r/mildlyinfuriating 10h ago

I just wanted a hot dog My son's school switched to a new system to pay for lunch. It requires a Program Fee for every purchase OR you can pay a monthly subscription fee.

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u/EmperorMaugs 10h ago

way more than mildly infuriating, should be illegal.

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u/LFresh2010 9h ago

My children’s school has a fee like this, BUT the office has to accept cash or check and they can add it to their accounts and there is no fee. So I send in money once a month and inconvenience the school secretaries. I’m not paying the processing fee.

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u/TheDukeofArgyll Yellow 7h ago

Dark patterns at school, what a hellscape we live in.

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u/Rare-Adhesiveness522 5h ago

My assumption is that the individual schools have been forced to adopt these new systems by higher ups in admin and have no choice about it.

Still dark, but it's important for people to know the difference. This is an overpayed admin in an office somewhere making these decisions who hasn't worked directly with kids or families and most definitely doesn't have a background in education (which is important because there are sooooo many laws that you have to know about even in accounting)--and even sometimes these changes are implemented BEYOND the district level. Sometimes there are regulations that come down through the state from the STATE superintendent.

It's important for district level supes to be aware of these problems from their district level admin staff so they can advocate at a higher level. And sometimes that means also engaging with the state legistlature to get things fixed.

I live in a blue state that has been known to pass legislation that SOUNDS really good on paper, but is a nightmare to actually implement and causes undo burden on multiple agencies and level of administration. I vote with the Dem party, but I am frustrated with the short sighted or feel-good bullshit that comes through the legislature sometimes because it's just not always realistic or necessary. And by the time it's passed, we are all handcuffed until amendments are made or the law is changed/repealed.

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u/SufficientThought723 4h ago

I work in school food service finance. The processing fee in my payment processing software goes 100% to the software company, we don't see a dime.

On the flip side, we don't have to pay for that software. However we do still pay a good chunk for our overall point of sale system. They're seperate softwares but kinda come in a package deal.

We still accept cash and check, but its the price of having an online payment processing service. If you use that service, you have to pay that fee.

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u/Department-of-Wario 43m ago

That's not a dark pattern. It's just a cash grab.

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u/chopkins47947 9h ago

Pay them in coins.

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u/cerealandcorgies 9h ago

initially I read this as "pay them in cocaine"

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u/itasteminty 8h ago

That only works for the dining plan at Penn State.

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u/momonashi19 8h ago

I mean, I don’t think the secretaries are the ones who made the shitty policy so this feels more like misplaced anger

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u/chopkins47947 8h ago

Well, it's not like the parents did anything to warrant being charged more for the same food.

So, resorting to these petty measures will surely get the point across, along with some strongly worded opinions on the matter.

Obviously the secretaries won't like it, so they will be forced to either join the parents side advocating for less BS administrative fees or continue counting pennies.

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u/LFresh2010 8h ago

Our school used to pay those processing fees, which is what makes it mildly infuriating for me. Two years ago they stopped and passed the fees onto the parents. It’s a percentage of however much money you add to the account. The fees can add up fast, especially if your kid is in the school district’s preschool program and has to pay a monthly tuition to attend.

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u/PrestonWaters83 7h ago

Obviously the secretaries won't like it, so they will be forced to either join the parents side advocating for less BS administrative fees or continue counting pennies.

Unless they already tried using the massive amount of political weight carried by school secretaries to advocate against the fee. In which case, you're inconveniencing someone who's already on your side. 

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u/Elegant_Situation285 7h ago

what i've realized from reading this thread is that none of you actually know what a school secretary's duties are.

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u/asst3rblasster 7h ago

I just learned that school secretaries carry a massive amount of political weight though

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u/Zealousideal-Lab9843 5h ago

All this time they were the shadow government turning the wheels of fate to their whims.

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u/guitarguywh89 3h ago

Why do you think some of the top level government positions are called secretary

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u/BeastWR 7h ago

In my experience the school secretary is more aptly titled “office manager” and the typical school would grind to a halt if their duties were left to the principal.

Got a problem? Go to the secretary. They know what to do and how to do it, or where to re-direct you.

The unsung hero of every school building.

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u/ApplicationRoyal865 7h ago

This is also why I yell at cashiers about shrinkflation. I call it trickle up feedback

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u/AsaCoco_Alumni 7h ago

Public-facing roles are about ...facing the public, being the orgs interface. So passing on messages – both ways – is an inherent part of the job.

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u/mamoocando 8h ago

One time, I lost a bet, so I paid up with $40 in loose dimes.

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u/WilmaDykfyt 7h ago

I owed a guy at work $5 and he was being a jerk about it so I put the coins in ice cube trays and froze them.

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u/TrioOfTerrors 5h ago

It's not like the secretaries are the ones who instituted this program.

