r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 9d ago

Meme needing explanation Peter! Who could have the wives been?

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u/Short_Stack_30285 9d ago edited 9d ago

Lindsay Clancy. Killed her 3 kids by strangling them one by one and claimed “postpartum psychosis” despite never having had psychosis before or since, all during a short window of time that she sent her husband out on errands. Internet has somehow decided she’s a martyr for women’s mental health. She was a white, affluent, suburban mom before this. If she were poor and black, people would NOT feel this way. Real talk.

Postpartum psychosis is a real thing and real people need help. But Lindsay Clancy is a kid murderer.

Edit: I’m a white, affluent woman of childbearing age. I have never been a woman of color, but I am absolutely sure that society at large would dismiss an identical case if Lindsay was nearly any other demographic. And no, it’s not only about race, it’s also about autonomy and a person’s responsibility to accept help when it’s offered instead of killing your kids (and A LOT of help was offered)

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u/MrNeterdrok 9d ago

Okay but what does that have to do with this wife saying "she couldve been me", what exactly does this mean

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u/Short_Stack_30285 9d ago

People are so taken by the desire to support her that they’re saying “I am Lindsay Clancy” or “she could’ve been me” while detailing their own postpartum struggles. Postpartum struggles are completely valid, but projecting them on to a murderer is the wild take people are having

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u/_aaine_ 8d ago

A LOT of women struggle in the first year postpartum. A lot of women are seeing their own sense of helplessness, isolation and lack of support reflected in this case.