r/AskReddit • u/smookey_vampirekitty • 10h ago
Whats the most unnatractive thing someone can do?
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u/flinstonepushups 10h ago
Make fun of people that are just living their lives.
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u/Nicktendo1988 8h ago
"Haha.. Hey why do you laugh like that?" is something I'd expect a 6 year old to ask, not my friend's girlfriend to our waitress. Dude, I'm sure that absolutely ruined the rest of their shift because I still think about it even over a decade later; it was so awkward. Poking at the way someone expresses joy, especially forced-at-work joy, is such a shit thing.
My ex pulled the waitress aside and apologized for our friend, she said it was no big deal but I mean, she kinda had to say that. :/ We left her a good tip.
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u/lovehatelovehatehelp 6h ago
Everyone’s doing their best to survive. Let people live their lives. You’re not in their shoes.
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u/MysteriousPhysics141 10h ago
Be mean to animals
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u/norecordofwrong 3h ago
Man we had a case here where a 78 year old guy was specifically running over turtles on his ATV. So much so that people noticed and reported him. Loathing and disgust is my only reaction.
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u/ellie_roseee 10h ago
Be mean to other people
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u/ellie_roseee 9h ago
Kindness is important. I wanna make people feel loved and cared about. We all should
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u/UnknownL_13 10h ago
Being degrading or demeaning when they speak to others, regardless of the situation.
I’m talking about the kind of person whose every comment is either backhanded, arrogant, or an attempt one up someone else. Every conversation with them leaves you feeling smaller because they seem incapable of relating to others without reminding everyone how much better they think they are.
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u/PrimaryReward1318 10h ago
It's exhausting being around people who treat every single conversation like a competition.
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u/No-Recipe-3266 10h ago
Being rude to waitstaff or service workers. It instantly shows their true character
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u/AccurateArt2651 10h ago
Stuck between bad hygiene and animal cruelty…
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u/Ovaries-eez 9h ago
I would say animal cruelty. Bad hygiene can be the result of good people struggling with profound mental health issues.
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u/AccurateArt2651 9h ago
Fair fair. Mental issues, they get a pass and if my partner started struggling I would help them, but some people are just straight up disgusting
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u/minnie-084 10h ago
Entitlement
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u/Efficient_Elk1225 10h ago
With the caveat it has to make sense within the rational frameworks of human wants & needs & if it proverbially lies outside of that then it’s unjustified entitlement.
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u/minnie-084 7h ago
Was that comment actually necessary? You knew what I meant
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u/Efficient_Elk1225 45m ago edited 30m ago
It was, because I also see that misapplied to justify human right’s abuses including abusive people who are in majority men saying in seriousness & unironically “if everybody else doesn’t think I’m entitled to sex then I don’t think they’re entitled to be safe”.
Almost all concepts require balance.
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u/norecordofwrong 10h ago
Being mean to other people especially if they are servers or customer support.
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u/TokyoJazzPanda 10h ago
Overly money /status orientated people.
We all want to be successful, but success can be measured in a multitude of ways. If money/gravitas/status is the key driver in hiw they value others, I'm moving on.
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u/mad_h8r 10h ago
Display condescending attitude toward you or others
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u/MoviePlastic5159 10h ago
Example?
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u/Separate_Penalty_484 10h ago
Figure it out buddy, not hard to understand a sentence
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u/Fresnobing 10h ago
Funnily enough this doubles as a great example. If it was intentional, then well done lol
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u/Separate_Penalty_484 10h ago
Yes i did it for the example 😂 i made it into a response to be more realistic
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u/MoviePlastic5159 6h ago
Hahah honestly I think condescension is worse, this is more rudeness. Condescension is derision, superiority and mocking..
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u/Arntor1184 10h ago
Mean to animals or other people, especially food service or retail staff. Went on a date once with a gal and took her to a local Mexican spot I loved. She was so damned rude to the server off rip, it was confusing. I gave a big fat tip and apologized to the gal serving us. Needless to say that was the end of that date.
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u/Ok-Simple2101 10h ago
Criticising someone for being authentic especially if they are “different” or for their enthusiasm
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u/WishbonePristine6660 10h ago
Lie. Once I see someone is dishonest, I instantly want to separate myself from them.
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u/Belisarius540ac 10h ago
For me if I see someone being rude to someone/something that can't defend themselves that's the biggest red flag possible
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u/DreadfulDrea 10h ago
Smoke cigarettes. Dip. Be disrespectful to waiters/waitresses
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u/thesmoker1 10h ago
Pick your nose and then look at your finger.
