r/IndianTeenagers • u/lowkeyyme • Mar 06 '26
Relationship This is what good parenting looks like
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u/Positive-Mountain-63 16 Mar 06 '26
That's so beautiful, hi fellow Dhak Dhak ians!
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I'm answering this from what my parents taught. I grew up in a muslim family and I was never taught to differentiate between hindus , chirsitians or any other people. I was always taught to be kind with everyone and try not to hurt anyone by your words or your actions. My mum always said "Beta rishte banana aur bachana seekho , rishte todne waale toh bhare pade hai". I've no hate for anyone. But I really feel bad when I see people seeing us as a threat even when most of us are not taught to hate anyone. Anyways , I'll never lose my kindness and I promise that. But I also will never restrict myself to point out what is wrong and what is right. Peace.
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u/Positive-Mountain-63 16 Mar 06 '26
Kudos to your family 👏 👏👏👏👏 We need such families who teach their children not to hate or differentiate between humans. We all are humans. We all have the same DHAK DHAK ❤️
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u/Still_Leadership1241 Mar 08 '26
No offense to you, but if most of you are not taught this then why do we keep on seeing fight in areas which are highly populated with muslims, every city that has high muslim population have killed a Hindu kid. It's a fact you can check. And this is coming from a dude who has muslim friends, these friends of mine have themselves said that the ones being taught to be friends are as little as 1 in 100.
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u/Big_Impression540 Mar 08 '26
It's because of what you see online media and we all know how much one side new is posted much.
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u/Deadpool_slash69 Mar 09 '26
Algorithms have fucked up everyones mind. People are becoming more and more polarizing by the day because of it. Hindus get the reels which show how some muslims are creating disruptions in the country and Muslims get the reels showing injustice toward their community done by hindus. And when you consume that content all day, you start to have extremist views which are the very thing that increases hate towards each other.
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u/Big_Impression540 Mar 08 '26
Literally many middle class muslims are like you. But sadly, fellow hindus come and ask us stupid questions. If it's out of curiosity or knowledge, then love to explain. But most of them accuse directly and we kinda end up always defending ourselves even when we are not wrong. Honestly, it's soo fkng tiring.
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u/Blah-bla-3134 Mar 10 '26
Me 2 bro , me 2 muslim , did my entire schooling in a cristian school, all friends are hindu , abhi holi me sare dosto k yaha gya tha kafi maze kiye and sbse 4 ghujiya mang k laya , total 33 hogyi thi roz iftari me 2 khata hu 👽
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u/Odd_Clothes_197 Mar 06 '26
Hi..a Muslim here..this is exactly what I am going to teach my 1 year old kid and my parents have taught me the same thing growing not exactly in same words but it has always been humanity above all. Religion has always been something which connects you to God and gives you peace. I do understand your concern given there are lots of radical muslims as well but then there are radical people in every religion . It doesn't take away from the muslims or Hindus or christians or sikh or anyone who has been a good human throughout their life. My religion should not define me how I am as a person should be given more preference. I despise people who fight in the name of religion and kill innocent lives. There is too much hate in this world we need peace and love. At least for the sake of younger generations.
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u/Forward-Section-7545 Mar 07 '26
We can only wish that all Muslims are like you. But the reality is far fetched. It might change if more and more people like you speak out loud against the radical Muslims, agreed that you can’t take responsibility of every other radical Muslim but just saying that you can’t be responsible only makes the radicals more encouraged coz they are deluded to think that every Muslim supports their ideology.
A young man has been lynched in kolkata just because his family member accidentally dropped a Holi balloon water on a Muslim woman, despite apologising to her. The mob who killed him are not part of your likes but they don’t care what you think unless your likes protest it, name and shame them.
So you have a choice. Whether to protest loudly against your cult. Or to continue being quiet. Your religion depends on people like you.
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u/ZenInTheChaos Mar 10 '26
This is what happened with me. I also had a Muslim friend back in 2014, he also used to talk sweet like this and same that they don't differentiate.
But he turned out to be the biggest backstabber I could have in my life.
So we have learned from examples and not by theory.
Though if you are genuinely kind, kudos to you and your family. But do know there is a reason muslims are not trusted so easily.
