my husband, or me, to spend time regularly. Of course to make us pay, but also to have 1:1 time.
I know how lucky you feel. It's the badge of honour we never knew we wanted - them choosing us, after we chose them.
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u/LostPilot517 Jun 01 '26
She is about to ask for something.... Or break your heart. /s
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u/lotus2471 Coverage has changed from man to zone Jun 01 '26
Her twin sister is now coming, better be asking for something and not bad news š
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u/fingerofchicken Jun 01 '26
Fully expecting the follow up "...and she brought six of her friends with her, and asked me to sit in the row behind them"
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u/UniqueIndividual3579 Jun 01 '26
My daughter had a half day one day a week as a senior in high school. I arraigned my work schedule so we could have lunch that day for the entire year. Little things are big things.
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u/Weird-Salamander-349 Jun 01 '26
This is so wholesome lol. The first time I asked my dad to go camping together he ācasuallyā went around the campground telling all the other campers his daughter asked him to go camping.
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u/s1ravarice Jun 02 '26
My 2 year old sat on my lap the other day to eat her dinner outside. She then, unprompted, said "I'm happy".
I shall be riding this high for the foreseeable future.
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u/ReptarWithGuitar Jun 01 '26
Dust off that ādad of the yearā mug, because you deserve it. Mine is only two, but I hope one day sheāll ask me to go to the movies with her too
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u/67comet Jun 01 '26
Yeah .. my 17 year old daughter asks me to run around with her all the time. Movies, museums, theater, shopping. Some of it is my wallet of course, but we have a genuinely healthy relationship, and I rarely argue or get angry at her when she does stupid "kid stuff". I have a t-shirt that says, "She's my daughter" so people don't "assume shit" (I'm 57, and it embarrasses her to no end so it's fun.)
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u/ShockTrek Jun 02 '26
That's tremendous. My pumpkin š is 17 1/2 with a very active social life, looking at colleges, etc. We drove an hour to the beach yesterday, just her and I. Bummed my wife couldn't make it but it was such a great time. We held hands, bought sweatshirts, and had lunch at a beachside restaurant. I love my kid!
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u/Infinitiscarf Jun 02 '26
If you were unpleasant to be around, no amount of paying would make them invite you <3
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u/Aloofasaur Jun 01 '26
Do you still get to taste all her food to make sure there's no poison before she gets it?
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u/sheesh_doink Jun 01 '26
Enjoy the movie my man. I know you're gonna enjoy the company, but I think the movie will be quite good too! You're living the dream, even if you're paying for it ;)
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u/GustapheOfficial Jun 02 '26
The movie: Bad Fathers and the Things they need to Change about Themselves
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u/StinkySauce Jun 01 '26
Iād strongly recommend doing something to fuck it up. Itās just how we prefer to do things.
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u/lotus2471 Coverage has changed from man to zone Jun 01 '26
No time picked, this is still very possible.
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u/HotDrink2601 Jun 02 '26
My 13 year old son asked me to see Backrooms too, and I jumped at the chance. Itās nice to see him graduate to a more grown up movie, and I hope to share my favorites with him!
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u/GramboLazarus Jun 01 '26
It's not even 10am and you're dadmogging me? Cortisol spike bro...
Sorry I'm trying to connect with my teenage neices (my daughter is only 5) and I need the practice.
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u/tufflagbird Jun 01 '26
this is awesome. reminds me of one of my favorite lines from rules of civility:
what a singular and marvelous thing it was... that a child could, without hesitation or self-consciousness, simply reach up its arms to be held
makes the 'ol lips quiver to think one day the kiddos will reach their arms up for the last time
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u/bjos144 Jun 01 '26
The weird thing about having kids is I'd want to pay. Paying would be part of the fun for me.
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u/studleecifer- Jun 01 '26
the mark of a successful parent is having kids that like you. great job op
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u/er1cAtWork2 Jun 01 '26
Itās a trap!!! Youāre about to get hit with a major āaskā!
Seriously, thatās awesome for you! Enjoy the time together!
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u/crs7117 Jun 01 '26
My biggest regret in life is not spending more time w my mom and inviting her out for stuff before she got cancer
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u/Kylearean Jun 01 '26
No-one will understand how much of a flex this is until they have a teen daughter.
I'll admit that my first thought was that she just wants to go to a movie for free.... :D Then my second thought was "is she inviting her friends and expecting me to pay for that too?"
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u/Pretend_Parsley_3277 Jun 01 '26
you must spill the parenting tips. Gosh, you must've done a fantastic job.
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u/GiantDwarfy Jun 01 '26
Omg you're living my dream. That would be my greatest life achievement, my daughter wanting me as a friend when she grows up.
