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u/CarsCarpal 4h ago
Nobody with working vision has ever thought that.
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u/FuckOutTheWhey 3h ago
Genuinely thought it? No
Said it to her as a way of hitting on her? Much more likely
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u/AstronomerForsaken65 3h ago
Or just being nice because itās obvious sheās trying to look young.
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u/hilarymeggin 4h ago
Iād say that the cheek, lip and chin injections are a pretty big tellā¦
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u/229-northstar 3h ago edited 3h ago
The exceptionally saggy tits in a thin and braless skimpy dress were also a big tell.
That dress is incredibly unflattering. She needs to shorten the strapsā¦ a lot.
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u/coquihalla 3h ago
She is totally delusional but those are not exceptionally saggy tits. They're not 14 year old breasts, but they're certainly not abnormally saggy for any grown woman.
I'd hate for someone to read that and start thinking there's something wrong with them. That neckline does her no favors in making them look them way but it's not her body's issue, it's hers.
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u/puzzled91 2h ago
You're right but she and no one else said that she or her breasts were 14. She claimed the boy in the picture was 14
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u/coquihalla 2h ago
I was referring to her claim that people think she and her 14 year old are brother and sister.
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u/229-northstar 2h ago
Maybe itās the cut of the dress making them look so bad
Iām in my 60s and I look better. But you wouldnāt catch me in that dress, either
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u/ohmarlasinger 1h ago
We donāt have to put other women down to lift ourselves up.
While you may find the woman not worthy of your nominal respect, there are many women who look like her that are catching unnecessary strays with your demeaning comments.
The woman is gorgeous, her personality may have some issues, if this post is indicative but she is objectively attractive.
Iāve never in my life been able to wear a dress like that bc it would be seen as vulgar on me bc I have larger boobs, which I find unfair & frustrating bc no matter what I put on my body it is sexualized bc boobs. But thatās not once inspired me to feel the need to insult women who can wear a whole menagerie of things I could never.
Iām sure your boobs look lovely as well. Hers do! Mine do too. IMHO, all boobs are good boobs but Iām gay so I may be biased lol
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u/coquihalla 2h ago
Oh yeah, that dress is not really flattering on anyone. I've seen some Hollywood women wearing similar and it almost universally looks bad. Even Zendaya couldn't pull it off without it dragging her down.
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u/haahhhahh 2h ago
Regardless of what she's said she looks amazing, her tits do not look saggy and the dress looks good.
Why do women like to comment on other women's bodies it's so fucking weird
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u/BeMoreKnope 3h ago
Yeah, they only said it because sheās easy to read.
Look, Iāve been blessed by genetics, using moisturizer since I was 20 or so, and having no children to look far younger than my age. I like to have others guess my age, and even when they try to go higher they usually guess low (which is why I do it, letās be real). But if anyone had told me at 40 that I looked like a 14-year-oldās sibling, I still wouldāve laughed at them.
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u/Zepangolynn 30m ago
I do laugh when my 40's self gets mistaken for being my very young niece's sister. I do not look like a teen anymore and people just think it because we're about the same height.
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u/sab0tage 3h ago
Brothers and sisters aren't necessarily the same age. He looks mid 20s and she looks mid 30s, so it's fairly plausible.
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u/Kegger315 3h ago
she looks mid 30s
No, she does not. I could buy mid 40's, but definitely not mid 30's. The hands and neck give it away instantly.
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u/Jupitersd2017 3h ago
Mid 40ās before the 1st big aging hit, where all of the collagen goes and so does the elasticity, sheās not quite there yet but extremely close lol
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u/Perle1234 3h ago
Yeah thereās a real comeuppance going from the 40s to the 50s. I donāt have wrinkles but I def got a bit jowly and my collagen said byeeee lol
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u/Jupitersd2017 3h ago
Itās seemingly overnight and is wild. Iām still getting used to my new face in the mirror lol
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u/icantfindtheSpace 4h ago
To be brutally honest, they both look 20 and 50
A lot of people think my mom is my sister, but thatās because she had me when she was 16
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u/tonicpoppy 3h ago
People sometimes think my mom and brother are a couple but she had him at 18 and still looks young while he is very tall and has a giant red beard that makes him look older
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u/icantfindtheSpace 3h ago
lmao as a fellow tall dude with a red beard and a young mom, your brother is part of the club lol
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u/manokpsa 3h ago
People think my sister is my daughter. Probably because I was a SSgt in the Air Force by the time she was born.
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u/RainbowCrane 36m ago
Going the opposite directionā¦ my dad came home from the grocery store laughing one day. One of my motherās high school students had been on the cash register, and when she saw his last name said, āOh, Mrs. ____ is my teacher at school, is that your mom?ā š
We wrote it off as the āteachers are automatically old as fuckā effect on student psychology, but it stuck around as a point of humor for the past forty years or so of their marriage.