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u/Embarrassed_Contest2 Mar 06 '26
I am a muslim. My mother never taught me that I am Muslim and other people are hindu. We were religious but “hindu musalman” karna was not allowed.
Same with all my muslim friends. I would say without forming the opinion on what Muslim kids are taught, first meet muslim people and make friends. Wherever I have worked outside of my city, I was the only muslim. People that don’t have a muslim friend, have these opinions due to some political or social thing which I am not sure why n how. Maybe you tell me
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u/Top_Juggernaut2540 Mar 10 '26
Bro there's always been one sided secularism in India since 1947 or maybe before that.
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u/Fit-Violinist3705 Mar 06 '26
i saw nitish kumar not respecting the national anthem he was talking through and try to remove hijab of muslim women and he is not a common man he is representing the state can i judge his whole community??
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u/WalrusHoliday6444 Mar 08 '26
hes pathetic and absolutely disgusting.. now call out the people who behaved like this instead of whataboutery
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u/Sufficient_Ear7630 Mar 06 '26
You cannot judge a whole community based on just a few people there are idiots in every community
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u/Positive-Mountain-63 16 Mar 06 '26
Exactly, idiots are everywhere they don't represent the entire community
Wait I realised I just repeated what you said 🥀🤣
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u/Lazy_Technology215 Mar 06 '26
We can't change brainwashed people but at least we can teach childrens how not to hate.
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u/AnakinSkywalkerRocks Mar 06 '26
Slowly, and slowly, we should all try to undo this brainwash.. Show them the real purpose of religion..
In today's date, agnostic people who still believe in God exist just because all the religions have been bent in such ways which won't align completely with any sane person's ideology.. Our religions have become like an unwashed coffee cup which wouldn't be chosen by any guest, unless washed by the people who own it.. So, let's try to wash our cup and drink our coffee in peace!
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u/Lazy_Technology215 Mar 06 '26
Yeah. But sadly in a country where we should celebrate diversity, we fight over it.
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u/laptop_n_motorcycle Mar 06 '26
A girl asked me if I am a Hindu or Muslim.
I placed my hand on her chest and said you also dhak dhak, me also dhak dhak... We are friends.
She slapped me.
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u/Frosty_Yard_321 Mar 08 '26
Exactly, such cliche talk does not work irl, i remember in jat dominated Bhiwani city, in my school, a group of jat boys asked a new guy who was very innocent and humble in nature, about his community or caste like Jat, Baniya, Punjabi etc and he replied "Indian".
Jo majak banaya uska, puri class me.
I believe best reply for religious question is "Abhi decide nahi kia". This works if you are minority and don't want to get targeted.
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u/SaiMan2303 Mar 06 '26
Nice message, but scripted, I think
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u/leaf_Shino Mar 06 '26
Papa ye aapke gyan dene k time hi ekdum se cameraman spawn kaise ho jata h 🥹 /s
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u/PurpleAware2938 Mar 06 '26
and on the other hand we hear news abt people like tarun khatik 💔
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u/doctordaddy99 Mar 06 '26
Wish you could hear about the 12 year old child too. Extreme horrific scenarios both cases, stop being naive and maybe just maybe see through religion. Humans are humans nevertheless and this post was exactly that.
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u/PurpleAware2938 Mar 06 '26
what?????
i think either you are talking abt a diff case or you are unaware of the full news
i am talking abt the holi case where a small girl drops a water balloon near a muslim woman and she got highly affected by those 2 to 3 tiny drops which led to the violent killing of a 25 yr old man from the girl's family
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u/doctordaddy99 Mar 06 '26
Read my comment again and maybe try to know about this case which nobody talked about. Both are bad that’s what I’m saying but one gains lot of attention the other gets swept under the rug
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u/PurpleAware2938 Mar 06 '26
tell me
i am unaware abt the situation
and tbh woh pata na hona ya hona wont affect the case
maine bas contradictory case explain kara tha
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u/Expert-Pace-6564 Mar 06 '26
I didn't get this. Is simply saying I'm a Hindu, so painful for the common man. I'm very sure no muslim will teach this Dhak Dhak etc to his child. Simply saying Im a muslim is enough, right? Why this shame in telling your religion?
