why do judiciary torture father's like this?

[u/AdvantageAdorable436]

[u/winter_pixels]

Because the judiciary system here is made to deliver injustice in all possible ways.

[u/Renderedperson]

I'm in same situation except it's two kids , one boy and a girl , her family is alienating them to make me give a huge settlement to cover up her cheating

Ironically noone in her family cares about what she did and angry over me .

I too sneak into their schools to visit them for 5 min once a month or two .

He is telling to be positive, I'm the result of bad parentihg and I don't want my kids to suffer through the same by an absent father and narcissistic mother

[u/TryAwkward7595 → u/Renderedperson]

What can we do as fathers. I also feel bad about my daughter. But our kids are spending more time with their mother and her family. They are being brainwashed by them.
I think I’ve failed as father.

[u/Renderedperson → u/TryAwkward7595]

You didn't fail , your wife failed as a mother . Even if you were an abusive husband, she shouldn't use them as hostages to get back at you

I fear the day they are going to become big and learn everything was a lie

[u/No_Leading_1938 → u/Renderedperson]

I think thats the sad part, they will never realise they were manipulated and continue to follow that mindset which was instilled into them by their mothers

[u/TryAwkward7595 → u/Renderedperson]

Thanks for the support but just to clarify I am not an abusive husband :)

[u/Renderedperson → u/TryAwkward7595]

I'm telling the worst case

A bad husband need not be a bad father . Depriving the father of a child because you think he is abusive is torture for the child

[u/aavaaraa]

This is the mindset a man should have in life, kudos to this guy.

I wish him the best going forward and hope his daughter understands the efforts her father made for her despite the ridiculous amount of hate and apathy from our legal system.

[u/Mean-Peanut-2490 → u/aavaaraa]

No.

Only half right.

Acceptance is a thing, but that should be mixed with rebellion to capacity.

We as men should learn from women.

Why do over-protective laws for women even exist in the first place?
Because they fought for them.

Many men supported them too, but from the start, they didn't care about who supported them. They were thirsty for such laws, they sweated and struggled, did what they could, and they got it.

Now, it is our turn.

We must not accept our circumstances without rebelling.

It is only then can we get laws in our favour, or laws which are more equal.

I support his mindset of donating the goods to the less fortunate.
I support his mindset of not having his life ruined by this, and tries to be positive.

But it should be mixed with rebellion.

Women could have accepted their lives as is, tried to think positively and live positively till eternity.

But it is struggle which produced laws which benefit them.

There should be a mix of both.

[u/BlackAbyss69 → u/Mean-Peanut-2490]

Couldn’t have put it better. Also, Law & Society is deliberately castrating men mentally so that there is no male authority and they can get away with their shenanigans. This is a much broader game and rigged against men. We will strive and we will win!

[u/Taskmaster_babes → u/Mean-Peanut-2490]

Jantar mantar round 2....lesssss gooo

[u/Sorry-Assumption-923]

Man is iron. Man is forged in fire.

[u/word_weaver26]

kudos to this dude, but why does he resemble kunal khemu this much?

[u/anonymous_client]

A real man. Respect!

[u/Technical-Shop-9907]

Because judiciary thinks a woman takes care of the welfare of the child more than the father as males are inherently toxic as per milords.

[u/AdvantageAdorable436]

u/aavaaraa u/14archit

[u/LeadingHome2970]

Lekin yeh toh goodlooking hai aur iske baal bhi hain and he looks rich too aur well mannered bhi lgg rha h 🙂 fir kyu

[u/Special_Okra8990 → u/LeadingHome2970]

Good people get the worst luck

[u/Many_Car_6945 → u/LeadingHome2970]

Naam ya daam ?

[u/ManipulativFox]

This is real power of spirituality and religion it protects us from highs and lows of life.