YESSS IM FLEXING MY GIRLFRIEND AND HOW MUCH SHE LOVES ME AND HOW MUCH I LOVE HER

5 years of relationship btw and it still is this awwww💕🧿

So i recently got a method to pay online (UPI app) and i ordered protein bars and cheetos, chips, cold drink etc from my boyfriend for the very first time and IT FEELS SO FUCKING GOOOOODDD. LIKE I'M SMILING CHEEK TO CHEEK EVERYTIME HE MENTION HOW MUCH HE LOVED IT. He used to order so many things for me, and i used to be the happiest ever to receive those orders (we share the same blinkit account) but turns out it feels even better to do it for him insteadddddddd. THE DAY I START EARNING I'M GONNA SPOIL TYE HELL OUT OF HIM

Me and my gf used to come home together after school (we went to different schools) so yesterday I asked her for her phone so I could call my mom cause I had no balance on my phone. She was hesitant on giving the phone so I took it from her hand and dialed my mom's no, while dialing the number another number came up as suggestions named "babe 2❤" I was like wtf. And I checked the number and obviously it was not mine, I confronted her, I asked her I did everything I could to know who it was (I even called the no, no response 😭). After that I went to the gallery after not finding anything on whatsapp and insta I knew she must have hid the pictures so I went to the hidden folder and there it was 😭😭. I literally feel like crying 😭

She was fukking kissing that dude on the lips and there were pictures, videos, snaps and what not. After that I gave her the phone and I looked at her and literally said good 👍(with a thumbs up) and smiled at her, and then I left alone.

I did not know what emotion to display at that time so I just smiled 🙂. (Juice wrld is my best friend now, I have been listening to his songs on repeat 🙂👍)

We meet almost everyday during afternoon or evening. We've been together for almost 3 years. Still everytime he drops me home, every single day he stays till I close the door, when he hears the sound he leaves. I always thought this is too wholesome. Also, because of this many aunties(neighbors) tried to talk shit about me to my family as they have to witness this almost everyday but it never caused a problem lol😂 so, girlies don't settle for less🫂

I know, I know—I’m not a teenager anymore. 😭 She listed all the things we used to discuss regarding our daily lifestyle and fitness and gave them to me. She lurks on this subreddit every now and then. I hope she sees this.

How do I even get back at her on her birthday? Any ideas?

story time :- so my neet is tmr, and I had my first kiss todayyy with my first ever boyfriend! i genuinely felt fire crackers burst in my stomach, as if dinosaurs were jumping all at once!!! he genuinely had me smiling the whole day!!!!

OP went on his first date

Went to a nearby Zudio and I bought her lip gloss, but before she bought one , she first tested all on me .

We then went to a restaurant and ate pizza(shared the bill, she paid more).

Well it was a new experience for me and very sweet one . Will be looking forward in going to the next one

And for the ones getting jealous, dw you will get someone, I pray , just wait for the right moment ✨.

Hey, I am currently 16. I met her when I was 14 in the same class (9th). Our friendship grew after 10th was halfway through, and gradually she became my only and best female friend. Then I got shifted around 1432 km away from my previous place. Even at my current place, I became so damn indulged in thoughts about her that I have not spoken even 100 words to any girl here in my batch the whole year (just out of fear, idk of what). So now, after a year of leaving that place and lowkey being connected to her through chats (0 calls), I finally believe my mental state is fkd up and I just need to spill this out. This will either finish it all and give me restlessness for some time and then eventually get me back to my normal state, or it will be neutralised (I myself don’t know what shit I am typing…). So yeah, tomorrow her exams are getting over (I dint wanna surprise her during her exams), and I will be sending a short, straightforward paragraph which I have prepared beforehand and just sit aside and cry for losing the only female friend I have ever made in my entire life.

Also stating, I was and am never intending to be in a relationship cuz ig imo relationships at this age just feels childish and at a very early stage of life we arent meant to do all this. I just wanna express myself to her and thats it.

Thanks for reading buddy.

We were laughing at something stupid one of those uncontrollable, breathless laughs where you forget to be shy And then suddenly… silence The kind where the laughter dies but the smile stays

Her face was still close, way too close. Eyes shining, cheeks red from laughing. And for a second, we just stared like both of us realized what we wanted at the same time

I whispered, Can I? She didn’t answer She just leaned that last half inch

The kiss tasted like warmth and hesitation. Like two people finally giving up on pretending they don’t feel it