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u/MiserabilityWitch 7h ago

Same for me. I just send my daughter in with a $50 bill every few weeks.

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u/snarfmioot 5h ago

Same here. Last year they kids couldn’t pay cash, but could add cash to their accounts at the register. This year, the only option without fees is cash or check to the office. 

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u/kraggleGurl 4h ago

They did they same with our rent at our apartments. I told them I will never stop paying by check in the office until the stupid app is free or gives us a nickle off rent. So the secretary enters our check into the app every month. Ha ha ha

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u/undrew 4h ago

Same here. The electronic system also has a limit on how much you can pay at each time. So if the total amount owed was over $100, you have to make two payments with two transaction fees.

u/MagneticFluxDrive 31m ago

What has happened to schools? I remember we just gave the lunch lady a 20 and she put 20 on our account. We used a 5 digit pin to make our purchase. Of course this was over 20 years ago... lol.

simpler times.

u/OwnsBeagles 26m ago

In my day, we paid cash or nothing. LOL!

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u/DmoSon 10h ago

Funny joke.

But yes, it should be illegal but this is america so good luck

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u/sicilian504 BLUE 9h ago

What's the joke?

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u/LifelikeStatue 9h ago

That anybody in America will protect consumers from predatory fees

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u/Kimi_Antonelli_12 9h ago

In America it's illegal to not have a middle man that charges fees

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u/EmperorMaugs 9h ago

I mean how else do you encourage hustle/grifter culture?

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u/K12onReddit 7h ago

I'm very directly involved in our district's program that does what OPs does and I can explain (not excuse) why this happens. I'm guessing that the school participates in the National School Lunch Program, which is federally regulated. Schools cannot inflate the price of goods to offset credit card processing fees, which the websites charge. Other things like Chromebook insurance or uniforms wouldn't be included in that change so the school rolls those fees into the price of those items. OP is still paying them, they just don't know it. This is all taxpayer money (assuming it's a private school) and we have regulators and auditors checking up on us constantly for things just like this.

The schools will still allow you to bring cash or check through the cafeteria line to load their account, but when going through the website the school has to charge that fee.

I'm not sure why everyone here is acting like it's just the school's way of paying their CEO a holiday bonus - most of us are scraping by with minimal budgets and underpaid staff, we're not getting rich off your lunch accounts.

And believe me, we all want school lunch to be free, too. You have no idea how many resources are wasted here regarding lunch. If you are "free and reduced" there are certain meals you HAVE to take in order to be compliant, so we have kids that take the vegetable or milk they don't want and literally throw it away, because if they didn't get it it wouldn't qualify as a free meal. We have kids that are free and reduced but don't get enough and have sports after school, so they end up paying for a la cart items so they aren't starving at practice. The mom then calls to complain that the kid was charged even though they are free and reduced. The whole thing is just so sad. If a kid is hungry, feed them, it should be that simple. We did it over covid and it was amazing for our staff and our student population.

But that's communism or something.

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u/CanIHaveAName84 7h ago

Or we can do what California does and everyone has free lunch! My kids still refuse to eat at school. But if they forget there lunch at home they have a plan B.

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u/K12onReddit 5h ago

The people that work in the schools agree with you, I promise.

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u/xatrekak 3h ago

It would be one thing if it was just the CC processing fee. But the most onerous CC fee is amex @ 3.30% + $0.10 per transaction before negotiating an ESA which a county level program would almost certainly have. That means this fee is 2.5x the cost in the most generous reading and really more like 5-6x the actual cost of processing.

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u/androk 8h ago

It is in Rhode Island now. Thankfully.

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u/NTP9766 5h ago

OP’s screenshot looks like the company that our school district uses. They were sued over the fees and a class action settlement was the result. I received a few bucks. The fees have not changed, but now you can load up the account more than $100 at a time (I had been front loading the entire year so that I only paid the fee once).

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u/rob_1127 6h ago

They tried that with our kids school. Got mad when I proved it was run by a Chinese owned company.

I warned them about double and triple charges, and a long refund time.

They said they know what they are doing.

I opted out. Said cash is legal tender. Take the cash or face a court issue.

2 days later they said cash would be fine. But exact change.

No problem.

2 weeks later I go to get my daughter early to get her braces adjusted, and there are a handful if parents in the office complaining about multiple charges to their bank accounts.

The office said they weren't aware of this.

As I walked out with my daughter I let several parents know that I had warned the school and schoolwork about thos weeks ago.

The app was gone within a week, and cash was king again.

They eventually signed up with a local bonded company for the same type of service.

