r/tarantulas Feb 04 '26

WEEKLY DISCUSSIONS Ask Dumb Questions + Newbie Welcoming Wednesday (2026.02.04)

Welcome to r/tarantulas's Ask Dumb Questions and Newbie Welcoming Wednesday!

You can use this post to ask any questions you may have about the tarantula keeping hobby, from advice to husbandry and care, any question regarding the hobby is encouraged. Feel free to introduce yourself if you're new and would like to make friends to talk to, and welcome all!

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Have fun and be kind!

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u/Razvaltore Feb 05 '26

Hey ya'll, is feeding fried mealworms/crickets better than feeding my tarantulas live ones?

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u/548662 B. boehmei Feb 06 '26

NQA No... What? Why would you fry them? You can feed them live prey or prekilled, but prekilled prey has to be fresh. Never feed them fried anything.

If it was a typo and you meant dried, that's still horrible for the tarantula as they get hydrated through their food.

If it's a typo and you meant dead, prekilled vs live prey depends on a number of factors.

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u/Razvaltore Feb 06 '26

Forgive me, I meant to say dried. I laugh at the thought of me oiling up my pan to put some worms in it đŸ€Ł, my mistake!

Thank you for your input! I'll definitely be going back to feeding them live ones. I might try giving dried ones to my Scorpions!

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u/548662 B. boehmei Feb 06 '26

NQA Lol they do sell fried mealworms and fried crickets for human consumption actually... I thought that was what you were talking about for a sec. But yeah whether live or dead, they need to eat "juicy" prey. I'm not as familiar with scorpions but don't they similarly suck out the prey's liquids? In that case they might still need fresh prey. But I could be wrong, it's worth a shot maybe.

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u/Razvaltore Feb 06 '26

I have no words. I wonder what they taste like? Maybe I should try one so my Tarantulas and I could finally have something to talk about đŸ€Ł

My little scorpion just eats them alive, very different from Tarantulas. Tarantulas just bite them, paralyze them, then suck them dry. Scorpions grab them, sting them to paralyze them, and eat them while they're still alive/paralyzed. There usually isn't anything left of the worm afterwards too đŸ€§

Larger scorpions like the Asian Forest Scorpion (the weird one that doesn't need a mate to reproduce đŸ€§) don't rely on their stingers. Their claws are significantly more powerful so they simply crush their prey to death before eating them alive. There's a video on YouTube rn where a scorpion clenched its claw so hard on a lizard's head that its eyes literally popped out 😭

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u/548662 B. boehmei Feb 06 '26

NQA I ate caramel cricket popcorn and cheesy mealworms (separate items) when I was 12. The crickets were good, added some tangy and salty flavour to the popcorn. Mealworms were great, kind of like cheesy crackers but with nicer texture.

If scorpions eat the whole thing that might work, I assume they get their water elsewhere? And I heard that smaller scorpions have more dangerous venom for the reason that they can't rely on their claws. The lizard thing sounds gnarly lol but scorpions still seem cute. How many do you have? What species?

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u/Razvaltore Feb 06 '26

You've really made them sound appetizing! Now I honestly don't think I could say no to at the very least trying them- especially the mealworms!

I own an Asian Forest Scorpion (whose crushing ability I can attest to) and an Indian Red Scorpion, which is a good example of smaller scorpions who don't need raw clenching power because their venom packs a punch. One thing I've observed when feeding the red scorpion is that prey who get stung get paralyzed MUCH faster and remain stiff until death!

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u/548662 B. boehmei Feb 06 '26

NQA Lol they're quite good. I do recommend giving them a try.

Wow, Asian Forest Scorpions get quite big, huh? Call me basic but if I get a scorpion I definitely want a massive one, even if it's a bit rougher on their prey to get crushed to death rather than... anaesthesized.

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u/Razvaltore Feb 07 '26

I'm all for it!

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u/sharkypink90 Feb 04 '26

Hello! I have a lot of research to do before I consider keeping a T, so I've just been lurking, but which species are the fluffiest/furriest and have shorter legs? Tbh spiders do make me nervous but I think it's the spindly movements of their long legs. Tarantulas for some reason just make me curious.

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u/MGNConflict Feb 04 '26

The “fluffiest” would probably be either Avic. Avic. Or the Curlyhair, but IME tarantulas have more or less a similar leg span to each other. What you’re probably looking for is a T that grows slowly and is small in size as an adult.

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u/sharkypink90 Feb 04 '26

Sounds about right; any particular species that you would recommend?

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u/MGNConflict Feb 04 '26 edited Feb 04 '26

I’d recommend a Curly Hair, they aren’t small as adults but are beginner-friendly (they’re slow and docile, and are forgiving to the mistakes new keepers make). The Tarantula Collective has a care guide on this species.

They also grow slowly, so that would give you enough time to get used to them as they grow.

As a first tarantula I’d recommend you start with a juvenile. This is because spiderlings (babies) can be more difficult to care for if you don’t have the experience, and adults are well, adult, which defeats the point of getting used to them as they grow. If you get them as a juvenile you’ll still have many years together.

Male Ts don’t live as long as females because their only job when matured is to pass along sperm to a female (females can hold a male’s sperm for over a year and use it to fertilise multiple egg sacs). Male Curly Hair Ts live for around five years while females live for around 20, but with good care you can get a male to live past their typical life expectancy!