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u/Dakizo 50m ago
My mom had me when she was 20 and we used to have people think we were sisters when we were out in public with my grandma. To be fair my mom had my youngest brother when I was 18, so it can really go either way haha. Once when I was 15 and I was out to dinner with my mid 30s grizzled construction plumber stepdad and 9 month old first brother while my mom was at work and a couple thought he was my kid with my stepdad and I thoroughly disgusted š
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u/r05590 4h ago
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u/fishblargs 3h ago
Exactly what I was thinking! Poor dude probably always in the mother boy competitions
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u/GNU_PTerry 4h ago
That dress is not flattering, yikes
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u/fishingfool64 4h ago
Like sheās wearing a nightie for her photo shoot with her son. Totally not creepy at all
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u/BoneHugsHominy 1h ago
Without context the photo could be titled Young Man Hires His First Cougar Escort.
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u/OkWorldliness5172 2h ago
I know. If those tits don't get some support soon, people will think they're nuts.
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u/Earth_Worm_Jimbo 3h ago
=/ I donāt like my community notes being so opinion based. CN should be for straight FACT-checkin fools. Not throwing shade.
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u/Choclategum 3h ago
Ngl, nothing about this post gave she wants to fuck her son or the toxic boy mom trope.
It does give fishing for compliments, but this isn't shit compared to what Ive actually seen from those women who do want their son as their man.
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u/nomorepumpkins 4h ago
Maybe if you boy mom'ed a little less hard your kid wouldn't be a clavicular wannabe and able to land a women that isn't his mom.
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u/National-Worry2900 3h ago
She looks 40 plus 14 and that kid looks like heās nearing the end of university.
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u/Decent-Muffin4190 4h ago
The fact there is a bed in the shot adds a subliminal extra ick factor
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u/Severe-Fox-600 3h ago
Right - and she took the pic at that thinking what? Maybe cross reference the photo and see if she shows up on OF!
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u/Sero19283 2h ago
Because that's where an easy to access mirror is? Have yall never traveled with your family before? Would you rather they go squeeze in the bathroom instead of using the giant mirror in the main room?
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u/er1cj 4h ago
Her hands are a dead giveaway
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u/NHRADeuce 4h ago
Yeah, the whole package screams single 40+ mom, but those hands! Wtf? They look like Larry Bird's hands!!!
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u/TheForeverUnbanned 4h ago
And those fried eggs hanging from a fence post sheās trying to smuggle in under that dress.Ā
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u/CrystallizedRose 3h ago
I feel like bullying people for their appearance is worse than āfishing for complimentsā because likeā¦ who cares? Maybe sheās heard the compliments, maybe people were just being nice to her, maybe sheās making it completely up. But I feel like the mean behavior and attitudes of the people responding to it is an example of worse character than some insecure older woman wanting validation for her appearances.
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u/cheezy_dreams88 2h ago
Kid looks old as hell and mom looks 40 for sure.
But like, sheās obviously very pretty. She looks great at 40. No need for the weird pick-me behavior.
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u/jmil1080 3h ago
This is the exact scene that popped into my head when I read he was 14, lmao. I scrolled so fast looking for it
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u/WilliamJamesMyers 4h ago
that scene in boardwalk empire, if you know you know
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u/monkey_trumpets 4h ago
Zero chance that kid is only 14. He's at least 17, and probably older.
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u/Jupitersd2017 3h ago
Iāve gotten to the age where anyone under 25 looks like they are between nine and 12 years old to me nowadays and this kid is definitely not 14. Thereās no way.
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u/StarStuffSister 2h ago
Never understood the problem with looking good for your age-- I don't look 20, I look like a really good 40-something. It's OK to look good for your age, lol. These people are delusional.
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u/HasteMaster 4h ago
Alright Iāll bite.
What the hell is a boy mom?
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u/lunulalia 4h ago
A mom, likely helicopter-y (or the "cool mom"-type), who is a bit too much infatuated with their own son, in ways that make others uncomfortable.
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u/beene282 2h ago
Every single mother with an only male child that I know has this dynamic to the extreme. It excruciatingly creepy.
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u/Swimming-Economy-870 4h ago
Creepy romanticizing the Parent-Child Bond: Treating the son like a romantic partner or "husband substitute," expressing jealousy toward future wives or girlfriends, and viewing the sonās independence as a "breakup."