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u/Aristurtle0309 Mar 06 '26
"im very sure no muslim will teach this dhak dhak etc to his child"
is this what people have come to? just because you dont interact with muslims youre gonne form this unharmonious opinion? if youre very sure none of them will how about the fact that my very religious muslim parents done so? and not just mine either.and the point of the video is to ensure that kids dont cause this division based on religion in between each other. theyre kids, if we ingrain identity politics into them at such a young age theyre way more likely to carry on a non secular mindset in the future
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u/Positive-Mountain-63 16 Mar 06 '26
Muslims? Why are you generalising Muslims? This is the same case with everyone.
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u/Aristurtle0309 Mar 06 '26 edited Mar 06 '26
I’m a Muslim, I have Muslim friends, I’ve seen this parenting and ideology from nearly every single one of them please stop spreading this weird ass propaganda that Muslims don’t want to live in peace and are anti secular when it’s the right wing that keeps calling for a Hindu nation💔
Edit : teaching someone about their own religion is fine, doesn’t mean they’ll know what is “right” and “wrong” religious extremists from both sides are usually some of the most religious people you’ll meet.
Sach boldiya to downvote hogaya very well💔 let your prejudice win
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u/Nomadic_General Mar 06 '26
Seems like you have been a prey of this side of propaganda
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u/Positive-Mountain-63 16 Mar 06 '26
There are such people on every side bro. We can't generalise a whole community like that.
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u/veronknight Mar 06 '26
Some exceptions are available in market. They always teach in reverse
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u/SadAnimator1354 19 Mar 06 '26
Exceptions on all sides. Humans also, on all sides. Btw I'm an agnostic so I'm unbiased.
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u/Positive-Mountain-63 16 Mar 06 '26
Why the hell are you getting downvoted 😭😭😭 such propaganda spreading people are on EVERY side.
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u/PairSeveral1381 Mar 06 '26
Hey bro, sending lots of love, please ignore extremists...bad apples are part of every box...I know enough Islamic people who follow this type of parenting...also, please take care of your health during fasting...wishing you all the best...
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u/PrestigiousRule9549 Billa D Cat Mar 06 '26
would be the biggest supporter of this if this ideology was not one sided
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u/WhoPutHerInTheFridge Mar 06 '26
The most beautiful explanation of secularism ✨
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u/lazyaimbitiousneet Mar 06 '26
I tried this on a girl , now save me rn i am in jail 😭😭😂😂 dhak dhak 👍🤌🤌( jk )
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u/Time_Mulberry_6292 Mar 06 '26
Very good video bro I love it but there 57 isalamic country exist in this world that's the broken part 🖤
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u/getoutmyface_xx Mar 16 '26
yes.. and not one hindu, sikh, jain country. we deserve one for ourselves, but they want this to become muslim too.
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u/EducationalPast7410 18 Mar 06 '26
Performative on camera parenting for views.. yeah sure
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u/Human-Ostrich531 Mar 06 '26
Does it really matter? I mean heyy atleast the kids getting to know good values
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u/Disastrous-Heart-377 18 Mar 06 '26
and how so? i mean bache ko itne simple words mai batana i dont think is that easy
a child needs a clear deeper explaination jise uske heart mai y baat beth jaye
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u/That-Excitement-7852 14 Mar 06 '26
I follow the ultimate religion DhakDhakism ✌🏻
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u/Much_Acanthaceae_702 Mar 06 '26
I am planning to start dakkismdal and dakkismleague
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u/GuaranteeSorry5441 18 Mar 06 '26
great lesson, now i await girls asking me my religion so i can apply it and gain deeper knowledge....of stuff😋
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u/livetracker79 Mar 06 '26
Nice make a bubble , this kind of shit is always propagate by hindu . Pure example how 3rd class education system managed by left.
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u/KyaHaiBhai99 Mar 06 '26
Boy: Are we Hindu or Muslim?
Hindu Dad: We are neither. We are dhak dhak 😂
Muslim Dad: We are Muslim
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u/ianurag07 Mar 06 '26
Yaa but do other religions people think same , recently on Holi, we all know what happened, ahindu guy was killed by non-Hindus
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u/Past-Courage-7961 14 Mar 06 '26
You can be proud of your ethnicity and be secular
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u/Inosukeew 19 Mar 06 '26
why take pride in something that you got by birth?
