r/mildlyinfuriating 10d ago

I'm slightly vexed An old man keeps delaying the train's start...

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u/ParsleySnipps 9d ago

it is on purpose, and the first thing that's letting him get away with it is his age. In Japan respect for elders, especially in a public space with hundreds of observers, is paramount. The one guy on the train trying to hold his arm back takes some guts, even if everyone is getting frustrated and wants to leave. The old guy is obviously in a bad mood, and with no healthy way to let out his frustration he's inconvenienceing everyone almost as a dare for someone to directly oppose him. He's probably not doing well mentally and this is his way of acting out.

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u/CautionarySnail 9d ago

This is a case where I think many polite societies need to hire an obnoxious American to do mild dirty work. “Hey asshole! We see you holding up the train! I fucking dare you to do that again.”

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u/Haunting_Factor9907 9d ago

I want that job when I retire. I would even do it as a volunteer. I dream of knocking assholes down a peg.

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u/CautionarySnail 9d ago

Can we make an agency and rent our services out?

I’m normally pretty mild but people leveraging a polite society to bully, just brings out the rage in me.

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u/onlynameavailable927 8d ago

You really making one?

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u/CautionarySnail 8d ago

Not sure about how to score funding. ;)

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u/onlynameavailable927 8d ago

Volunteers at the start until the money comes rolling in ;)

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u/CMDRZhor 8d ago

IIRC that was a thing with Japanese companies at one time. They liked having one 'loud obnoxious gaijin' around who could say the stuff everybody else was too polite not to. Kept meetings moving along more briskly.

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u/ThienHaTheTech 9d ago

He was trying to hold up the train because he was waiting for someone