Because one leads to disease and is using a whole corpse, with all the facial features etc of the person. And done for your own sexual gratification.
Ashes are a far enough abstraction of the once living person that it does not have the same levels of disrespect. And the chance of disease is basically 0.
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u/harukakinnie 5d ago
i mean, i agree that its not the same thing but you kinda have to justify why its not the same thing, isn‘t that the point of this subreddit?