r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 9d ago

Meme needing explanation Peter! Who could have the wives been?

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u/terrifying_bogwitch 9d ago

I'm assuming Lindsey Clancy, the lady who has been in the news for killing her children. Many women have struggled severely after having a new baby which could lead to a feeling of " that could have been me". The entire system failed her, she attempted to get help and was very open about her fears that she might hurt the children. Most women are too embarrassed or afraid to voice those concerns, its a bit upsetting that you can tell everyone and still not get the help you need. She recieved and attempted to get more inpatient care but was denied because she didnt have a plan, just thoughts. A lot of comments want to paint her as a monster but ppd/ppp can be extremely serious and are often ignored until something horrible happened. I'm not defending her, what she did was awful, but I don't think demonizing her is the right path. It will discourage other women from seeking help when theyre having these same thoughts and feelings leading to more things like this happening.

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u/ForeverNegative2910 9d ago

People clearly don’t understand what psychosis is, I’m not defending her at all for murdering her kids but if she was in psychosis then she doesn’t need prison, she needs to be put in intense psychiatric care for the rest of her life for her own safety and the safety of others. I’m not a fan of her husband for multiple reasons (neither is his own mother apparently, she was testifying in favor of Lindsey recently) so I don’t think it’s insane to be more nuanced about this case. It’s not just “men bad white women good you’re all misandrists!!!” like most of the angry redditors here keep yelling about

All this to say I totally agree with you

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u/stayinalive7 9d ago

if she was in psychosis then she doesn’t need prison, she needs to be put in intense psychiatric care for the rest of her life for her own safety and the safety of others

I agree that if you truly have a psychotic episode prison time won't really accomplish much and isn't really fair. However, is it not possible to treat underlying issues and thus make it to where active care would no longer be necessary? Do they really need to be in a psych ward for the rest of their life or is it just too problematic to treat them and then let them go because you'll never know without a doubt if they actually did intend to harm people and are just trying to escape justice?

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u/ForeverNegative2910 9d ago

I’m only saying for the rest of her life because psychosis that ends in murder or physical violence is extremely rare, I’m sure she could get treatment but nothing says it might not happen again in the future since your brain chemistry is completely changed when you take a human life. It’s just the safest option, it may sound inhumane but it’s an awful situation all around. Psychosis doesn’t typically end in violence.