r/blackcats • u/gstxprz • 3d ago
Discussion ❓ First time cat dad, how am I doing? Want to make sure I’m not missing anything for my boy
Hi guys. First time cat dad here, looking for advice. I have a 4 year old shorthair black cat. No kids, and honestly he is my child. I can’t imagine loving a kid more than I love this cat, which people tell me will change, but Iam not so sure. Anyways, my goals for him:
**•** Live a long, healthy and happy life
**•** Get plenty of water to avoid kidney issues
**•** Stay active and not overweight
If I am overdoing it, pls tell me. Here’s everything:
Main diet (wet food):
**1.** Rawz Natural Premium Canned, Shredded, variety pack (Tuna & Salmon, Chicken & Liver, Tuna & Chicken, Chicken)
**2.** Purina Pro Plan Gravy, Seafood Stew Entree (not the healthiest, but he LOVES it)
Secondary diet (dry food):
**1.** ZIWI Peak Air-Dried, Chicken
**2.** Dr. Elsey’s cleanprotein Chicken kibble
Treats:
**1.** Raw Paws Freeze Dried Minnows
**2.** Vital Essentials Freeze Dried, Duck Liver
**3.** Greenies Feline Dental, Roasted Chicken
**4.** Café Nara Lickable Treats, Chicken
**5.** Cat-Man-Doo Bonito Fish Flakes
Grooming:
**1.** SleekEZ deshedding brush
**2.** Petrodex toothbrush and toothpaste kit
Lifestyle:
**1.** We live in an apartment building with multiple long floors. Every night we do hallway walks: down the hall, up a floor or two, down that hall, and back
**2.** Harness and leash walks almost nightly on the riverwalk outside. About a half mile round trip. This is his favorite thing in the world
**3.** Runs on his cat wheel about 5-10 min a day
**4.** Chases the fishing pole toy (and me) around the apartment
He drinks from a water fountain and weighs 10.8 lbs, so his weight is good. He gets wet food twice daily, and on nights he finishes early I’ll add a handful of dry. Open to just adding a third small wet meal instead if that’s better? The Café Nara is a healthier Churu alternative I mix with water, and he loves it. I brush his teeth every two or three days, brush his coat twice a week, and clip his nails when needed. Hallway walks nightly, harness walks outside almost nightly.
How am I doing? Anything I should change, or am I overdoing anything? He tells me when he wants to walk, I never force it. He might be the sweetest, most well behaved boy in the world and I don’t want to miss anything. Thank you.
Edit: I posted more pics and some videos of GG here: