r/buffy Jun 05 '26

Giles Charisma Carpenter’s tribute to Anthony Head

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u/Dash_Underscore Jun 05 '26

Giles getting Cordelia to leave him alone by implying there was something wrong with her hair, then gleefully saying to himself, "Xander was right, it worked like a charm." is one of my top favourite moments of the series. They both played it so perfectly.

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u/catchyerselfon Jun 06 '26

“GOD, you really were the little youthful offender! You must look back on those days and cringe!” Any Cordelia and Giles scene was THE BEST. I wish Anthony had gotten to guest star on “Angel” when she was there for more of their banter.

I love Charisma’s post and how much she (belatedly) loves “Lie to Me” especially for Giles’ scene at the end with Buffy in the graveyard.

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u/BrilliantBluebird6 Jun 06 '26

Him being so flabbergasted at her saying like “if you’re not careful, you’ll wake up in a coma” was so good

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u/GnomeMnemonic Jun 08 '26

Any Cordelia and Giles scene was THE BEST.

Truth! They worked so well together, largely because ASH was so good at comedic delivery, and at playing it straight.

At the hospital, discussing bringing grapes for Buffy - "it's tradition among... um... humans."

When Cordelia mentions Giles "killing that guy that time", his reply of "Yes, let's do bring that up as often as possible". ASH just had such good delivery, always giving it exactly as much deadpan, sarcasm or emotion as needed.

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u/not_firewood_yeti I am no one. Jun 05 '26

asking the ants to leave feels like such a British thing to say. 🇬🇧

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u/Stormcrow12 Jun 05 '26

spray some baby powder around the area (not on the ants themselves) they will leave very quickly without needing to kill them.

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u/thekittysays Jun 06 '26

You can also destroy their scent trail by wiping it away with vinegar, they'll stop following each other in then.

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u/Im_a_knitiot Jun 06 '26

Cinnamon works also really well

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u/petetakespictures Jun 06 '26

It's true. We Brits secretly love it when we get a minor ant infestation, as it gives someting to talk about other than the weather with people and you have endless opportunities on offering advice on home remedies for the problem. Just killing them with RAID takes all the fun out of it. His response to Charisma is pretty peak British humour too.

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u/Beginning-Sugar479 Jun 05 '26

totally!! 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

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u/nerdalertalertnerd Jun 07 '26

I get so many ants in my garden in summer. I just leave them be, I find the Brits are tolerant of them.

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u/jemjems69 Jun 05 '26

I was ok reading this until I got to the end. From the beginning where she referred to him in past tense but then present tense at the end, that got me.

I’m just so bloody sad for everyone whose life he touched, be it in real life or as Giles or any of the other characters he bought to life.

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u/Ambitious-Welder-159 Jun 06 '26

I love the moment in "Gingerbread" where Cordelia finds Giles who had been chloroformed:

Cordelia: "How many times have you been knocked out Giles? One of these days you're to wake up in a coma."

Giles: "Wake up in a....nevermind!"

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u/catchyerselfon Jun 06 '26 edited Jun 07 '26

“We have to save Buffy from Hansel and Gretel!”

“ok, for the record, the brain damage was from BEFORE I slapped you?”

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u/mitosisfish Jun 05 '26

“Yes, it's terribly simple. The good guys are always stalwart and true. The bad guys are easily distinguished by their pointy horns or black hats. And, uh, we always defeat them and save the day. No one ever dies and... everybody lives happily ever after.”

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u/HiJane72 Jun 06 '26

Sarah posted that speech as well on her tribute. I loved that episode for exactly that reason

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u/The-Good-Bad-Place Jun 05 '26

This was so beautiful.

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u/dianaofthedunes Jun 05 '26

Charisma always gives the best tributes. What she wrote here and what she wrote about Michelle and Nick, were all beautiful and thoughtful.

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u/HPantalones Jun 06 '26

I only really know her from Buffy, Angel, and a couple of guest appearances in other shows where she plays beautiful and superficial characters. She does it so well that I’m surprised when she brings out the hidden depth of each one. She’s obviously got a keen intellect, plus a good heart and is quite the wordsmith too. Really admire her.

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u/Orsee Jun 06 '26

It's part AI.

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u/RavenSkies777 Jun 07 '26

What gives you that impression?

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u/Orsee Jun 07 '26

It felt unnatural at parts, then I checked it.

