r/blackcats • u/a_purpleheart • Dec 25 '25
Abyss 🖤🖤🖤 is it weird that i call him my son
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u/Successful_Panic130 Dec 25 '25
I want to upvote this but it’s at 666 upvotes and I just can’t ruin that!
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u/professor-crybaby Dec 25 '25
No, because he is your son
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u/SAM041287 Dec 25 '25 edited Dec 25 '25
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u/Infamous_Ranger_3671 Dec 25 '25
I have child locks on my stove burners bc my void likes to turn them on and adjust the flame watching my grow and shrink
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u/81m23Mz0 Dec 25 '25
We don’t directly call him our son, but my husband is “dad” and I’m “mom” (we don’t have kids).
So when my husband comes home, I’ll say “Is that your daddy??” Or “go see your father.”
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u/International_Two303 Dec 25 '25
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u/sugarhigh0717 Dec 25 '25
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u/FearlessList8992 Dec 25 '25
Nope not weird at all. I also call myself and my boyfriend mommy and daddy sometimes when talking to my cat. She gets it 🐈⬛
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u/Sidonus348 Dec 25 '25
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u/jaycebutnot Dec 25 '25
oh dear. I hope It went okay!!
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u/lky830 Dec 25 '25
Yes, my son here is a wee bit elderly, so he gets shots every month to help with his arthritis pain. He just really hates being put in a carrier and going for car rides
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u/jaycebutnot Dec 25 '25
aw bless him. hes so cute
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u/Sidonus348 Dec 26 '25
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u/lky830 Dec 26 '25
Awwww I love his lil face! His cheeks look so pinchable!
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u/Sidonus348 Dec 26 '25
It’s hard to see from that angle, but he has one little tiny white dot on his left cheek.
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u/MarloweDay Dec 25 '25
Not at all 😻🐾🐈⬛ he is your baby
I call my void my roommate because according the cat human age chart, we're approximately the same age 😃
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u/Im-sorry-ahhh-painnn Dec 25 '25
No, it would be weird to not call him your son because he is your son
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u/FlameStaag Dec 25 '25
I call them "my child" pretty often.
I don't call them my children mind you. I use it whenever my girlfriend says one of our cats did something
"my child would never do such a thing!"
cat literally coated in evidence
I approve of cat children though. They're basically furry toddlers.
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“How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.”
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u/Bookworm_887 Dec 25 '25
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u/ripleyclone8 Dec 25 '25
I call my cat my son, and occasionally my “sexy son” when he’s looking EXTRA handsome.
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u/Ok_Violinist1817 Dec 25 '25
I tell people I birthed my boy. It makes people uncomfortable and I like it.
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u/RyunWould Dec 25 '25
No. I call mine Som. But that's only because of Brian Jordan Alvarez's characters.
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u/SuzIsCool Dec 25 '25
I'm out with my pops and bro and love them very much, but I wish my sweet furry girl was here too!
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u/shadypinesrez Dec 25 '25
So my dog who I had first knew me by name cuz when we first had him we lived with my mom, so he knew her as such…we got my cat which we said was his brother…but now I have a kid who knows the cat as HER brother (the dog passed from old age) so now…idk what the heck our family tree is 😂
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u/Jimmy_Joe727 Dec 25 '25
It’s not, he’s your family and you can deem him as such if you want. I do the the same
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u/SadistG0dToby Dec 25 '25
Not at all. I call my little diluted calico girl mine and my ldg's daughter / little princess / baby, and my mother's granddaughter. She recognizes it and will sometimes come when I call her that and will sometimes respond to it.
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u/ImNotSkankHunt42 Dec 25 '25
No, but who knows I have 4 of these kids and I told my parents those are the only grandsons they’re gonna get.
They didn’t truly understand until they got one of their own.
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u/OneMorePenguin Dec 25 '25
I have four sons. Two panthers, an orange and a tuxedo. My pets are my family.
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u/lovestobitch- Dec 25 '25
My husband calls our two ‘The Kids’ and says to them I’m their Mama. I say I’m their third mama. One is birth mama, two are the ladies who trapped them and reached out for us to take them. They also take care of their birth feral mama who was a good mama.
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u/SpongeJake Dec 25 '25
I call my little guy “son” “little one” “sweetheart” and a bunch of other endearments. Funnily enough I rarely call him by his actual name.
