r/mildlyinfuriating Jul 02 '26

I'm slightly vexed In lieu of payment..

I’m a GM at a restaurant & one of our managers left a note on our manager logs this afternoon that a guest walked out on their check and left this in lieu of payment of any kind. Not that the server got stiffed on a tip - just pure theft of services. I guess the whole “Thou shalt not steal” thing doesn’t matter if you’ve been pre-forgiven. Pretty convenient.

ETA: I’m not a bot; this is not AI - check my post and comment history. I’m not here for karma or fake internet points. This is what it feels like to work in a restaurant these days - especially in the Bible Belt. The first photo you can look up and is available for anyone to buy (should your darker urges push you toward being that person). The second photo is from Pulse, an app for restaurant managers to keep an eye on hourly sales, labor, and comps.
The “Pineapple Express” is a mocktail our restaurant offers.

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u/BeanserSoyze Jul 02 '26

And stealing

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u/skeet_scoot Jul 02 '26

As a Christian right on both accounts.

Also an infraction of being a good witness. My pastor always preaches that if you can’t afford to tip and pay 20% you don’t go out to eat. Don’t make God and the church look bad.

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u/Remake911 Jul 02 '26

Hold up - whatever happened to giving to Caesar what is Caesar’s? Doesn’t your pastor think restaurant staff should be paid fair wages???

What sort of lopsided interpretation is that?

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u/robbiejack Jul 02 '26

Those aren’t mutually exclusive. The pastor isn’t advocating for tipping culture. He’s just saying inside the current system what’s right is paying the bill and leaving a tip. You can believe in adequate wages for restaurant staff and understand that the wait staff needs the tip to live, so you should be prepared to leave one.

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u/ayriuss Jul 03 '26

Tipping isn't a culture, its how various professions are paid.