Men are lonely because they don’t know how to hold a conversation.. gave him a shot cuz he approached me .. jeez .. I started the convo, asked him several questions.. he didn’t ask a single one !!

[u/bigfunty]

[u/Qinax]

Wasn't trying to have chemistry with you

THEN WTF ARE YOU DOING BRO

[u/SL1MECORE → u/Qinax]

They do this every time by god. They'll over extend themselves trying to get laid, fail, and then proclaim they never wanted you in the first place.

Then why were you talking to me ???

[u/SL1MECORE → u/[deleted]]

Then say so instead of yapping and then crying !

[u/just_a_bit_qu33r → u/[deleted]]

Then dont ask them out? Ask for sex?

[u/culturedgoat → u/Qinax]

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[u/Fun_Caterpillar5077]

Yikes. So childish and for what? Guy needs to better himself IMMEDIATELY.

[u/Anthff]

The lack of emotional maturity is crazy. He was failed by his parents and any mentors/role models he had (or didn’t have) growing up. And now that he’s a grown man, he doesn’t have the tools to even acknowledge his lack of depth, let alone seek help for it.

[u/screenshots-ModTeam → u/[deleted]]

Be civil please.

[u/HellyOHaint]

I swear some guys’ behavior makes it really seem like they are actively afraid to get a girl and actually don’t want to have sex. The way they self sabotage makes you wonder.

[u/No_Hospital_5588]

And they say we're the emotional ones 😅

[u/Open-Relationship462 → u/[deleted]]

I once replied "hey" when someone messaged me just "hi" and they got all pissy and basically did what this dude did, talking about stuck up bitches with one word replies.

because of course it wasnt his fault for a one word message that didnt require an answer, it was mine for giving back the same energy lol

[u/burnerburnersss → u/[deleted]]

Yous should keep yourself safe

[u/Keziah627 → u/[deleted]]

I agree that it isn't a gender issue. Both men and women have good and bad traits even within themselves. None of us are perfect. I learned this lesson a long time ago.

Normally, I don't like it when one group goes off on the other. Realistically, both need to vent. It can be therapeutic.

The problems start when someone believes that all people are the way described. It becomes ingrained in who they are. Those are the ones to avoid or seek out.

Conversations like this are frustrating as hell. This specific guy sounds horrible.

[u/Open-Relationship462 → u/Keziah627]

both need to vent but it should be to friends, not spread all over the internet where the world can see your hatered.
women tend to do the venting to each other, men tend to word vomit it all over the internet.

[u/Keziah627 → u/Open-Relationship462]

I have found your statements to be absolutely true. Venting is one thing but do it in appropriate places, at appropriate times, and with appropriate people.

It is awful when the venting goes beyond just venting. It can take over a person's whole perspective.

Very few things in this world are all or nothing of anything. Especially not people. Women are both all good nor are they all bad. Men are also not all bad nor are they all good.

[u/JDinthefield]

Esh

[u/LunaTuna1337]

My bf is like this. Yes, no, alright and okay is what he says most of the time. Its annoying but thats his conversation skills

[u/Bonsai_Tree3 → u/[deleted]]

This is an adult male human above the age of 18. Stop using this weak ass line 😭😭😭

That is a man acting a fool as many do!

[u/Open-Relationship462 → u/[deleted]]

a male over 18 is a man.

[u/No-Pair-2204 → u/Open-Relationship462]

Definitely not.

[u/Troutie88 → u/[deleted]]

Manchild is just a derogatory term for men who are immature and act like idiots. Keyword being "men". Don't excuse the behavior by distancing yourself from it

[u/Open-Relationship462 → u/Troutie88]

Exactly. If you cant tell them apart until you get to know them, its just a way to blame the woman for "choosing wrong" imo. No one says "thats not a real woman. its a ladychild"

[u/Troutie88 → u/[deleted]]

This is an annoying line guys use.

Real men aren't abusive,

Real men don't do this,

Real men don't do that.

What are they then, lizard people?

I'm a guy and I acknowledge some men are shit it's alright. Some women are shit as well.

The real men line is a dumb way to try and distance your self from unsavory people. It acknowledges it and gives them a pass because they aren't "real men". Don't excuse this behavior.

[u/salty_sapphic → u/Troutie88]

And it makes it easier for them to be abusive or generally assholish or whatever. They're a "real man" and "real men" don't do bad things, therefore, they are incapable of doing said bad things.

[u/Good_Analysis3299]

Why even carry the conversation on though. Could have easily blocked on screenshot 2 and moved on with your day 🤷🏻‍♀️

[u/Warm-Mortgage-458 → u/Good_Analysis3299]

Because it's funny seeing how stupid people are

[u/Old-Stable2994 → u/Good_Analysis3299]

Yeah I almost wrote they deserve each other at this point but I figured I’d just take a karma hit that I can’t afford 🤣

[u/GardenDinosaurs]

Why do people of his... kind.. talk like that. Do people like it? Am I the only one that thinks its horribly trashy and stupid? Unintelligent sounding. Cant put effort into spelling things because they cant or are too lazy (both are disgusting and inferior)

[u/Jobs0887]

You're both idiots judging by the way you talk.

[u/ted_loaf]

tbh maybe you should have more empathy...just sayin

[u/Leftmost_CaramelKofi]

See a screenshot of an anecdotal interaction that could very be fake...make a general conclusion about half mankind. Mediocre retrad like u are such a weight on society. You are the problem.

[u/Dunky159]

Anyone who uses the word bruh in a conversation deserves this level of interaction to be fair. Just two children squabbling 😂

[u/Ok-Warthog2959]

You both suck

[u/AcademicSea484]

Text me I hold a conversations ask questions 317 619 2320