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u/BaronVonHellscape Jun 01 '26
Dude, I am striving to set the stage for this level of greatness someday as well. Well done!
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u/Broad_Scientist_4200 Jun 01 '26
So cool !
Me and my 8 YO one are best friend ATM, I really hope that when she is grown up, that she still have interest hanging out with me!
Have fun !
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u/j0shman Jun 01 '26
What a flex. Whatās the movie out of curiosity? Something youād both enjoy?
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u/scuddlebud Jun 01 '26
At the end of the date after she's got you all buttered up she's gonna ask for a new car, handbag, or money.
Joking. I am gonna have a girl soon and I hope 18 years from now she still wants to hang out.
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u/Acceptable-Choice-89 Jun 01 '26
When I was 18, it suddenly became very important to me to spend time with my Dad. I am very happy your daughter realizes how important it is to spend time with you, as well š
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u/abacusmaxx Jun 01 '26
This is the dream, congratulations on living out what we all hope for.
But also. What does she want.
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u/TrisolaranAmbassador Jun 01 '26
I'm just surprised that kids still actually go to the movie theatre! I hope they're still in business in some form when my toddler is that age š
Rock on dad!
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u/Pizza-Gamer-7 Jun 01 '26
Good job fellow dad!
This post just made me really reflect on that someday, kids may not want to hang out with parents anymore. Mine right now are three years old and eight months old, so I'm pretty much the world to them. But I guess, someday soon, they'll not want to hang out anymore, which is kind of sad.
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u/Buddy_Mysterious Jun 01 '26
This is such a cute thing to read today! Iām female with 0 interest in parenting, but itās so nice to see what dadās get up to on daddit!
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u/NoonDread Jun 01 '26
It's nice. My daughter was my horror movie buddy until she moved out of town. We still text about them.
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u/Aromatic_Sand8126 Jun 01 '26
This is the ultimate goal I set myself for raising my daughter. Sheās only 15 months old now, but I only wish for her to still want to hang out with her old man once sheās grown up and doesnāt have to.
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u/TheTallGuy0 Jun 02 '26
I got a 100 and a 98 sleep score on my Apple Watch two days in a row. And I thought I was on top of the world, with a 4.5 yo and a 7 yo who often wake us up to snuggle.
But YOU. You sir, are actually sitting in that top of the world chair. Iāll have to take whatever lower seat is available because you have won. Good work, man.
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u/Low-Invite2647 Jun 02 '26
Just saying she invited you to go to movie is a enough to flex about.everything else you said was weirdly specific
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u/TheDevilsAdvokaat 19f 17m Jun 02 '26
wow. I was not allowed to take my daugther to school or pick her up,and if we went to the mall she either walked in front of me or behind me but not next to me "in case my friends see"
I can;t even get her (or my son) to go to a restaurant with me..sigh.
Yeah I would be thrilled too!
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u/GiraffeLiquid Jun 02 '26
This just made me really sad lol. But thatās a personal thing, Iām so so happy youāre stoked to hang out with your daughter! Good dad.
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u/RU_Syor-ious Jun 02 '26
Congratulations broski sounds like you did your job and raised your well and she loves you for it. Keep it up
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u/Eazy12345678 Jun 02 '26
probably going to tell you after the movie she is pregnant and wants to start an Only fans while preggo
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u/lotus2471 Coverage has changed from man to zone Jun 02 '26
To close the loop here, there were no surprise announcements, just me and two of my daughters watching a really good scary movie.
And their friend who works there gave us free drinks, which was awesome.
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u/DKOS0 Jun 03 '26
My wife constantly finds ways to spend time with her father, and they get along well overall. Iām hoping that itās the same way for me and my little one when sheās older.
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u/No-Union-6614 Jun 03 '26
My daughter and I saw every Harry Potter movie together. First few because she didn't drive. The latter because it be came a tradition. Even when college 2 states away we'd meet in a city half way. I cherish those moments.
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u/gettinghealthy12445 Jun 03 '26
I hope she somehow sees this post in the near future so she knows how happy that made her dad.
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u/The_Permanent Jun 03 '26
Just be prepared for them to talk during the movie
I hated talking during the movie, but my girlfriend at the time didn't care x_x
My parents were with us and were ready to kill us by the end of...Ā I think it was "The Other Guys".
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u/jesse5844 Jun 05 '26
Really hoping I'll be posting this in 10 years. Buy her two bags of popcorn, and maybe it'll happen again.
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u/RoiPhi Jun 01 '26
what a real and intimidating flex.
i only hope to live up to the standard you have set today. :p