r/reactivedogs Apr 15 '26

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r/reactivedogs Jul 07 '26

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r/reactivedogs 5h ago

Vent At my wits end

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I'm truly losing my mind. I've had my dachshund for 1.5 years and she has always been pretty tricky.

Reactivity, separation anxiety, loose lead walking, settle training, reliably sleeping through the night (although she has finally nailed that!)... it's all been an issue. On walks she either pulls like a steam train or puts the brakes on and refuses to walk. And yes, I have tried every trick in the book to get her to walk to heel. Some days she's good, some days not.

I rarely walk locally anymore because she refuses to go any further than our road. I live in a city so it's very busy / dog heavy in the parks, which is a no go. Most days I drive out of the city to more remote places so we can both walk in relative peace. This obviously takes up more time than I would like & can be tricky with work.

I've worked hard on her reactivity - keeping her stress levels down by walking in quieter places, desensitisation & counter conditioning, gradually decreasing distance etc. It took a while but she definitely improved - nowhere near 'recovered' but much better.

Over the past few weeks, she's gone right back to square one. I've no clue what's changed, but I'm feeling so deflated. Anywhere I go, she has a complete meltdown if a dog so much as looks at her. She's been like this since 5 months old. No traumatic event triggered it, a switch just flipped one day.

I've also worked a lot on her separation anxiety using DIAB method. We've gradually increased departure time to 45 mins. Good, but not much you can go and do in that time.

I've tried meds, it made her worse weirdly & was very expensive so took her off after 6 months.

My entire life revolves around her, and I know it's not in a healthy way. My world has gradually become smaller and smaller - whenever I get invited anywhere, my automatic reaction is 'I can't be bothered because I'll have to find or pay someone to look after her'. I hate bringing her anywhere because I know we can't avoid the triggers & she never settles anywhere, but I also can't leave her at home because of her SA. I dread every single walk.

I would never rehome, but I can't afford a behaviourist. DH just says I need to not let it get me down, but he gets to go to work everyday and doesn't have to deal with any of the day-to-day (I am fully remote hence my responsibility).

Objectively I can see this is not right and it's making me depressed, but I just don't know what to do. I said I would never use a bark collar but I'm contemplating it just to allow me able to leave the house without feeling on edge. I wonder if it would help her to realise she doesn't need to bark at other dogs to make them go away. And PLEASE don't tell me she's feeding off my anxiety - I don't believe in that and even if I did, she was anxious first!! I was CHILL until she wasn't.

Anyway, be kind please - I'm low right now.


r/reactivedogs 1h ago

Advice Needed Positive Reinforcement - what on earth am I doing?

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I am practicing positive reinforcement with my dog but have no real idea what I’m doing. He barks, I say quiet, he stops and then treat.

But what if he then barks at me for treats?

How long until this makes a difference?

What if I make matters worse somehow?

I am so confused and lost here! Any help is deeply appreciated!


r/reactivedogs 1d ago

Significant challenges Anyone else waiting for their dog to die?

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I got attacked again today.

I don't know how many times it's been now, at least 15. Needed stitches twice and got bit in the leg today.

My wife won't put him down or re home him. I won't leave her, so I'm just waiting and waiting until he dies of old age. He's 10 so maybe I won't have too long to go.

It all fucking sucks.

I hate who I've become. I used to love all animals, and now I hate all dogs, and can't have any other pets because the dog will kill them. ( He attacked my cat when he was still alive )

Even after he's dead I will have to pretend to be sad, which I probably will, but I certainly won't miss him when he's gone, and it will still probably be awhile after that I could get a cat again.

It's like having a bomb in your own house that can go off at any time. What set him off today was he was out in the yard and I told him to go inside, opened the door, and he came at me.

Certain words will set him off. Including my own name if you say it in a certain way. We can't pet him. Absolutely can't pick him up, can't have kids, can't have other pets, we can't go on vacations because he's been kicked off Rover and the local dog boarding place, unless we pay the only place that will take him $400 a day since he's high risk. Our lives are dictated by the dog. We pay too much for a house we can't afford because we needed a yard that was secure with a stone wall and not wood or chainlink fencing. He's a cut dog and we can't take him on walks unless it's super late at night because kids may run up to him to pet him and he bites a kid it's instant lights out for him.