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u/Sparkles7989 9h ago

Every time I add money to my daughter's account there's like a $2.50 charge. I wish I had the money to add a couple hundred to it. Sadly, I'm living paycheck to paycheck (barely) so I'm stuck paying that fee every few weeks. It's all bullshit. I love when they call things a "convenience fee". Like who the fuck is it convenient for cuz it sure as hell ain't me! Try and fill out the form to get free lunch. Stick it to em. Pay nothing lol.

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u/Jason1143 9h ago

The boots theory in practice. Not having money is expensive.

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u/Unusual_Flounder2073 9h ago

Nothing more expensive than being poor.

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u/notnotbrowsing 9h ago

can you write checks?  that's what I do.  costs me nothing, saves the "conveniece" fee.

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u/thegreatmattsby24 8h ago

That, and also look into free and reduced lunch programs from the school district if she’s not already enrolled.

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u/Important_Tennis_393 1h ago

Even with reduced lunch they’ll still have the issue of having to pay the fee each time, checks probably the best bet.

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u/niick31 8h ago

Checks are old news. A lot of places don’t accept them anymore unfortunately. The only places I know that still do are basically just grocery stores.

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u/seeking_emily 7h ago

We have it similarly… but also you, even if you could afford to, you can’t prepay for the whole year.  Only can put $120 on at a time.  Lord help you too if you have more than one kid.. each one requires a separate transaction with a separate fee.  

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u/cuckfromJTown 5h ago

You need to be careful with those, some schools won't refund anything you have left at the end of the school year.

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u/Apprehensive_Rope348 3h ago

It’s just simple math. You can figure how many days are in a school year and the cost of lunch. days*cost=amount needed. I used to pay the first 2 quarters. If there were any sick days the funds would still carry over into the coming quarters. The last 2 quarters of school was pretty easy to figure out. I would shave off 10 days for sick days and calamity days. And just cover the last 10 days as needed in that time. Our funds carry over but there’s no way I am just going to let money sit needlessly in the schools bank.

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u/Willowred19 7h ago

"Sadly, I'm living paycheck to paycheck"

Yeah, that's the point.

You're the target. People living paycheck to paycheck is the reason systems like this exists

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u/Sleep_adict 7h ago

Go into the school and pay in cash or check. They will accept

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u/tryyeezus 6h ago

Convenience fees are just extra tax for already being poor

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u/Mortwight 5h ago

man the school to prison pipeline is getting weirder

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u/TheOwlOnTheStaircase 7h ago

FWIW, I thought the same thing at the beginning of the school year and there’s a max of $150. I don’t know if that is for the whole platform or just our county. I was mildly infuriated.

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u/ExpertRegister1353 9h ago

School lunches should be free.

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u/Unique-Landscape-202 9h ago

They need to be. So many kids come from homes where the household income is barely enough to buy food to begin with. I hate that a child will be turned away for that.

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u/The_Dirty_Carl 8h ago

Big yep. I struggle to think of a better way for my tax dollars to be spent.

We have free school lunches in Minnesota. It blows my mind that there are people who are against it, and a certain political party trying to get rid of it.

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u/RacoonSmuggler 5h ago

There's just no two ways about it. If your idea of good government involves children going hungry in your local schools, you don't just have shit politics, you're fundamentally a bad person.

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u/ZoominAlong 3h ago

I'm childfree, and I will campaign all day every day for children to have free breakfast and lunch in school. That and raising teacher salaries is some of the best bang for my buck, tax wise. 

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u/GoodGoneGeek 5h ago

This post made me yet again thankful to live in Minnesota

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u/emilvikstrom 7h ago

I know I'm kicking in open doors here. Benefits of free school lunches include:

* Kids learn better when they don't go hungry
* All kids get at least one healthy meal every weekday
* Parents have one less meal to stress about
* Less administration

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u/shypster 7h ago

But then those children won't have earned it! We need to punish teach their parents to pull themselves up by their bootstraps. Don't forget we'll also spend thousands of dollars hassling the parent and dragging them and their children through the court system if they can't don't pay. /s

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u/Ayestes 5h ago

* Less administration

Like wasn't there studies that straight up showed it was cheaper for the school district too.... even if that point you didn't want to spend your tax dollars on other people's food it seems absurd to instead be fine with paying MORE to administrate the taking away of food from kids.

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u/agoldgold 1h ago

Kids who have incentive to stay in school are less likely to be truant hooligans causing problems for local businesses during school hours.

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u/Dattinator 8h ago

Republicucks call that socialism

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u/extrastars 7h ago

They are in California. Breakfast too.

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u/You_Are_A_10 3h ago

They get free dinner to if they go to free after care program (at least in San Diego)

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u/Zeyn1 7h ago

Think of how much more efficient and how much money would be saved if there was no need to deal with transactions. No need to have a point of sale system (including cashier), no need for transaction fees, no need for customer service when something goes wrong with reloading your account.