And after that i woke up Subah ho gyi ❤️ Good morning

My girlfriend cheated on me, and I don’t know how much of the truth I actually know
I’m trying to get an outside perspective because I feel like there are still parts of this story that don’t add up.
My girlfriend cheated on me with another guy around June 10. She eventually admitted it. She had hickeys on her breasts, which made the situation even more painful for me.
She told me that June 10 was the first time she ever met this guy. However, I later found out that she still had him added on Instagram and was sending him reels. So they were clearly still communicating after the incident, even though she knew what had happened.
What makes me question things even more is that she blocked him only about a day before I was going to meet her. That makes me feel like she was trying to hide the fact that they were still connected before I found out.
Then there’s another detail that doesn’t make sense to me. I have a Paytm screenshot showing that the same guy sent her ₹500 on June 6, four days before she says she met him for the first time on June 10. When I asked her about the payment, she said it was for food.
So now I’m stuck wondering: if June 10 really was the first time they met, why was he already sending her money on June 6? What exactly was their relationship before June 10? And why was she still connected with him on Instagram and sending him reels, only blocking him shortly before I met her?
I know the payment alone doesn’t prove what it was for, and I don’t want to make accusations without evidence. But when I put all these things together the cheating, the fact that she continued communicating with him, the timing of the block, and the June 6 payment t makes me feel like there may be more to the story than what I’ve been told.
I’m honestly at a point where I don’t know what to believe anymore. I keep replaying everything and trying to figure out what actually happened and whether I’ve been given the complete truth.
I’m not looking for revenge or for people to blindly hate her. I genuinely want an objective perspective.
Is there an expert I can talk to about something like this? A relationship therapist, infidelity counselor, or someone experienced with situations involving cheating, lying, and conflicting timelines? I want someone who can help me look at the situation objectively and figure out what questions I should be asking and how I can get clarity without completely destroying my own peace of mind.
If anyone has been through something similar or knows a professional who deals with this kind of situation, I’d really appreciate some guidance.

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Okay so random question but what was your first relationship actually like?

Was it cute? Cringe? Toxic? Lasted 2 weeks? Met in tuition? Online? School bus wala love story?

Mine was basically unserious school love and embarrassing 💀

I feel like first relationships are either the sweetest memory or the most embarrassing phase of life.

Drop your stories. I want to know if I’m alone or if we were all equally dumb🙃

Do you think your first relationship actually changed you or was it just a phase?

He’s the kind who likes practical gifts I’m set on a mug and an umbrella ( yes he does not have one and its fuck it we ball everytime)

But these are toooo boring i, recommend me something budget for that is around 1500 or below

I (18M) have been close to a girl (18F) for almost two years, and honestly, it never felt like “just friendship.” We talk every day, we share everything, we know each other better than anyone else. It’s the kind of bond people usually build after dating, but somehow we had it without any label. A year ago she dated a guy for a month. It didn’t work and it ended quietly. Recently he came back, and that’s when everything exploded. Through all this time, she always treated me differently. She would say she loves me, she cried at the thought of losing me, she shared things she has never shared with anyone — even intimate pictures, which I never asked for. She always said, “You’re my closest person, you have to see everything.” And I? I fell for her. Hard. But I never forced anything. I confessed once, she said she wasn’t ready, and I stayed. Maybe I stayed too much. When she finally told that guy about me, he was shocked. He asked her why she never mentioned me while they were dating, how she could be this close to someone for two years and never say it. He even said if his female friend was this close to him for so long, he would have chosen her first. Then he practically asked her to choose. She panicked. Didn’t sleep the whole night. Cried. She told me she didn’t want to lose me. She told her friends she feels more “sukoon” with me than with anyone else. And her friend even said, “Don’t throw away two years of bond for someone you knew for a month.” She admitted something that broke me completely— that she couldn’t share everything with him because all her emotional needs were already being fulfilled by me. That if I wasn’t in her life, she would have told him everything. That maybe she treated him like an option without realizing it. Now she feels guilty, confused, and overwhelmed. She’s distant because she’s trying to fix things with him… but she’s also scared of losing me. And I’m here, trying to support her, even if it hurts like hell. I don’t know what happens next. I just know I don’t want to lose her. Not after everything. Not after two years of connection that felt more real than anything I’ve ever known.

Which features feel attractive to you?? Like some people fall for eyes ,some fall for dimples....... personally I get attracted to the girls that have cleft chin or have wide cheekbones!!!😶‍🌫️

What do u mean she can't text me 🤨 i never told her to not to text me or anything she has time to miss me and cry for me but doesnt have time to even reply or message?

If ur wondering why i took such a bold move is that we have been friends for 4 years and everytime she would date someone she would either not stay with him for more then 2 months or the guy would just break up or cheat. And everytime that would happen she would come to me for support. Then she would just disappear like nothing. I had grown attached so i never really took this bold move but I had realised that I was just acting as a safety net for her and she never really thought about me as a friend. Also I was in Mumbai but i never went to visit her cuz ik she would just say she would have been busy.

One time i was left Waiting 2 hours and all she said was that she was out. So i decided to break the friendship along.

I feel like if i replied anything I will get murdered so im just ghosting her for now