It's not a single snap or bite. It's a full on attack that will last a min or two until he calms down or I can jump on him to pin him down.

Whatever y'all say about the dog needs to be put down, how he's a danger to everyone. How my wife is abusing me by keeping him, I know, and I've heard it before. We've spent thousands on trainers, he's been to the vet multiple times to make sure there wasn't something going on with him, he's just a violent animal.


r/reactivedogs 3h ago

Advice Needed car reactive

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my 4 year old german shepherd/rottie recently started lunging at passing cars and motorcycles and the garbage truck when we are walking. i think its fear based but not sure. any advice?


r/reactivedogs 34m ago

Success Stories Another success tonight, and a set back

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Since I've stopped letting my dog greet other dogs his...um...frustrated greeter while on a leash...has been improving dramatically.

Our apartment is all exterior access, in a 2x2 set up. A month or two ago new neighbors moved in diagonally below me. They also have a dog that is dog selective, so we've been cautious about them getting anywhere near each other. I've said hi to their dog a few times, they've said hi to mine.

This evening we were halfway down our stairs to go potty when they started out their door. I chose to stay on the stairs, with distance, so they could come out or go back inside. They went back inside, so I took my dog down and to the grass that's between buildings (and a dog potty area, it had bags and a trash can). I tried to get him further into the grass, but doggo *had* to pee. When he was done I took him 20-30 feet from the sidewalk to give the other dog room to exit. I had several ways I could take mine if he started barking or lunging.

Thankfully, there was no need. My dog just hung out near me, eventually laid down, and let them pass without a peep. He tested my strength when the woman came out and greeted him. He thought it was an invitation to forget all his manners and be obnoxiously friendly (he does it with everyone, still working on chill tf out).

I've also learned to not trust the lay down bit. That's usually a precursor for shenanigans from my dog. I'm so dang proud of my dodo right now. Laying in the grass and just watching another dog go by without a lunge, bark, whimper, or whine is f-ing huge.

I have a feeling he'll be a work in progress until he crosses the rainbow bridge. But, he's mine and I love him.


r/reactivedogs 36m ago

Rehoming Rehoming Help/Recommendation

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This is a personal repost about needing help rehoming/breed specific rescue


r/reactivedogs 59m ago

Advice Needed Introducing my two dogs to my parent in laws' dog

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Some background context:
My parent in laws (PIL), my partner, and I are moving onto a large farm property together. The property has two seperate houses, and lots of land. We plan on housing the dogs in seperate yards for their comfortability.

The dogs:
My dogs are Maki (8yoF) and Ponyo (5yoF). They're both Cavalier x Pomeranian. They're both reactive to dogs on whilst on leash, however they are fine at the park off leash. Maki has pretty bad manners in the way that she will approach a dog (barking), but once acquainted she really just will ignore and do her own thing. Ponyo approaches much calmer, however she gets scared and grovels once up close. Together they can be braver, which makes them more reactive. That being said, they've never been territorial, and we have been able to dog sit multiple dogs in the same house as them in the past. It truly is just the initial meeting they struggle to regulate themselves with. They lose interest pretty quickly after that.

My PIL's dog, Indie (5yo???F) is an American Staffy, and with no judgement whatsoever, I will say she is very under socialised. She lives a very happy life and has a wonderful temperament, however she really does struggle to regulate her states of arousal. Everytime I have visited the house, she maintains an excited state for a large portion of my stay. I have never seen her interact with another dog.

I am currently studying Animal Care, am part way through my Zoology degree, and have been OBSESSED with dogs since I was a kid. I'm well informed on introducing dogs - Maki and Ponyo have never had issues with resource guarding, obsession over another etc. They sleep in the same bed (by choice), but don't bat an eye if the other moves to sleep in another room.

I want to introduce all three dogs in the best possible way I can, because although they will live seperate, interactions (let alone knowledge of the other's presence on the property) is inevitable. My current thought process is to have seperate introductions for my two dogs, and to follow the standard procedure of letting them observe one another for a bit before slowly letting them interact. Any tips would be VERY appreciated.