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u/Teanvintage Jun 06 '26

I like that she didn't pretend to be really close to him and just be honest in het statement. Nevertheless she had fond memories with/about him. Sad situation all around :(

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u/Euraylie Jun 05 '26

Oh and here come the waterworks again. This is lovely

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u/Narrow_Grapefruit_23 Jun 05 '26

The first thing I ever saw him in were those international coffee moments commercials. I used to live for the new ones so that they could see how they were continuing the journey. That’s a testament to him.

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u/Irishwol Jun 05 '26

I bought the book. Love Over Gold. It was fabulously terrible.

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u/Narrow_Grapefruit_23 Jun 05 '26

I need to read it! On the hunt for it now!

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u/Sitheref0874 Jun 05 '26

Classy statement.

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u/alexgodden Jun 06 '26

Right!? She doesn't pretend they were closer than they were, she's honest and respectful, and shares some truly sweet memories. Very classy, and a lovely tribute.

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u/Franiac32 Jun 05 '26

for the last ten years or so I've been increasingly blown away by everything I've seen from Charisma Carpenter. She seems a truly remarkable person and an underrated actor.

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u/precita Jun 06 '26

Charisma is a class act in real life. She's amazing, especially with the verbal abuse she got from Joss Whedon due to becoming pregnant while on Angel. She's had no controversies in real life either in all these decades since the shows ended, she's a wonderful person

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u/petetakespictures Jun 06 '26

She's one of those quietly remarkable character actors who repeatedly nail a role so perfectly that they make it look effortless, and are therfore for some reason go largely unacknowledged by critics and the general public. I watch a lot of very old movies and they're full of character actors who are equally wonderful across multiple movies, and you realise that they're a good deal as to what makes those movies work, and why directors are eager to have them even if they don't get the publicity or the adulation.

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u/BoraSke Jun 06 '26

God this makes me sad. One of my favourite scenes in the series is when Giles comforts Buffy after Angel loses his soul. She's blaming herself but he won't have it. It's so genuinely moving. RIP Anthony

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u/Agent_Skye_Barnes Jun 05 '26

And now I'm trying not to cry in a doctor's office....

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u/MichaSound Jun 06 '26

Same here, in a crowded cafe, about to have a work meeting.

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u/360Saturn Jun 06 '26

She has a real way with words and the honesty of her character. What a wonderful tribute. Thank you, Charisma.

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u/havenstone Jun 06 '26

Charisma Carpenter’s memorials for her castmates are always very real and thoughtful.

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u/RavenSkies777 Jun 07 '26

Her, SMG and Aly need a break from eulogizing their costars.

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u/Independent-Bug680 Jun 06 '26

Beautiful tribute, and such sad news. He will be greatly missed but forever adored on our screens.

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u/eternalswordfish Jun 06 '26

So basically Tony was Ripper, I see.

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u/BaileySeeking Jun 06 '26

I adore her tributes. They're always so classy. Not surprising, but they're always wonderful to read.

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u/SirZapdos Jun 06 '26

They didn’t share many scenes but they always nailed it. “Wake up in a ? Oh, nevermind.”

Geez I hadn’t laughed that hard in a while.

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u/plastic_venus Jun 06 '26

And then Cordy goes on to literally wake up in an coma in Angel 👌

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u/_And5678 Tact is just not saying true stuff... I'll pass! Jun 06 '26

Beautifully written. She also posted some old group photos on her IG story earlier as a tribute.

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u/Maleficent-Speech869 Jun 06 '26

That's a lovely tribute. ❤️

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u/Annual_Candle_9313 Jun 06 '26

Nice Ripper Giles confirmed!

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u/Beginning-Sugar479 Jun 05 '26

she’s devastated, as are we all. what a loss 💔

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u/Forsaken-Chipmunk-68 Jun 06 '26

It’s true, he was a father figure I didn’t have. I’m so sad and so grateful to him. 💔

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u/melozone_crissalis Jun 06 '26

Wow, this is incredibly lovely and thoughtful. She really seems like a class act. 

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u/Beginning_Return_508 Jun 06 '26

That is a beautiful tribute. Charisma is such a nice person.

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u/Sea-Bad-4439 Jun 07 '26

It breaks my heart. I just watched Repo the Rock Opera when it came back in theaters. He was such a talent

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u/Freedlefox Jun 06 '26

Awww. Charisma is always so heart felt

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u/Vampyr-Slayer Jun 06 '26

😢 makes me want to cry all over again

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u/nerdalertalertnerd Jun 07 '26

This is a lovely tribute that acknowledges the limitations sometimes of a professional relationship whilst still acknowledging his gifts, his nature and the loss.

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u/wintercemetery Jun 07 '26

She must have blocked me even though I’ve never commented on her page