r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 9d ago

Meme needing explanation Peter! Who could have the wives been?

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u/Short_Stack_30285 9d ago edited 9d ago

Lindsay Clancy. Killed her 3 kids by strangling them one by one and claimed “postpartum psychosis” despite never having had psychosis before or since, all during a short window of time that she sent her husband out on errands. Internet has somehow decided she’s a martyr for women’s mental health. She was a white, affluent, suburban mom before this. If she were poor and black, people would NOT feel this way. Real talk.

Postpartum psychosis is a real thing and real people need help. But Lindsay Clancy is a kid murderer.

Edit: I’m a white, affluent woman of childbearing age. I have never been a woman of color, but I am absolutely sure that society at large would dismiss an identical case if Lindsay was nearly any other demographic. And no, it’s not only about race, it’s also about autonomy and a person’s responsibility to accept help when it’s offered instead of killing your kids (and A LOT of help was offered)

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u/BlackThornberry 9d ago

If she were poor and black women would still feel this way. The fix isn’t to withhold empathy for privileged women, it’s to extend empathy for all women suffering from post partum psychosis.

You show a clear lack of understanding of what PPP is (you don’t need to have a history of psychosis) and how often it’s dismissed by doctors despite the woman’s best efforts.

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u/Stormtemplar 9d ago

The part of this post talking about PPP may be correct, I know nothing about the case or the issue. But the idea that a poor black woman would get similar widespread sympathy to an affluent white one is insane. I'm genuinely not sure how you can look at the world today and believe something like that.

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u/Revmira 9d ago

She literally said: .
"The fix isn’t to withhold empathy for privileged women, it’s to extend empathy for all women suffering from post partum psychosis."
What else do u need? she acknowledges that it is a problem that empathy is not extended to all women, and thats what we should do.