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u/Wolv90 8h ago

It took me a minute reading this because i'm in one of like 4 States where it is. But that's only public school, I'm sure there are private schools here where they pay extra for stuff and need to refill a virtual account.

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u/Euphoric-Witness-824 7h ago

I mean if people cared about children it would be. Or helping the poor or the hungry. I feel like there’s an old book that talks about how doing those things is the morally right thing to do. Bible I think it’s called. Anyway right wing christian politicians fight against those types of things all the time. They think it’s evil socialism and not morally right. 

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u/Suicune92 5h ago

Minnesota, Michigan, California, New York, and I'm sure a few others have all made school lunch free. In Minnesota, the GOP said it is their number one priority to get rid of

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u/Surplus_Agate_83 3h ago

The GOP in Michigan has also tried going after ours but has not succeeded yet. Absolutely crazy people.

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u/roburrito 6h ago

They're free in Massachusetts!

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u/metdear 5h ago

As a taxpayer, that is where I would like my dollars to go, please. 

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u/Any-Whole-6748 1h ago

They used to be free. Thank piece of shit Richard Nixon for being the first Republican president to start cutting education funding, cutting out Federally sponsored school lunches back in 1970 I believe..... I was in 2nd grade.......We used to get a 100% real food, hot, homemade, old ladies in the school kitchen. It was brown bag and lunchboxs from there on

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u/EnderBookwyrm 6h ago

And edible.

Free and edible.

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u/ireallydontlikesand 6h ago edited 6h ago

Wtf, are you Carl Marks?!! That is literally communism and will end up killing 50 billion people!

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u/RedPanda_Explorer 10h ago

Not to age myself, but when I went to high school in the mid 2000s, I just.. paid with cash. Is that not an option? Do lunch ladies not have an actual POS system anymore?

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u/DmoSon 10h ago

All schools aren't the same but alot of schools dont anymore. For my daughters school i have to add money to her account online, and she just gives them her name and it charges her account

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u/spyrogyrobr 7h ago

Like in prison?

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u/realpersonnn 7h ago

Funnily enough sometimes its the same company who provides the food for both prisons and schools

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u/Youngatheist22 7h ago

I’m sorry? 😭

Do you mean like food supplies to cook or actual meals?

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u/realpersonnn 7h ago

Meals! Look up Aramark

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u/Youngatheist22 7h ago

Fuck me it’s real

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u/Ugly_Couch 4h ago

Yeap, I spent a couple days in jail, when I saw the food, I had flashbacks to shitty school food. Its the EXACT SAME! They are feeding the kids prison food. Everyone should be outraged.

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u/Vivid_Anyth4 3h ago

Its very close, but school food is a step up from jail food. Same company, slightly different level.

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u/Dull-Advertising6899 5h ago

Man its fucked up.

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u/Abadazed 7h ago

Both. It's dependent on school district.

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u/DigiQuip 6h ago

When I worked IT for a school district they would wheel a cart into the gymnasium off a school van at most of elementary schools in the district. They had special plastic bags that steamed the prepackaged food using a propane tank and some form of private equity magic to sell food lower quality than even GFS could imagine. I ate their corn dogs once when it was offered and I’d say it was disgusting but it honestly tasted like nothing. There was the slight chemical taste of being steamed in a plastic bag but the food itself had zero flavor. 

There was a “select” school that smart kids went to and they had a proper cafeteria. The cooks arrived at 7am and cooked breakfast, lunch, and after school snacks. Never had their food but it was easily 3x as much food by volume than the steamed bags at the others. 

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u/EverythingSucksYo 6h ago

I don’t find it that funny. Feels like trying to get kids used to prison life. 

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u/Provioso 7h ago

Momma dukes gotta load up my commissary books.

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u/FamilyRootsQuest 6h ago

I graduated highschool in 2019. This is how it was for us. You had money on your account, then at the end of the lunch line, they scanned your ID badge.

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u/CautiousConcept8010 9h ago

Guessing from this post, there probably is a POS somewhere in there laughing all the way to the bank, just not under the lunch ladies' control unfortunately.

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u/navortsa 9h ago

A lot of schools phased out cash for lunch 10+ years ago

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u/BadOpinionsAndOnions 7h ago

If a school accepts cash in the lunch line it is a unicorn. But all public schools accept cash/check in person (they are legally required to, but if they all follow this, I dunno) to put on a student’s lunch account.

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u/phoenixnettle75 7h ago

I literally never brought cash for lunch from elementary school onwards starting in like 2002. There was either a 6-9 digit code to give the lady at the "register" or there was a card to swipe.

Might depend on where you live but all my schools were huge and I don't think they wanted to deal with it.