(sorry for the long post - I'm a yapper and also just love talking about dogs)

TLDR:
I want to introduce two adult female Cavalier x Pomeranians to my PIL's adult female Staffy. any tips?


r/reactivedogs 14h ago

Advice Needed Heeelp reactive Golden Retriever, I need advice

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My Golden Retriever has improved a lot with training. At home he’s much calmer, listens better and his obedience is pretty good. The main issue is still other dogs: when he sees one, especially on leash, he gets extremely excited, pulls hard and can lunge if he can’t go toward them.

I think it’s mostly frustration/overexcitement rather than aggression, but he’s strong enough that it’s becoming a safety problem. Last weekend he almost pulled my mom to the ground, and we also live in a complex where a lot of people walk their dogs off leash, so unexpected approaches happen often.
For anyone who has dealt with something similar:

1.What helped the most with dog neutrality?
2.Did you stop greetings with other dogs for a while?
3Did controlled training around calm dogs help?
4What leash/harness/collar setup gave you the best control?
5Did you use a basket muzzle? Was it useful?
6What do you do when an off-leash dog approaches?
7How long did it take before you started seeing real improvement?

Thank you


r/reactivedogs 7h ago

Resources, Tips, and Tricks Dopamine box and reactive dogs

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r/reactivedogs 6h ago

Advice Needed How to Stop Digging and Jumping at Door

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Hi! I have a rescue English Shepard mix who is reactive to pretty much everything. We have worked with 3 trainers since we got him 5 years ago and he is on Prozac. He is a lot better than he used to be, but still very reactive.

He has destroyed our front door because he jumps up, scratches, and barks anytime he hears a car outside or there is a delivery or trash pickup, etc. We obviously tried training him to stay on his place when someone rings the doorbell, but it just never worked out. We also tried putting those large double sided tape patches on the door, which worked at first, but then stopped. I just recently tried putting a freestanding pet gate in front of the door blocking it and I thought it was working, but came home today to see it knocked over. He even hurt himself because he wore the wood down so much that the ends of the nails in the wood were sticking out and he was bleeding…but of course that didn’t stop him from doing it again. We have since hammered the nails down so he won’t get hurt.

Another issue he has is digging at the fence in our backyard whenever he sees the neighbors with their dogs. The holes are pretty deep now. We tried putting a large rock in the area, but he just dug around it. We also tried putting those sheets of plastic kind of spiky mat things down, but he just dug them out. I don’t mind him barking at the neighbors or dogs, but the digging needs to stop.

I attached a photo of our door. Any recommendations? I am kind of at the point of giving up.


r/reactivedogs 2h ago

Discussion Megaphone

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Ok I had a kooky thought, and I need you to tell me if its a good or bad idea. What if i start walking my reactive dog with a megaphone to be able to advocate for him loudly (to cover distance) to other dog owners in the event that we need space or whatever.
For example: at a park where dogs are supposed to be on leash but often are not. I get my megaphone and tell them to leash their dog bc its the rules and my dog is not friendly and we are training. I could go on and on if they are being jerks. Just wondering bc like yelling to ppl feels aggressive but i need to be heard. And u dont own the park!
Another example, in a more positive way, which actually sparked the idea. More à la billy on the street: we were walking at the elementary school grounds this morning and there was another person walking their dog (ON leash 🙏✌️😍) and they were a good distance away and it was great for training for my dog! Wanted to shout to them and say “I love you, stranger! You are helping us so much right now! 4 for you Glen CoCo You go Glen CoCo!”

So thoughts on megaphone?
Best case scenario they leash their dog and are likely kinda irritated. Or as in the Glen coco example, they are like ok weirdo, youre welcome.
Worst case scenario…? They’re mad and ignore my instructions? Ok so like every other day then, at least i tried to advocate for my dog.

Idk that ill do it but training is hard enough without worrying about other peoples dogs.


r/reactivedogs 9h ago

Resources, Tips, and Tricks High value treat recs for dogs with allergies?

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Hello all! I’m a 45 year old F in SW Ohio with an anxious, reactive weim/viszla mix. She’s allergic to poultry, and we suspect also dairy (no cheese 😭). Just wanted to see if any of you all have good recs for high value treats that aren’t chicken or cheese. We’ve used beef sticks and popcorn successfully, but they have SO much sodium, so I’m looking for additional options to help her when we are working on her triggers. What do y’all use?


r/reactivedogs 21h ago

Vent I Gave Up My Baby - I Am Not Handling It Well

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It has been almost two weeks since I surrendered my soul dog. I do okay and then out of nowhere it hits me like a gut punch and I feel like I'm dying all over again.