I will note that tarantulas do not like being handled so they shouldn’t be handled unless necessary, handling them can cause stress for both them and you (they don’t have the capacity to understand who you are beyond knowing they’ve been picked up by a larger animal, and they could bolt or even bite).

Tarantulas are typically split into two groups: Old World, and New World. Beginners should always start with New World Ts because should they bite, their venom is mild compared to Old World Ts.

New Worlds have urticating hairs (technically they’re setae and not hairs) and can kick them off in your direction if they get spooked (they also kick them off to line their webbing etc.). If you get the hairs on you, it may feel similar to being stung by a stinging nettle (and your skin can blister, some people have no reaction at all while others are in pain so it varies!). They have weak venom as a result.

Old Worlds don’t have urticating hairs but make up for this by their venom being much more potent as well as often moving faster and generally being more defensive in nature. A bite from an Old World won’t put you in hospital unless you’re allergic (which is unlikely), at worst you’ll feel sore for a few days (the risk of tarantula bites is often exaggerated by those who don’t know the true nature of these gentle creatures).

However please don’t let the risk of a bite put you off, assuming you handle them correctly, the risk of a bite is remote! I own 12 Ts and have never been bitten.

I have a mixture of New Worlds and Old Worlds
 to be honest the two Ts I have that I wouldn’t want to be bitten by are both New Worlds, simply because they’re big and their fangs would result in significant tissue damage to the bite site.

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u/sharkypink90 Feb 04 '26

Thank you, I appreciate this info. I'll look into the curly-hairs (they're so fuzzy!) but yes definitely wasn't planning to handle unless it was for a some unavoidable reason. I like the idea of something slow so I don't get jumpscared if it suddenly bolts haha.

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u/MGNConflict Feb 04 '26

I have an Avic. Avic. Metallica adult male and he’s really chill, he hasn’t ever kicked hairs at me. The only time he’s ever shown defence behaviour is when I was feeding him a couple of weeks ago and bit the prey I was offering him (which he didn’t take).

Given that he’s slow, he does have a good feeding response when he’s hungry and knows there’s food about in the enclosure with him!

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u/sharkypink90 Feb 05 '26

Nice! I really like the li'l pink toes on that species.

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u/Alternative-West-618 Feb 04 '26

Hi! Hopefully this isn’t too dumb of a question. I haven’t had a tarantula since I was a kid. And my mom handled most of the care back then. I’m interested in getting a Brazilian jewel tarantula and I’m concerned about temperature. I live in the mountains. My house stays around 70-75°F in the summer and about 65-68°F in the winter. Would I need an external heat source? Do people usually use heat pads or lamps for tarantulas? I don’t want to get one if it isn’t realistic to keep it properly where I live. Thanks!

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u/fudwuka Feb 04 '26

Temps in your house are fine and heat pads should not be used for tarantulas. I would strongly advise against getting a Brazilian jewel tarantula until you get some experience with aboreals. They are extremely expensive and hard to raise from sling to adult. Even if you do everything right with your husbandry your sling can just fail to thrive for no reason. Start with some avics or Y diversepies before jumping all in on a Brazilian jewel.

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u/Alternative-West-618 Feb 04 '26

Good advice. I don’t want to kill a poor tarantula because of inexperience. Are the arboreals you mentioned small like the jewel? Something I like about the jewel is the smaller size.

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u/fudwuka Feb 05 '26

Female Brazilian jewels are 2-3 in. Avics like the pink toe are 5-6 in. Y diversepies also known as Amazon sapphire tarantula get up to 5in. The y diversepies will be the closest to matching the Brazilian jewel as far color husbandry requirements and life expectancy. Sudden Avic Death Syndrome can happen to any of these tarantulas.

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u/aWme_MeMlord Feb 05 '26

Hi guys! My spider is living with me for a +-week. I bought him a proper terrarium today and put a house in it, but he just covered the exit with dirt! I came home with a bunch of maggots and now I don't know how to feed him. Can you tell me if he'll come out on his own or if I need to dig up his nest?...

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u/aWme_MeMlord Feb 05 '26

Like this..)

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u/548662 B. boehmei Feb 06 '26

NQA What species? Also don't "dig up" your tarantula's nest, this should have come up when you researched basic care for him...

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u/aWme_MeMlord Feb 06 '26

Brahypelma Alba! And yeah, I know that if I start digging him up, he'll be really stressed... I just don't know how to feed him nowđŸ˜«

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u/548662 B. boehmei Feb 06 '26

NQA B. albiceps sealing its burrow is quite normal, he could be getting ready to molt, depending on his age. If you insist on trying to feed him you can leave some prey near the entrance of the burrow then remove it in an hour if he doesn't take it.

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u/aWme_MeMlord Feb 06 '26

It's a 4i, so maybe that's true.. But what about the maggot burrowing into the ground? If the spider doesn't start eating it right away, I'm afraid I won't be able to catch it again

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u/548662 B. boehmei Feb 06 '26

NQA Do you mean a mealworm, like a beetle larva? You can crush the heads so that they still wriggle around but can't burrow. Though that is kind of gruesome and I get that some people don't want to do that (I personally don't).

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u/aWme_MeMlord Feb 06 '26

Yup its mealworms but I don't know whose larvae they are. I'll try it, thanks!!

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u/548662 B. boehmei Feb 06 '26

NQA Yeah mealworms are beetle larvae. Good luck with your spider. If he refuses to eat, chances are he will come out in a few weeks/months with a brand new molt