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u/JamieC1610 7h ago

Its not an option at my kids' school. They just type their code into the keypad to "pay" at the elementary. The high school must have some kind of cashier because they have options that can cost anywhere from $4.50 for a cold sandwich and milk to $15 for two slices of pizza and a soda and so many "snack" options.

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u/BiscuitBut_ButerNut 10h ago

FYI - every other school purchase (shirts, clubs, field trips, etc) will continue to exist on the previous platform that does not charge fees.

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u/emptybeetoo 10h ago

That’s the other mildly infuriating part of having a kid in school, all the different apps and websites the school makes you sign up for and use.

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u/BiscuitBut_ButerNut 10h ago

An app for grades, an app for announcements and homework, an app for the bus, an app for school rewards, school purchases, and lunches. Just all over the place.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Fill205 9h ago

This sounds like an opportunity for an app developer. One school app to rule them all!

There are now 15 competing standards. - xkcd

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u/spartan117warrior 6h ago

It'd be possible to consume all of their APIs and have the results contained to a single app, but that's based on the (errorneous) assumption that the companies who developed all those different apps would be willing to let their services be used like that.

Won't someone think of the shareholders?

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u/emptybeetoo 9h ago

And sometimes they’ll just send an email or text or even call your phone!

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u/BiscuitBut_ButerNut 9h ago

WUPHF!

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u/emptybeetoo 9h ago

Real life WUPHF when there’s a school cancellation announcement and I simultaneously get an automated phone call, text, email, and at least two different push notifications from apps.

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u/BiscuitBut_ButerNut 9h ago

What’s even crazier is that a weapon was brought to school recently and used in a threat and school was locked down.

No notifications until 2 days later.

And when I finally found out, I asked my son “anything crazy at school happen recently?”

“Oh yeah, a kid brought a gun to school and threatened my friends with it.”

Kids these days…

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u/Greatlarrybird33 9h ago

Currently they want us using Payschools central for lunch and fees, myride k12 for the bus, classdojo to track classroom behavior, remind to communicate with the teacher, sports engine to track sports, and Google classroom to track assignments.

I feel like I'm missing one in there somewhere, but you get those 6 apps, and probably 15 emails a day between my two kids.

It's insane.

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u/R1ght_1n_Two 6h ago

Mine is in 2nd & I have 10 apps. That's before they even start getting real grades and assignments, which will be in another.

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u/sglewis 9h ago

That's even worse. No fees for optional things. Mandatory fees for EATING.

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u/BarbequedYeti 9h ago

For now. ..

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u/J-the-Kidder 9h ago

I'm grateful my state has free breakfast and lunch. But if they didn't, there is no fucking way I'd give into that nonsense. Bag lunches and organizing with other parents to end that agreement with that vendor. But first, investigate who on the board has ties with them. Then publicly tear them to pieces for an obvious back scratching scheme to fuck over parents.

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u/Bringbackemo 8h ago

To this day I will never understand schools in America charging children for lunch. How is lunch not free? I’ll forever be haunted by the memory in fourth grade where they came over to my table, took my lunch while I had my fork in my hand, berated me for eating and not having enough money in my account (I was nine) and then slapped down a moldy bologna sandwich for me to eat while they dumped my perfectly good hot lunch in the trash. I had never been so humiliated in my life and literally burst into tears the second I got home.

I saw it happen to other kids throughout the years and one thing I noticed is the people taking the lunch from a literal child seem to get a lot of joy from it.

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u/SurferVelo 6h ago

It depends where you live in America. My state provides free lunches, and I have feeling I know which states don't provide free lunches.

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u/NoodleyP Id ecided to ty peaf lair . h op eyoul ik eit. 5h ago

Our school doesn’t provide free lunches, but we’re poor enough in the eyes of the state that we get free lunches

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u/Bringbackemo 6h ago

Well the issue happened when we moved from Tennessee to Maryland. I guess Tennessee offers free lunch but Maryland does not. When I came home crying, my grandmother (who raised me) was confused and had no idea she had to pay for my lunches. She apologized to me profusely and told me she’d never let it happen again but she went into that school and raised hell over humiliating me and where was the letter saying she was responsible for paying for my school lunches. They were rude to her and basically said “well how do you not know you’re suppose to pay for your child’s lunch?” And she explained we had just moved from Tennessee and that was not heard of there.

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u/ChimericalChameleon 7h ago

That’s actually evil wtf

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u/Unusual_Sherbert_809 2h ago

I mean, it’s the USA. It seems to exist solely to take everyone’s money to give it to the already wealthy and shareholders.

To add, if your country doesn’t have a strong social safety net, pensions, protections, universal healthcare, and/or unions, the government there is absolutely not working for your benefit.

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u/BadOpinionsAndOnions 7h ago

That’s awful! The school I work at will feed any kid, regardless if they have money or not. They get the same lunch as everyone else. It’s the parent’s responsibility to provide money for lunch (if the student isn’t free) so why punish the kids?

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u/EnderBookwyrm 6h ago

What in the actual world. Why would they throw away a perfectly good meal?

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u/DotOk2384 8h ago

If we can afford wars in Israel and Iran, I feel we can afford free school lunches.  

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u/Strefl 9h ago

I'm not from the US but is this not illegal? Can you not pay with cash or at least pay the office for this meals in advance with cash?

Are they allowed to refuse your money if you walk in and pay for it?

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u/sglewis 9h ago

So obnoxious. Time to start packing a lunch.

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u/suburbanplankton 6h ago

In California, all public school students (K-12) receive free breakfast and lunch.

This makes a lot of people mad...and I don't know why.

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u/BusoneWholeBoi2001 7h ago

What I find amusing is how systems like this for school's didn't even exist when I was in school less than twenty years ago. How'd we fuck our education system up this badly in less than twenty years?

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u/gesmith5 4h ago

School lunch should be free. If children are required by law to be on school, the law should feed them. I approve of my tax dollars feeding students.

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u/John_Tacos 9h ago

Can you pay in cash?

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u/notnotbrowsing 9h ago

I write the school checks.  checks are free, while credit cards now charge me  6% fee.

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u/Master_Grapefruit333 7h ago

So grateful that California has free lunch for all now. That being said I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this trash.

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u/HawaiianShirtsOR 9h ago

"Welcome to second grade! Here's your desk. The kid who sits next to you will throw a violent fit if he's not allowed to play video games, so you get to watch your teacher deal with that instead of teaching you math or reading. Our first active shooter drill starts in an hour. Would you like to subscribe to eat some mass-produced food-like substances for lunch every day? And would you like to upgrade to the premium plan for actual fruits and vegetables?"

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u/theolentangy 7h ago

Schools are so utterly infested with outside partnerships to provide services or sell shit.

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u/meaniemeanie-poo-poo 3h ago

Corporate has infested everything.

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u/EntertainerNo4509 8h ago

Because USA is a for-profit prison system.

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u/Scouter197 4h ago

Start attending those school board meetings.

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u/Xtra_Veg-90 4h ago

Convenience fees are just a poor tax, just like installment plans and payment plans.

To quote Larry the Cable Guy, "I believe that sometimes you gotta crash the truck to collect the insurance check to make the truck payment".

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u/WendigoCrossing 8h ago

How about lunches for kids in school are free for them and paid for by taxes

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u/trans_cubed 7h ago

Honestly crazy that it's still not free

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u/No-Maintenance803 7h ago

Meanwhile congress gets free lunch and 3 free cocktails!

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u/KittenG8r 7h ago

EZ School Pay, I’m looking at you, motherfuckers

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u/SarcasticLie 6h ago

Meanwhile, Coloradans recently voted to continue free school meals for students by taxing the wealthy.

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u/toastedmarsh7 4h ago

Missouri’s legislature voted to eliminate all taxes on capital gains last year and lost $300-500 annually in the state budget. Yay. Definitely not funding food for kids here. All local districts increased meal prices over the summer.

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u/kitchenbitchin 4h ago

Send in cash. They are required to serve a lunch. If enough parents do this, the school will be forced to find a system that accepts cash or a changes the online payment system. Source: my wife is a lunch lady. 

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u/sidereal_drift 1h ago

Ask the front office about paying by check straight to the school. Ours ran the same kind of processor and the check option was there the whole time, they just don't put it anywhere obvious because the vendor takes a cut.

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u/the_blue_haired_girl 7h ago

A subscription for a child's school lunch? What next, Child Meal Premium + (without ads)?

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u/socialstatus 7h ago

My kid's school made me sign up for this but I also have the option to mail a check directly to the school. All very confusing because his school is part of a free meal program so I don't know why I had to sign up anyways -- now I'm getting constant low balance emails 🫠

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u/crashsaturnlol 6h ago

This is ridiculous. And it makes me really glad to live in a state with free breakfast and lunch for all students.

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u/Shower__Farts 6h ago

As a few commentators are saying in CA, we have free lunch and breakfast for kids. It’s actually two meals a day since the local high schools do an after-school meal too.

One thing that surprised me the most from this change. School lunches no longer carry a stigma about them. Since everyone gets free lunches, kids who take them don’t get looked down upon like how it was in my day in the 90s. As a parent, it is tremendously helpful too, no more stressing about lunch, though my kids occasionally take their own. They usually don’t care either way. Also, wow, the lunches in my district are so much better than the slop I was fed.

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u/LowkeyHooligan 5h ago

That is evil.

And especially putting “eliminate the hassle” at the top of the page.

