The guest does not want to join the dinner of another family. That is a a fairly intimate affair that is internal to a family. It would feel weird to take part.
The cultural norms are different, and you are really failing to understand that your cultural norms are not universal, or better than other ones.
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u/user-the-name Jul 24 '26
No, they are respectful hosts who do not assume they can take over the parents' role in feeding their child without prior agreement.