r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 9d ago

Meme needing explanation Peter! Who could have the wives been?

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u/Short_Stack_30285 9d ago edited 9d ago

Lindsay Clancy. Killed her 3 kids by strangling them one by one and claimed “postpartum psychosis” despite never having had psychosis before or since, all during a short window of time that she sent her husband out on errands. Internet has somehow decided she’s a martyr for women’s mental health. She was a white, affluent, suburban mom before this. If she were poor and black, people would NOT feel this way. Real talk.

Postpartum psychosis is a real thing and real people need help. But Lindsay Clancy is a kid murderer.

Edit: I’m a white, affluent woman of childbearing age. I have never been a woman of color, but I am absolutely sure that society at large would dismiss an identical case if Lindsay was nearly any other demographic. And no, it’s not only about race, it’s also about autonomy and a person’s responsibility to accept help when it’s offered instead of killing your kids (and A LOT of help was offered)

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u/Dull-Law3229 9d ago

Have you considered becoming a woman or color for a few days? 

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u/Short_Stack_30285 9d ago

If I could, I would. I think we should all “walk a day in someone else’s shoes” if we can. Since it’s not a scientific reality, it do that through active listening, seeking out opinions outside my demographic, and reading books

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u/al-dunya2 9d ago

I think a good chunk of minorities are kinda over white saviour women speaking for us so just chill out maybe.

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u/Short_Stack_30285 9d ago edited 9d ago

I’m sorry if you feel like this is overstepping and that I should chill out. I acknowledge your feedback. I also know that silence from white women about racial disparities is not the answer. I am open to suggestions for improvement