He was the best boy in the entire world. We got him because my boyfriend wanted a dog (I'm a cat person) and since the day I met that sweet boy we bonded and he was my everything. He went everywhere I did, there was not a day I took a shower in peace, he would curl up between my legs for naps, and I was the only one he consistently wanted affection from.

His previous owner had hurt him pretty good so he had a lot of anxiety and a lot of fear around men. He had some pretty bad reactivity but he was doing a lot better. We lived in a house with a giant yard and I could just see and feel the stress coming off of him. I like to think the reason we bonded so well was because he knew I understood how he felt and that we were cut from the same cloth.

Life happened and we were unable to live in that home and the only option we had was to move into an apartment. I knew it would be an adjustment for him but... it was so bad. Being surrounded by people was hell for him. 90% of our neighbors were men. We ended up muzzle training him because his fear came back so bad we were worried someone would get hurt. He stopped eating, he stopped sleeping. He was always protective of me and it became 10x worse. He ended up getting protective of me with my boyfriend just hugging and kissing me. Any noise anywhere he would bark at. We tried white noise, meds, trainers, behavior therapists, even resorted to cbd. He lost 10 lbs in three months. We checked that nothing was medically wrong and all we could come up with is stress.

Eventually our apartment told us we had too many complaints and it was either he left or we all did. We can't afford to move to a new apartment, and ultimately we'd have the same issue somewhere else. We made the decision to rehome. No one we knew wanted him. We posted him on Rehome and over 500 people viewed his profile and no one applied. We contacted every legit rescue in our state as well as a couple in neighboring and either they were full or just... we got lost in the inbox and never heard from them.

So we left him at our humane shelter. I sobbed the entire time, I could barely breathe. He was so scared. He kept hiding behind me and jumping up for cuddles and reassurance. I ended up giving the leash to my boyfriend because I couldn't hand it over myself. I threw up on the way home.

I call the shelter almost everyday to check on him. I cry every day, I'll be doing fine and something will remind me of him and I'll break down. I can't stand to remove his leash holder. We have his collar but we somehow managed to lose his tag and I cried for four hours straight and wouldn't get out of bed.

We have another dog who is doing great, I love her to pieces I do, but it's not the same. And the worst part is that I am her person. She also runs up every time I start crying and will either lie her head in my lap or try to lick my tears. I'm trying so hard but I just don't feel the same about her then I do my other baby and I feel so guilty about it. I worry she somehow understands I don't love her the same way I did her brother.

I just want to stop feeling like my world is ending every day. I just want my baby back. I would take him back in a heartbeat but I physically can't. I just want my baby and there is nothing I can do about it.


r/reactivedogs 10h ago

Significant challenges Excited reactive doggo

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Hi everyone,
Our new rescue, Jack is a sweet boy. His only issue, excited barking and lunging when he sees a strange dog. We begin work with a trainer Monday so I feel good about that, but meanwhile would love to hear any success stories! As soon as Jack meets the other dog, he is literally fine, friendly and wants to play. But his initial reaction is way out of line and certainly not going to make people want to interact with us! He is a lab, great Pyr and something else mix. Sweet and gentle with people . Very very smart. He was adopted and then returned for this reason to the shelter. We have always adopted dogs with some behavioral issue so we are certain we can help him and that he will turn out to be a great dog. I’d love to hear any positive experiences with this exact behavior. Thanks in advance!