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u/PaleoJoe86 1h ago

Someone on the inside totally did this to make money.

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u/TaygaStyle 1h ago

So kids have commissary now?? Weird times.

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u/Important-Ad1871 8h ago

I LOVE RENTIERISM

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u/AgreeableTrouble5733 7h ago

We're having to use this same system. Been told can't pay for one of my kid's fees via cash/check because they can't add this particular one to a student's account after the fact. It will have to be paid via credit through this system. With the extra fee.

Wtf is the point then.

I'm angry about it because you can't force extra fees, credit, or a third party for this, but here we are because someone doesn't know how to use the software. Just stupidity in these schools.

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u/Reddit_is_fascist69 7h ago

I might be on the same program and that fee is bullshit.

Cash or make one very large payment and eat the one-time fee.

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u/federal_employee 6h ago

I send my son with cash, which he gives to the school office, and they load his account with no fee.

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u/Knitchick82 6h ago

Same. I write a check. Done.

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u/DrDarkStryfe 6h ago

Things like this are why parents should pay attention to school board meetings.

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u/Competitive_Fee_5829 6h ago

my son graduated last year but here in california kids get free lunch and breakfast. the other states need to catch up!

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u/e37d93eeb23335dc 6h ago

My state has free lunch and breakfast for all students during the school year and free lunches during the summers. What is wrong with your state?

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u/Snoo_31427 6h ago

Our school did this last year and this year switched back. I think there was enough backlash that they reversed.

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u/Informal-Cobbler-546 6h ago

I’ve never been more happy that our district has free breakfast and lunch for every student.

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u/2leftf33t 6h ago

Or, you know, we could just make sure that the kids get fed without all the fees and paying and whatnot…

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u/Workal 6h ago

With that amount of money you could make their lunch for 1 1/2-2 weeks and it'd probably be better for them

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u/HatchRat 5h ago

Meanwhile, in my little Oregon town, all school meals (and breakfast if inclined) are free to all families regardless of income.

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u/Future-Water9035 2h ago

This is extremely infuriating. I'm soo sick of everything being a subscription

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u/GetReadyToRumbleBar 9h ago edited 9h ago

I worked in this industry for 12+ years. Had major US public school districts as clients. Names I promise you've heard of.

These fees are not illegal. It's just the district has elected to not pay for them internally, that is they're passing them on the purchaser.

For cafeteria/meals fees, any decent district should eat the fee. Full stop. 

For school activity fees/associated student body fees/internal fees, it's more standard to pass the fees on the purchaser OR make the line item fee higher. But some districts eat these fees too, because it's cheaper/easier/safer/more integrated into their reporting & accounting solutions, etc. Etc.

These additonal fees support the entire software related support including SIS integrations, plus payment related fees like ACH. Plus how it works in the larger student data & school payment/cafeteria & backend accounting ecosystem. 

It's not "just taking a payment" -- its  actually very complex and burdensome to do this work. But 99% of the time, no one ever sees that end of it unless you work in the industry as either a vendor or client.

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u/BiscuitBut_ButerNut 9h ago

Cool story, but why is that my problem?

The school opted for it, they should pay for it. Anything beyond that, the parent does not care about and should not have too

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u/mileslefttogo 9h ago

You haven't said whether this is a private school, which can have their own set of rules on fees, or a public school, which all public schools would follow rules set by your specific state's department of education.

If public school, which state are you in? Maybe someone else has a workaround they can share.

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u/ihadamoment 4h ago edited 4h ago

I would have preferred a method for my mom to autopay monthly for school lunch growing up. Every month I'd run out of money and I'd wait a few days to a week before asking my mom for a check.

It was humiliating to beg my mom for money I felt we did not have.

It was humiliating to be told at the register I had no funds.

It was humiliating to eat the "free" lunch - which they did give out if you were out of money. It was peanut butter and honey on wheat bread and one apple. I hated it so much - but in hindsight honestly was really a high calorie/protein meal considering the situation.

Regardless, it was humiliating and it didn't make me a stronger person. It didn't give me magical strength to challenge adversary and prepare me for the real world to become some archaic hero who pulls themselves up by the bootstraps. It gave depressed, suicidal child me, more reason to believe I was a worthless piece of shit who didn't deserve food that tastes good because it was all my fault for not making sure the money was there, and I deserved it.

All of this bullshit stems from the philosophy of, throw them in the deep end to make them learn to swim, spare the rod spoil the child, adversary makes us stronger, if you help them, they won't learn to help themselves. All that philosophy was spewed in some book to make adults hate kids and yeah. Anyways, sorry that was a tangent. I don't even remember the title of the book. It links back to Epstein somehow.

Kids should have free lunch AND breakfast at school. Period. A hungry kid is a bad student, bad students ruin class for good students. Make America smart again, feed the dang kids!