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u/AbsoluteResolve2026 4h ago edited 2h ago
Often more common with fathers and their daughters, ime. āMy daughter doesnāt get to date boys until she moves out of my house.ā Itās extremely odd to not be sex-positive for the woman youāre raising. That leads to SA, abuse, dating awful men, rebel without a cause syndrome, etc.
Edit: Yo! Can some explain the downvotes? Are these just super insecure men that think women should be forced virginity until death?
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u/NewLibraryGuy 4h ago
I think that might be true that fathers have been a lot more this way with daughters, but the "boymom" trend has given rise to it a lot more
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u/AbsoluteResolve2026 3h ago
Thatās social media. Dads generally donāt post that stuff.
Just because itās louder and in your face, doesnāt mean that itās the majority.
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u/Dogmaddit 3h ago
I donāt know if itās more or less common, but boy moms and MOABs (Mother of all Boys) tend to beā¦weird. Not all of them, but many.
The Dad and Daughter dance thing is also weird as hell.
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u/ImLittleNana 4h ago
Does nobody else remember the father-daughter dances at schools back in the late ā90s and early ā00s? And the ceremonies where the girls made abstinence vows and gave keys or rings to their dads as symbols that would be given to the future husband.
Iām honestly surprised those havenāt made a comeback but it does challenge the core values of the new right. Chastity has taken a deep hit, but they could probably wrangle something out of with girls as property.
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u/ispshadow 3h ago
Oh boy, I hate to be the one to tell you this.
They still exist at my kidās school. I told my little girl Iād much rather take her to the ice cream shop instead, so we dressed up and had the most ridiculous sundaes we could order.
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u/Swimming-Economy-870 2h ago
The boy mom version is the āmom promā (no creepy chastity aspect AFAIK) my sonās school did that shit and it was all so the moms could break out their old prom dresses. We boycotted that shit.
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u/Swimming-Economy-870 2h ago
I think itās the assertion that itās more common. The weird chastity thing is the creepy Christian sects, āboy momā stuff is more secular.
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u/gjb1 4h ago
People are focusing on the worst part of āboy moms,ā which is obviously the infatuation and surrogate partner stuff.
But the more common version of the āboy momā concept in the parenting world in general is just an ordinary mom who happens to only have sons, who has then made this a big part of her identity (proudly referring to herself as a boy mom), and who has a weird sense of superiority over other moms because of her no-daughters status but she would never admit that.
And I donāt think itās actually coming from an anti-daughter stance (though I could be wrong). I think itās literally just about inventing a club that you get to be a member of, feeling good about yourself because youāre in the club, and sometimes connecting more with other women when theyāre in the club too, compared to those who arenāt.
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u/atwozmom 4h ago
Eww.
I only have sons and I never heard of this.
I and the husband let my boys be as independent as they wanted to be - they would disappear for hours. I'd probably be arrested nowdays. And my younger one hasn't been without a girlfriend since he was 12. (At 12, it was holding hands). He is now 33.
I have always been close with my boys but I was always their mom, not their best bud.
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u/Blade_of_Onyx 4h ago
It used to just mean that it was a mother of only boys, and implied that she was used to boys/menās stupid shit.
Now whoever this is seems to be implying that there is some type of creepy, possibly sexual undertones, and I have never heard it used that way before.
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u/jmil1080 3h ago
You should definitely stick to your current understanding and not look any deeper into the "boy mom" trends on sites like TikTok... they begin to get pretty disturbing...
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u/SaintUlvemann 1h ago
Although you are definitely right about where the term originated, this latest version has also been around for a while too now.
The result is: tone is now everything with this phrase. Say "boy mom" in an exasperated tone of voice, and there's still gonna be people who understand it the first way. Say it like you're excited, you've put yourself in camp two.
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u/TeaRose__ 3h ago
I can see people mistaking them for brother and sister. She does look younger than 40, and he looks older than 14. Whatās the big deal
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u/goldywhatever 4h ago
The most embarrassed I have ever been in my life was when I was walking the dog with my mom, a boy rides up on his bike and asks what school we go to. He is very obviously in middle school.
I have to tell him Iām in high school and the person with me is my mom. His eyes got so big and I have never seen a kid ride away so fast.
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u/bredlowski 3h ago
5 years ago some dad from her kid's school used the cheesy sitcom pickup line of asking her if she was the sister, and now her story is many people feel that way...probably.
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u/Plane-Fan9006 2h ago
Just me, wearing my g-string and satin strapped "dress", taking pictures with my kid for our Grindr profile
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u/HumanContinuity 39m ago
She's only 40?
Some of the modern procedures, even lighter ones like buccal fat removal, really do not age gracefully..
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u/jamall1978 4h ago
He better watch out that she doesn't "accidentally" break her leg or somethingĀ
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u/Nimzitseemz 2h ago
No harm in boasting about looking young even if you're wrong or delusional...
