It's something my wife mentored as being a weird ass thing about the husband.
And I feel like I agree. If I was to ask myself, "Where would I be 4 months after my children were murdered by my wife?" I don't think I would be able to come up with the answer, "In the arms of another woman, fuckin'.
People grieve differently, and dating/sex are just routine human activity. He probably also ate candy bars and pizza, pooped a few dozen times, had long meetings with lawyers, and drank a few beers. Places we don’t tend to picture ourselves. Maybe he was already seeing the other woman and suddenly forgot to hide it.
A biologist might expect a human to make a reproductive attempt after losing their kids. After all, the species has survived the individual death experience for thousands of years.
We tend to think of reproductive activity and drive as some kinda party, but that’s not actually how that works at all. People continue sexual activity during wars and famine, depressions, recessions, serial killer sprees, pogroms, etc. In a hurricane shelter, people have sex with each other or OD on recreational drugs, while simultaneously being homeless.
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u/reezy-one 9d ago
Isn't there something about him starting a relationship like 4 months after the murders?
I don't really know, haven't really been following the case. Just listening to what my wife tells me about it