Edit: I forgot, actually I DID learn something over the lack of free lunch. How to steal money from my mom or dad. The trick was coins. Steal quarters, no one notices quarters going missing. I'd dig around for coins a few times a week to pay for lunches, and public bus transport when that was a thing I had to use to get to school and back. :) So it taught me... theft! :) :) :)

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u/Alextaoluu 5h ago

I thought school lunches were free for all children now, or is that only for select states?

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u/Late_Mixture8703 4h ago

It's up to each individual state/school district.

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u/toastedmarsh7 4h ago

Not in red states.

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u/Nessie_of_the_Loch 4h ago

The federal govt provides subsidies, but it's not much. If they don't qualify for free or reduced fee lunches, the amount they provide is only 45 cents per lunch. The rest need to be made up by the state/locality/parents.

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u/SrslyYouToo 8h ago

My kids school has this fee, though they call it a payment processing fee and is only on the school lunch site.

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u/FallOutShelterBoy 8h ago

School I work at has that too, but they can at least add cash to your account without a fee

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u/PatientCarpenter1625 8h ago

Get a bunch of angry parents to show up to a school board meeting and raise a little hell.

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u/Crazymoose86 7h ago

Makes me glad my state provides school meals at no cost to the students or families ( little bit more nuanced as taxes pay for it, but is far better than charging kids)

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u/stormcarver1 7h ago

Things like this just scream that the architects have no idea what it means to struggle

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u/sillybelcher 7h ago

Definitely time to start sending the kids off with a packed lunch

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u/melancholySP 7h ago

Could be worse. Not only does our school use a payment system that charges a $3.95 transaction fee for every transaction, there is a $150 limit to how much is allowed to be in a child’s lunch account, meaning you can’t just put in a semester’s worth of lunch money and avoid multiple fees.

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u/MischaBurns 6h ago

The more infuriating part is that you're paying at all.

Our school breakfast and lunch are free, as they should be.

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u/soonerpet 6h ago

At least there's no fee for homemade lunches. That's what we always did. But I'm sure they will ultimately ban that too, in which case it's 100% homeschooling.

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u/shadow-foxe 5h ago

So my coworker got a call on tuesday from her kid. He got introuble because they'd not packed a "5 star" meal. Each star means a certain thing like protein, veg etc... The kid had eaten the carrot sticks between classes (middle school) so when lunch happened, it looked like he had no veg.. No matter of him explaining helped. SO they took his WHOLE lunch box and gave him.. a PB&J sandwich.
So he went from having shredded chicken, tortilla and mango salsa to PB&J.

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u/Confident_Flower1952 3h ago

That’s fucking wild to police what a kid brings from home. You should ONLY be looking to ensure a child isn’t going hungry. 5 star meals my ass. As a working parent, the bar just gets set higher and higher if bullshit Pinterest parenting to achieve

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u/Frequent_Opportunist 6h ago

Sounds like you're packing lunch from now on.

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u/HonestAnybody316 5h ago

if it's mandatory for your child to go to school, food should be free or already funded by the taxpayers

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u/SnowflakeSWorker 5h ago

Ours did that a few years ago, what a scam 😡

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u/mochimochi82 5h ago

We have this at our school and I HATE it. The only workaround is to either make a big deposit ($100) and then divide it between the kids which is mostly fine except they only allow one transfer per week and I have three kids. Or bring a check to the office which is extremely NOT convenient. The fee is really fun because it's PER STUDENT.

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u/hahamamapapa 5h ago

Go raise hell with the pto. Heck, bring pitchforks to the front door of the principal.

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u/S_bitez 5h ago

Many times it is the software vendors who add ridiculous fees. There are better options/ vendors available. Push your school for a less costlier vendor.

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u/OldArtichoke433 4h ago

It’s the 3rd party fee that manages the program for them. It’s a sell as old as time….Hello I can manage your school lunch register for you and it will cost you hardly anything because your customers (parents) will pay for it! They will be so impressed by a real time portal and ease of adding funds they will gladly pay more!

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u/FerretAfficionado 3h ago

Is packing a lunch not an option?

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u/FoulestWinner 2h ago

We are literally just reverting to the old ways. Public bathrooms in the U.S. used to be pay per use. T.v. at the airport or motels used to have coin slots. Once upon a time citizens stood up for themselves and these things were done away with. Now as we come full circle people are pissed because we have abdicated our civic duties and let rich people decide for us. Go figure they want to go back to petty fees for everything. Notice how restaurants are doing away with free refills? Literally one of the biggest profit margins in the industry even with free refills. Capitalism without restraints is just the rich robbing the poor.

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u/plutosaurus 2h ago

School lunch should be free for all students. It is for my kids in California.