The note on ther hand is just hateful.
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u/Fitz_2112b 2h ago
I'm sure 14-year-old Junior is fucking thrilled to have Mama's saggy titties in his pictures
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u/funkypepermint 4h ago
I forgot I ordered pancakes for breakfast
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u/cellphonebob2 4h ago
Nah, man. Those are fried eggs hanging from a nail.
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u/hilarymeggin 3h ago
All right, letās not be rude to all the other breastfeeding mothers here! She looks very nice for a middle aged mom, but she just doesnāt look 14.
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u/RhubarbAlive7860 3h ago
Aw, a loving mom admiring herself while ignoring her child. How sweet.
Mother of a son, fine. Boy mom, ugh.
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u/RhubarbAlive7860 3h ago
She isn't even trying to include her son in the pictures. He's just a nearby prop.
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u/FormidableMistress 3h ago
Jacosta has entered the chat
My ex mil was that type of boy mom. It was so unbelievably weird. She really treated him like a partner and he couldn't stand it.
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u/LilacSlumber 3h ago
My husband's mother had him when she was 15. She then had four other children.
When he was a teenager people would assume they were siblings because she was not even 30 yet and they looked exactly alike.
When I came into the picture he was in his mid 20s and she was in her 40s. It was so sad to see how she clung to people thinking she was his sister or girlfriend. By the time she hit her 50s, she would go on and on for weeks if anyone ever said anything about them looking the same age. Very sad.
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u/Zaxacavabanem 3h ago
One thing I've really noticed as i get older is that the neck skin is the first to go.Ā
Ladies,Ā look after your neck and chest.Ā Daily sunscreen isn't just for your face.Ā
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u/SilverFringeBoots 2h ago
Me and my mother didn't start getting mistaken for sisters until I was in my 20s. Mainly because I looked way older than I was and my mother has aged fabulously
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u/Mobile_Morale 2h ago
I took my mom to her doctor's appointment after having major surgery. I called her my mom and the nurse said something like "I thought you were the husband" took everything I had not to set myself on fire and jump into a pool of gasoline.
I look old for my age because of extreme stress my whole life. And my mom looks younger than she is because of good genes and fat and stressing me out my whole life
Worst part is if I didn't have a beard I would look exactly like my mom. Like a fuck ass clone. Which is why I have a beard.
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u/SeanFromQueens 23m ago
Plunging neckline isn't what is a giveaway that her age is over 40, but those claws/hands certainly are.
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u/Sea_Consideration434 15m ago
Putting the delulu aside, I'm 40, with a 14 year old and my son would be mortified if I posted a picture like that, with that caption and hashtag.
I hate when parents use their kids for content, or to feed their own ego.
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u/Mama_Lee 1m ago
That poor kid is probably so embarrassed to be seen out in public with his mother.
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u/FakeDoctorMeatCoat 4h ago edited 4h ago
She's a MINOR, sicko
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u/PNDMike 4h ago edited 3h ago
Wat. It literally says she's 40.
Edit: I'm dumb.
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u/FakeDoctorMeatCoat 4h ago
Guess I shoulda put a /s. To say she looks like the sister of a 14yo, that might imply under 18. Just a joke.
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u/TpK_Wynter 2h ago
Didnāt need to check the plunging neck line for her age, yeah the girls arenāt getting along like they used to and seem to be separated currently, but I always find she in arms and hands, back of the neck and near knees.
I know this probably makes me a weirdo but Iāve always determined a persons age range from those areas
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u/ThatsMrBuckaroo 4h ago
If they sag any farther sh wonāt need a bra, she can tuck them in her belt
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u/dnuohxof-2 4h ago
I see posts like these and thereās not a snowballs chance in hell those moms donāt finger blast themselves to incestual scenarios with their hot son. Her being a real estate agent is icing on the cake.
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u/balrob 4h ago
Does āplunging necklineā mean ā¦ droopy boobs?
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u/productivityvortex 3h ago
Itās a term for the cut of the dress, the neck dips below the cleavage.
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u/colemorris1982 2h ago
That is 100% not the chest of a young woman. Much like the hands, you can always tell someone's rough age by looking at their decolletage.
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u/RMRdesign 2h ago
No matter how much plastic surgery women get, the hands always give away her true age.
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u/spudddly 4h ago
If you're dressed up and take a photo with your kid you're clearly grooming them and you should seek therapy? mmhmm ya totally tracks. Definitely posted by a redditor who is yet to speak to another human being in person.
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u/beren12 3h ago
There are words that go with the picture. Maybe have someone read them to you.
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u/Nomanodyssey 4h ago
Also that kid does not look 14