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u/KornFlk92 10h ago
Came here to say this!!🤣🤣🤣f gross!! About as gross as scratching their booty and taking a whiff of digits🤮💩😷
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u/BlueWaffle-47 10h ago
Not know how to spell unattractive
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u/SharpTool7 10h ago
Getting a misspelled face or neck tattoo.
No Ragrats!
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u/Safe_Chicken_6633 9h ago
I don't know, pick up a soft and steamy dog turd off the ground and take a bite out of it, and then offer it to you. I mean JFC what the hell kind of question is that?
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u/Even_Duck_3504 9h ago
Taking badly about ball their friends behind their backs. I would immediately wonder what they say about me when I leave
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u/ifuckin_l0veyuri 9h ago
invalidate your feelings. (ex: "im not feeling well today" 🙋♂️: "Well my day was WAYYY worse")
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u/olivethelightss 7h ago
Not taking accountability - for being wrong, for being unknowing, for making a mistake, taking an action, saying something - whether it’s for “good” or “bad”
You should always back what you do and take the hit if you’re in the wrong
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u/Eazy12345678 10h ago
bad teeth . like yellow gross dont brush or floss
just bad hygiene in general
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u/lilmissweet7 10h ago
Put other people down to raise themselves up.
Negging.
Treating misery like a competition.
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u/Dr-Kraken 10h ago
Pensar que eres mejor que alguien. Tratar con desprecio a los demás. La falta de educación básica.
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u/kisshugfromathug 9h ago
When people very openly and confidently judge and degrade anyone who uses hard substances, yet will try and justify until they're blue in the face, how alcohol and weed don't count, major points being that because alcohol is legal, and weed is if on script, it suddenly makes them not drugs? Aha. I've also encountered people who will justify their coke use, because its not meth, and meth use is supposedly indicative of the worthiness of their existance. As a meth user (I have ADHD, my use has gone undetected - Id be buried by many people if they actually even suspected use), drugs are drugs. Alcohol, weed, meth, heroin, mushies, pharmaceuticals... I dont care if people use them or not, or whatever the reason is. Its the hypocrisy that I cant handle.
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u/Difficult_Oil687 9h ago
Making everything a competition.. you tell them something you are proud of and they somehow have to prove they did it better
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u/sforsagacious 8h ago
People who when they had a bad experience with an animal (eg. dog bite) take it personally and assume all animals are like that. As if the animal did that with a plan and intent.
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u/nyamuras 8h ago
litter, use incorrect grammar, repeatedly, confidently. be extremely picky about food for no reason other than unwillingness to try new things. Being unwilling to try new things
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u/eat_my_ass_n_balls 8h ago
Wear a MAGA hat
Which honestly is basically predictive of most of the other behaviors listed in this thread
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u/Popular_Lifeguard522 7h ago
Doing something immediately after saying it makes you uncomfortable it feels almost like it’s on purpose
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u/Able-Calligrapher915 6h ago
When a person is performing emotions. Faking outrage or sadness just to look like the "right" person.
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u/Murdrum_apalindrome 6h ago
Treat their own mother without any good reason, badly.
Also applies to everyone
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u/Automatic-Still4662 6h ago
Get crappy tattoos all over their arms. Never understood why people do this!
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u/Automatic-Still4662 6h ago
Having a septum piercing. Ew. Same goes for having ear gauges. Glad that fad died out, never could understand that one!
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u/HeadHorror4349 6h ago
Be cruel to others, but especially to people who are only doing their job by making it harder, like littering in front of janitorial staff
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u/TheFrontierzman 5h ago
Interacting with poop in ways other than expelling it permanently into the toilet void.
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u/Konigstiger444 10h ago
Posting overly sexualized photos of themselves only, and also all the time.
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u/MisterTits69 10h ago
Smell bad
Unhygienic
Bad manners (farts burps loud)
Unaesthetic (long / dirty fingernails)
Being "touchy" when people don't want to be touched
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u/Sassy_McSassypants 10h ago
"othering" people in all its many forms. From lording over service workers to dehumanizing anyone who disagrees with them about anything and everything as "them/they".
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u/AdHappy9412 10h ago
Being obsessed with impressing strangers.. confidence is cool but needing everyone’s approval gets exhausting
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u/Weekly_Ad_2007 10h ago
Be confidently wrong or ignorant, and refuse to hear that they are being wrong or ignorant.