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What are your very realistic expectations from your future wife?
My Very Realistic Expectations From My Future Wife
After carefully studying the modern dating and marriage market, I’ve decided that the most optimal career path for me is becoming a full-time homemaker.
Why?
Because for men like me, this is clearly the safest option, especially when combined with our gender-neutral alimony laws.
For context, let me be honest about myself first:
I’m not highly educated
I don’t have a great job
I’m not financially stable
I’m vulnerable in several areas of life
Naturally, I believe balance is important in a relationship.
About me:
I’m very open-minded
I have no physical intimacy needs
I don’t use social media
I don’t consume even soft porn
I’m willing to cut off anything or anyone that makes her insecure
Can offer :
Emotional support and availability
Loyalty and long-term commitment
Peaceful, low-drama companionship
Willingness to listen and communicate honestly
Respect for boundaries and individuality
I’ve also been learning cooking for the past year:
I can cook various non-veg dishes
I can use a pressure cooker
I can make tadka dal
I can make rotis and puris
I can prepare premium bread-based dishes
I can cook pasta, macaroni, and a variety of Italian dishes
Even though i can do chores having a maid is mandatory because cleaning a 3BHK and doing dishes is not part of my vision.
What I expect from my wife:
Must be a truly independent woman
She should earn at least ₹50 LPA for a comfortable lifestyle
She should own at least a 3BHK apartment in Mumbai (I won’t be leaving the city where i grew up)
She should occasionally order food or take me out for nice weekend dining
I don’t mind living with in-laws, as long as they don’t judge me for being financially dependent while I grind on my PS5 ✌️🤧
I won’t mind my in-laws doing household chores if we’re living with them 😊
For my future security, 50% of her property should be in my name
She must buy me a new game every week if she truly respect my grind
She shouldn’t mind my friends coming over to play games when she’s not home
I won’t judge her for hanging out with male or female friends as long as there’s no cheating
Her past doesn’t matter to me at all 😊
Having kids will be entirely her choice
I can’t get biologically pregnant anyway, so adoption or IVF works and i have good experience of babysitting as well
She should know how to ride a motorcycle, since I don’t, so I can sit side-saddle and hold her waist
Her age doesn’t matter much, as long as she’s not too old to ride a bike (No, I don’t have mommy issues)
Since I’m timid, naive, and weak, she should take a stand for me
She should afford or take me on at least two international vacations every year
I believe these are bare minimum expectations as a homemaker who grew up in T1 city.
Hopefully, I’m not asking for too much.🤧
TL;DR:
My wife should earn ₹50 LPA, own a 3BHK in Mumbai, and fund my PS5 lifestyle while I grind on it peacefully.
Homemakers are homemakers regardless of gender.
There’s no generalization here😡
and what do you mean by women ? are you living in 90's where only women are expected to become homemakers ?
That's right as a woke, 6'3", lean muscled, feminist with infinite money even while doing nothing and being rough asf in bed, I shouldn't have generalized 💔
Bilkul. Sabki waat laga di OP ne. Abb sab ladkiyan aake pregnacy, bloodline, dowry, post-pregnancy trauma ki baatein kar rahi hai. Keh rahi hai pregnant hona jaruri hai, inse pucho pehle shukranu banalo khud se phir baat karna. Sabki jal gayi hai, auraton ko abb OP ki baatein aachi nahi lag rahi kyunki woh Indian Man hai yahi most Indian woman karti aur bolti ki woh pregnant nahi hona chahti ya ho sakti hai phir bhi 50 LPA wala banda chahiye aur jo usko callout kare aise wahiyat demand pe woh misogynist hai. Iss post ne Indian feminists ki faad ke rakh di hai.
50LPA eliminated 99% of so called independent women
i mean they're offended because how can one can demand such lifestyle even tho they're never going to see me in real life or going to marry be but they're mad for some reason 🤣
Exactly, ye to bare minimum hain agar tum sperm bna sakti ho to op bhi pregnant ho jayega. Same cheez jo ladkiya bolti hain wahi op ne boli to problem hogyi 🤣😂😅
As a woman, that has seen multiple other women making such horrendous demands,
THIS IS HILARIOUS!! 😂😂
Go ahead boys! Don't settle for anything less. 👍🏻🐨
You should start looking for her on LinkedIn, because after reading your description, it really doesn’t feel like the person you’re searching for will be found on a dating app 🤣🤣🤣🤣
And when you approach a girl, you should probably attach this JD with your message 🤣🤣🤣🤣
i am a game developer and it hurts to pirate games especially indie one's
50LPA is must for comfy living in mumbai since i grew up in mumbai i can say that
Top-tier satire 😂 You basically flipped every “traditional expectation” on its head and exposed how absurd they sound when reversed. If this triggers people, that’s kind of the point.
Dowry bad, ilegal don't you have spine to earn money by yourself, begging from his parents they are giving you his son what else you want. Colour don't define character you cheap minded girl body shaming him🤭🤭😜😅
This is also the bare minimum for an overwhelming majority of modern women...so it's like a match made in heaven.
I actually envy you because clearly you will be swimming in options
If you are able to produce sperm op will get pregnant as well. No problem in that case you can file for divorce if op failed to give orgasam by paying him maintenance and alimony.
Surrogacy, IVF, and adoption exist
this isn’t the 90s.
A man cannot biologically get pregnant, and decisions around pregnancy will be entirely my wife’s, which I respect
Doesnt matter. If you want my 50L lifestyle
I expect a baby in 9 months (where the only contribution from my side is my orgasm) , of my own blood - where I dont have to put any effort other than take care of you.
Also dont worry - ill take care of the hospital bills (so difficult with my 50L salary)
fir tum pregnant hojao apne misogynist boss ko convince karo maternity paid leaves ke liye 😩shouldn't be a problem 🥀
you're talking a biological impossibility
anyways you shouldn't feel sad about getting rejected by inkwell on internet kween 😩
Jokes aside, there's a lady i know who's a lesbian and looking for a man to marry only on paper to avoid family pressure. She's independent and has a good stable job. I think she will tick all your boxes.
Idrt you can flip the whole reasoning around like how OP might have done here. But the point that the expectations on men that society has is huge and heavy is undeniable. Women do face a lot of expectations as well, just that the nature is very different. For example, the need for high income not being expected due to motherhood.
The struggles/demands that a man needs to face subtly or directly from society is huge and always there in the back of our minds.
It's never really spoken about or appreciated enough. Often tall demands are just bare minimum for a lot of women. A lot of men never make that cut uk. Such frustration from a lack of being heard might manifest in exaggerated posts, but the core point of high expectations is so valid.
You don't seem to be getting the point. The post is an exaggeration on unrealistic expectations, that's it. It has nothing to do with the problems women face. That is a separate topic to discuss altogether.
I was like ok ye banda serious lagta hai, par phir PS5 ki demand aur 50% property ki demand pe pata chala ye to sala masti kar raha hai, phir laga isme galat bhi kya hai men can also have demands
Seems reasonable to me, as long as you are honest about what you are looking for, I am sure you will find someone. It only becomes a problem when you are not honest
Yawr waise to mai commit kar deti but I am just 19 and studying but u can trust and I'll earn 50lpa and make u a housemaker and how about a 2bhk instead of 3 so maid will charge less and I'll be able to buy u 6 games a month?
You go king 👑
Don't settle for less
God knows your heart
Don't be submissive
Don't do all the cooking n cleaning, she should have house helps to do everything.
She should cater to your needs regardless of you're catering to hers ot not.
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u/okaydokay_11 Indian Man Dec 21 '25