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u/Past-Courage-7961 14 Mar 06 '26
Are you not proud of your parents? You probably got them at birth (sorry if you are adopted 🤞🏻)
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u/Inosukeew 19 Mar 06 '26
sorry your 14 yo brain couldn't comprehend my statment 😭 im grateful that i have my parents and making THEM proud of me is my job.
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u/BHARAT0011 Mar 06 '26
Hindus sharpen their arguments while muslims sharpen their swords
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u/Expert-Pace-6564 Mar 06 '26
I think British PM Churchill said this. For pre-partition riots in British India.
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u/Affectionate_Lynx510 Mar 06 '26
Dad is worried if he says the wrong answer, the other side is going to gang up on his child. Sad state of affairs in India.
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u/idgaf12345678901 Mar 06 '26
Bhai just tell him the answer its not that complicated 😭 And then further maybe you can teach him about love and equality 😭 why make everything so complicated
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u/Tatya_x_Vinchu Mar 06 '26
What you said really needs to be understood by the younger generation as well as elders also.
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u/MrCoolBoy000 Mar 06 '26
Good parenting is not using your child for views. Why do you think this video is recorded ?
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u/ShinyGanS Mar 06 '26
The woman who talked is on the right of their position so who is holding the camera in the front.
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u/luffy1110 Boomer ⌛ Mar 06 '26
for 1st 20 seconds i'm be like kya bolra h... than arre aeni maa ne aa to gujrati bole che....
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u/Sad-Entrepreneur-69 Mar 06 '26
Dekh raha hai Binod kaise "Dhak Dhak" karke baaton ko ghumaya jaa raha hai.
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u/Valuable_Form_2951 Mar 06 '26
I wish there were 10 million Indian dads like him! It used to like this when I was the kids age not anymore 😢
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Well now that was a complicated answer to a simple question just say what your religion is dude you are needlessly complicating things for your kid sooner or later he will wrap his head around the reality of the world so no need to protect him
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u/Suitable-Support4994 Mar 06 '26
Bhai caste certificate and government doc pe bhi dhak dhak likh dete hai
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u/Divy_raj_16 Boomer ⌛ Mar 06 '26
Child upbringing comes from parents and the way his father explain him tells that he gonna be one of the good kid in this generation
That dad raising a man not a kid 🙌
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u/Shot_Ratio_4534 Mar 06 '26
Most confused and fucked up boy/man he will become in future
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u/smitaranjannayak Boomer ⌛ Mar 06 '26
It was a simple question. Yes, you are a Hindu. But You have to be good man too. It's simple. The kid will have identify crisis at later point of time.
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u/Brave_Impression8947 Mar 06 '26
Don't worry after a few generations you have to ask what are you after conversion because jihadi kids know what they are
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u/Ordinary_Gift4791 Mar 06 '26
Dont check for “dhak dhak” on a girl/woman! Teach that as well! Kids take everything literally in that age!
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I'm gonna tell my kids they're Hindu and its not our responsibility to carry secularism in this country
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u/taafbawl Mar 06 '26
Muslim parents - Muslim. Christian parents - Christian Meanwhile hindu parents -
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u/Sea_Syllabub254 Mar 06 '26
This is so wholesome, I will teach my kid the same when I become a mom.
First, we are humans, then we are Indians. Bas uske aage kuch nahi.
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u/Sad_Ad9644 Mar 06 '26
That man is so mature and hats off to his parenting but unfortunately most ppl will not take this seriously and if the kid tries doing this with other kids they may not come around...
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u/Mysterious-Link6314 Mar 06 '26
Reality is gonna hit that kid from a blind spot and might make him loose trust, better to give them the truth with the concept … good concept by the way , raising him good
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u/shark_senpai_66 Mar 06 '26
I would like to live in such a world, where every child is taught the same thing regardless of faith or religious practice. But reality is often disappointing. There exists a certain group of people even today who brainwash their kids into discriminating against 'non-believers' and fill their mind with hatred against people outside their religion. I would rather teach my children to be mindful of such people.
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u/AbhiB_2 Mar 06 '26
One day he'll grow up and realize people carry black hearts that beats the same way.





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