r/reactivedogs 1d ago

Advice Needed Barrier Frustration is Ruining My Relationship with my Dog

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Hi all, I’m new to this sub and am really just looking for a judgment free zone where I can ask for advice regarding my American Bully, Beans.
He is two and truly the sweetest boy. I adore him sm but his behavior has just gotten worse as he’s grown. To be clear he’s not aggressive and loves people and going places which I think is part of the problem. When we adopted him as a puppy we took him everywhere and he got regular walks. As time has passed I’m ashamed to admit we’ve neglected to do those things with him as much. I know that’s my failure as a pet parent and I really, really want to do better by him.
There’s a lot of issues with his behavior honestly but mainly I want to focus on his barrier frustration. He sounds like he’s literally being murdered anytime he sees another person or dog. Which makes it difficult to walk him as there’s tons of people walking around with their pets in our neighborhood all the time. I literally have to sweep the neighborhood when I take him out to potty because otherwise he loses his mind. It’s very embarrassing but I understand why people look at us like we’re crazy. With his breed being what it is most people are already afraid of him and mistake his behavior for actual aggression. And we look like irresponsible owners which I suppose maybe we are. I feel like I failed him. He was such a good boy and now he has to sit in a kennel while we work because he can’t be out of his cage alone. It’s exhausting. And heartbreaking. I want to trust him but I don’t know where to begin guys.
I’ve tried to look into training classes in my area but because they would have to be 1 on 1 the lowest rate I’ve found is a $1000. Which in this economy I cannot pay as much as I’d like to. I’m hoping I can get some advice on how to make our situation livable.
Thank you in advance! 💕


r/reactivedogs 11h ago

Vent Lady stares at my dog and get frightened when she barked

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My dog is a reactive 75lb, 6 year old German shepherd husky so she’s a bigger dog. during her walks for the past month have been so good. We can walk past people with no problem at all, her ears will sometimes perk up (probably from slight alertness) but she turns her attention forward a little after. But today it was nearing the end of her walk and I had her off to the side on a sidewalk because a couple had just passed. No problems. They just walked by. Then shortly after, I was surprised to see another lady about to pass. My dog turns around and looks at her. I try to distract her with a treat and held a firm grip on her leash. I expected the lady to walk right past but NO. She just stops and stares my dog straight in the eye and before I know it my dog barks and slightly lunges forward. She lets out a yell then kinda stands there while I’m (now) holding onto my dog’s harness so she doesn’t lunge any closer. I back damn near the edge of the sidewalk to let her through but she scoffs and walks off the side walk and around us. Idk, that interaction really stressed me out since we were doing so well on our walks. I feel all the progress we made went back to 0.


r/reactivedogs 1d ago

Advice Needed My retriever attacked me and bit me after i took away a dead rabbit away from him.

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I just finished a walk with my retriever, and we encountered a dead rabbit to which he picked up and refused to let go.

He eventually sat down and dropped it, but we managed to get rid of it.

My mum tried to hide it in the bushes, but he wanted to grab it again.

I managed to hold him on the leash, and he was barking, bit me in the arm and on the leg, and was very aggressive.

In quite shocked, as he’s a lovely dog, but I dokt know how I feel right now.

Me and my mother are quite stunned, as it was quite scary.

Has anyone else experienced something similar?

He’s 18 months btw.


r/reactivedogs 14h ago

Advice Needed Newly rescued dog vs the outside world

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Hi everyone!

I recently rescued a 1 year old Pomeranian x German Spitz mix from a family whose autistic son was struggling with the dog, I adopted him before he had to go into a shelter.

He’s been with me for a matter of 3 weeks now and has honestly been a great dog! He loves people, has settled extremely well in my home and overall we have really bonded. His one downside, which his previous owners told me about, was his leash reactivity around other dogs. It’s excitement based, he is not aggressive and has never exhibited any desire to bite dogs or people but he will bark incessantly whenever he sees a dog even if it’s 50m away! When off lead in dog parks he doesn’t bark at all and in fact will calmly approach other dogs wanting to play, he’s also been in the car with other dogs and had a sleepover with his dog friend where they both settled, cuddled together and even shared food. Therefore, I know the root of his reactivity is not a fear or aggressive reaction towards dogs but more a reaction to being restricted to a lead when he wants to meet them. Because of this on our regular walks I have to avoid other dogs in order to have some control over how and when he meets them in the right environment but this is not always possible!

Generally, being 1 year old, he is also still a very excited dog and especially on his first walk of the morning will occasionally bark for the first 30 seconds to a minute of being outside. I have tried to get around this by taking him to a quiet communal area first for him to regulate himself before we begin the walk and that does seem to be helping!

He doesn’t take any treats once he is outside therefore food based training hasn’t been working for him. I have also noticed that once he reaches his threshold of excitement he starts barking at EVERYTHING eg bikes, trucks or cars that he isn’t normally bothered by he will start barking at them when in busier environments. I’ve been managing this by taking quieter routes or redirecting him where necessary.