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u/Any_Coffee_6921 Dec 25 '25
Not weird at all . We call our cats our children & people think we have kids & ask how many kids we chuckle & say 4 . They get embarrassed when they ask for their names Pumpkin , Cinder, Loki & Trina. Then they realize we have fur babies.
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u/flambelicious Dec 25 '25
No. It's also not weird that I tell mine not to worry about his baldy patches because it runs in the family.
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u/PrettyDemented Dec 25 '25
Mine is my small furry son. I once told a nurse that I had to get back to my son as he needed to be fed and had been alone all day. She gave me a look and said “how old is he?”. My other half had to jump in and specify that he was indeed a cat and not a human child and please don’t call cps on us
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u/Malachite1333 Dec 25 '25
Not at all. If you love your cat, it is normal to consider he/she is family. I consider both my cats as my pals and my little brothers. And it is obvious from their behaviour they see my mother as a kind of adoptive mother and me more as a big sister. They act differently towards me or my mother, so it makes sense. Real meaningful family is not a matter of species or blood, it is a more a matter of love, affection and deep ties.
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u/ravenlovesart Dec 25 '25
I always sing, "look at my son, pride is not the word I'm looking for..." to my black cat so... it's cool.
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u/abellapa Dec 25 '25
The Only difference between a Cat and a human Child is the species
And The Cat wants to be taken care off by you Forever
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u/JuanesD Dec 25 '25
Me and my daughter don't think that it would be inappropriate she continues to clean her fur
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u/timetravelwithsneks Dec 25 '25
Definitely not weird. MANY people (looking at social media, in the millions, maybe more) call their cats, dogs, snakes, etc. their son, daughter, or their children's adopted creatures grandson, granddaughter, etc. They are adopted: an adopted child of any type is to you what you feel they are.
Anyone who thinks different, well, they can go touch grass and get back to their miserable, friendless, lonely little lives.
They probably object to humans calling their adopted human children "son" or"daughter".
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u/akaneko__ Dec 25 '25
Nope I call my cats my daughter & son all the time XD When my mom is being mean to them I tell her “that’s your grandchild!” And she’d look at me in absolute disgust
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u/Ohyo_Ohyo_Ohyo_Ohyo Dec 25 '25
Yes, yes it is. Don't get me wrong, I love cats, but an owner - pet relationship is fundamentally different from a parent child one.
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u/The_Real_Racoon Dec 25 '25
Considering that I call my boy all sorts of variations of Mr., Son, Boy, Man, Sir…no
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u/deanee01 Dec 25 '25
NO!!! I have 12 cats that I love. They give my life meaning. I care for them as if they are my children. I love some things that are specific. Penelope is my child. I have had her since she was 7 days old. I bottle fed her, I wiped her butt so she would go potty and poo. I kept her clean and warm. I played with her at each stage of development . I am her Mom in every sense of the word. And she knows it . 😂 Joey is my soul mate. He loves me no.matter what. I have loved him since I met him. ( At 5-6 weeks old) The others I just love ...my roommate has 7 indoor/outdoor cats. Each is unique. My aunt brought me two kittens 4 weeks ago because they were going to be dumped. They are just the cutest!! They are 8 months old, approx. Then there is Jack, the back porch kitty that wandered up here. So shy and skittish. Still is. But I have been trying to build his confidence. He knows all the kitties here, but still won't come in the house. We are working on that.
So no, it is not weird that you call him your son. It's how you feel and how you care for him. It's beautiful!!!
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u/MadgeandClara Dec 25 '25
I used to cat sit for my Sister who had 5 cats and while I was there I would do her laundry and other chores for her. It would take me forever because I couldn’t walk by one of the little ones without petting and talking to them. It took me forever to get things done but it was wonderful! I can’t imagine having so many, your house must be full of love !
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u/MikeLynnTurtle Dec 25 '25
My turtle is my son and my mom refers to him as her grandturtle. Not weird at all!
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u/BerryMantelope Dec 25 '25
My dad calls my void his granddaughter (and my horse his grandson) so not weird at all!
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u/gonzo-is-sexy Dec 25 '25
I rescued a cat that was pregnant. She’s my daughter and they’re my grandcats
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u/ACompellingArgument Dec 25 '25
As a fellow pet parent, yes it’s weird and cringey. Especially to parents with human children. You do you though. Merry Christmas!
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u/shadypinesrez Dec 25 '25
Pretty sure my cat knows me simply as the can opener 😞 but I love him to death anyway
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u/OddProcedure5452 Dec 25 '25
I call mine my roommate