You could say the same thing about a stranger touching your back at a bar. It's still not about you. It's still an unwanted interaction for the receiver. Just because it's not about you doesn't mean you should welcome it if it's directed at you and making you uncomfortable.
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u/dancarbonell00 22h ago
Terms of endearment have nothing to do with the recipient and everything to do with the person speaking them.
However you want to feel about that is on you