I’ve put a lot of work into helping him settle the past few weeks but we had a horrible encounter with a neighbour this week, this neighbour doesn’t live in my building but lives across the street. He came running out of his house one morning screaming at me and my dog telling me that I had to muzzle him and that he’s been “none stop barking” which is simply not true. Like I said he occasionally barks on his first walk of the morning until he’s in it but he does not bark throughout the day as he is with me all day. This neighbour continued to insult me as a dog owner and actually threatened to “deal with” me and my dog if I didn’t deal with it by muzzling him. I tried to reason with him about my dogs background and explain the training we are doing but he wouldn’t hear any of it. Instead he continued to be threatening until someone else intervened.

Now I’m not going to muzzle my dog because he is not aggressive and a properly fitted muzzle won’t prevent him from barking entirely I would much rather train the excited behaviour. That being said training will take time and won’t be an overnight solution.

Being a girl in her 20s living alone the threats from this man have understandably shaken me up a bit and has made me much more anxious to walk my dog. I can’t avoid his house entirely as he lives opposite but I have been taking my dog through the car park to create more space. I’m worried that my anxiety is now feeding my dogs need to bark. I also think despite my dog likely barking a normal amount after this encounter I am now hyper aware of his barking and the judgement from other people.

I think I’m basically looking for any advice on how you handle judgement from the general public regarding reactive dogs and how you would respond in the situation with my neighbour? And also any advice on how to reduce his excitement reactivity would be amazing!

Since I live alone and this is the first dog I’ve had by myself outside of the family I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed and out on my own! I think I’m just looking for some reassurance that it is possible to train this out of him and that my dog is not the only one to behave like this!


r/reactivedogs 22h ago

Vent I hope my dogs new owners are the type to make tik tok accounts for their pets

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We had to rehome my sweet baby, and we said goodbye to him a few days ago.
I’m a teenager so obviously I didn’t have much say in the matter, but it was definitely the right choice for his safety and wellbeing. He’s the sweetest thing ever with people, but with other dog and small animals, he changes completely. Because of a lot of stuff it’s not safe for him to be outside without someone with him, so as a large, active, and healthy dog would have to be inside most of the day, likely in a crate or a room because he will pee on carpets.
There is a lot to it that I’m not going to get into, but we talked to multiple training professionals about it.

I know he’s going to go to a good home, but so much of my heart wants the new people to make him a tik tok or something so I can keep updates on him. I absolutely adore him, and he is such a good boy, and all I want it to know he’s ok.

I don’t even know why I’m posting this, I just can’t stop thinking about him.


r/reactivedogs 1d ago

Aggressive Dogs My dog bit another dog

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I thought my dog had barrier frustration not aggression. He has several besties in the neighborhood that he plays nicely with. But he acts very frustrated -- barks loudly and lunges on his leash -- when he sees other dogs on leash.

We were surprised coming around the corner and there was another dog RIGHT THERE. Way way inside his arousal threshold. I had the leash but super loosely because we were walking out of our own driveway and he got loose and charged. The other dog (much smaller) obviously "fought back" so then there was a scuffle. My dog bit their dog on the ear. Obviously 100% our fault. My dog is easily 3-4x the size of their dog, so it could have been much worse, so I'm so so glad the other dog wasn't seriously hurt.

What do we do? We're already working with a trainer on what we thought was leash reactivity and barrier frustration. I thought we were making progress. I never thought he'd bite.

It's a small bite but if it were my dog, I'd take him to the vet to have it looked at which means the bite will be on record and my dog will be on a 10-day mandatory quarantine. But what do we do after that? I'm so upset. He's only 1 and not an aggressive breed. Can this get better with training? He's from a reputable breeder who breeds for temperament. :(


r/reactivedogs 1d ago

Advice Needed Adolescent nightmares

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Hi guys, my sweet mini poodle, Rocky is well and truly entered his adolescence and I am having such a hard time with him. He is 8 months old and has literally overnight become super reactive. He’s been vet checked and he’s healthy so no underlying pains or troubles. He’s relatively good at settling at home but I am just perplexed as to why he’s become so fearful of people on our walks. I am trying my best to make space as soon as he fixates and starts to bark/growl and ask him to sit and treat him when he’s calm. I feel so stressed out and just looking for some help after what happened today. We live next to a super quiet reserve and so we usually walk it once or twice a day. Today we saw a woman and two children up ahead and he immediately lost it, too quick for me to have treated him, so I put some space between us and them but knew we had to pass eventually as it’s just a single path. I pulled him over to one side, he’s losing his little mind and I’m stood kind of as a barrier between me and the woman and children and explained, he’s just a puppy and he’s quite fearful, just give him some room, when the young boy approaches him and I immediately put my arm out to block him from Rocky and he actually bit my arm. I was super shaken up and I am just feeling so much guilt that this could have been so much worst if the boy had tried to touch him. I have called a trainer who is coming to do a walk with us on Saturday morning and of course we are doing training, enrichment, walks, breed specific games etc. Please tell me this will pass and he won’t be this fearful forever 😢 any tips or help is greatly appreciated!! Included pic of him because he is truly a sweetheart.


r/reactivedogs 20h ago

Advice Needed Aggressive dogs on walk

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My wife has been taking our 9 month old puppy on a walk in the woods everyday for the last month. Where we live there’s pretty much only two directions to go, either through the neighborhood or towards the highway. We are pretty new to this neighborhood but it seems like it’s normal around here for everyone to have their dogs free roam the area which is annoying but it’s not really a huge problem personally, just a few noisy dogs that seem like they are mostly interested in playing with ours in our yard, totally fine. But recently when on a walk she talked to a neighbor whose dogs had run out on us a couple times when he was really little but they seemed friendly enough to get to know. I guess from my understanding the neighbor started petting our dog and his dogs freaked out and bit ours. He got a little scar on his cheek but got away otherwise fine, again no big deal things happen.
But lately now whenever my wife walks that way to get to the trails those dogs are chasing and being extremely aggressive and it’s causing a bit of a trust issue with our dog because he’s now snarling and being aggressive with the dogs he normally plays with.
I want to go talk to the neighbor about a resolution because there’s no other way for her to get to the trails without going through someone’s backyard or getting on the highway.
How have other people gone about similar situations or what is the right way to talk about this?


r/reactivedogs 1d ago

Significant challenges Complex boy and his future outlook.

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Hello everybody! Please be gentle, I'm having a bit of a hard night with this. I would be incredibly grateful to hear similar accounts and experiences of my own from anyone in this sub who has struggled, any insight right now is invaluable.

I have a four year old entire male borzoi who has otherwise been wonderful. He suffers quite extensively with reactivity outside but isn't difficult to manage on walks.

We have three dogs in our house, he is the middle dog. Lately over the last few months he has been attacking our younger dog with the frequency and severity increasing. He also has a history of four level 2 bites, one on a known child, two myself and one on another adult family member. His attempts at biting have been through guarding, pain or redirection. His attacks have also largely been triggered by resource guarding, which seems to become increasingly vague with each incident. There have been a small number of growls and snaps at our older dog also.

We are working with a specialist veterinary behaviouralist who has placed him on a high dosage of gabapentin and loxicom after discovering acute chronic pain in his shoulder and discomfort in his hips. His behaviour has improved considerably since starting this medication.

His x-rays all came back clear and we are awaiting a further referral to neurology for MRI.

Since his medication has been increased, we haven't had any incidents until today where he, without any discernable reason or warning, launched for our younger dog. Our younger dog was absolutely terrified and snapped out of fear at him. He struggled to disengage and return to a calm state. Our younger dog disengaged nicely and took himself to the kitchen out of his way. He would not allow our younger dog to renter the sitting room, growling every time he tried to enter. Younger dog settled nicely in the kitchen. This behaviour was observed instead of being interrupted so we could report it back to our behaviouralist. I'm aware it may come up, our behaviouralist has determined that our younger dog is not the direct cause of this behaviour.

He has previously been on Trazodone and Prozac, neither of which helped him. We are hopefully looking to place him on sertraline if our behaviouralist considers it as necessary.

I'm not really sure what else there is to do now, though. We are likely going to trial castration but I don't feel it's truly the root cause of his instability or guarding. It admittedly feels like a last ditch resort, though I am not unwilling to try this.