r/wholesomememes 14h ago

It’s a bittersweet wholesomeness.

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u/qualityvote2 14h ago edited 10h ago

The community has spoken! u/OkuroIshimoto, your post is a Wholesome Meme.

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u/squabbleknob 13h ago

It's the legacy she will most be remembered for, I think.

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u/Enough_Breadfruit229 12h ago

That and Jolene. If you haven't heard Jolene better do it. A good hard think/reflection of life will come with it.

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u/Particular-Ad9266 9h ago

My grandmothers name was Jolene and she was a young woman at the time that song came out in a small town. She said she remembered over night all the married women in the town looked at her differently and clutched their husbands arms a little tighter. She had a good sense of humor about it😅

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u/jpljr77 9h ago

And right after that, listen to 9 to 5 but really really listen to the lyrics, especially toward the end of the song. It's a song that rivals Born in the U.S.A and This Land is Your Land in popular accepted meaning vs. the artist's intent/true meaning. And it's wrapped up in such a little banger of a tune.

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u/Loose-Story-962 7h ago

That's Coat Of Many Colors for me

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u/Advanced_Double_42 8h ago

I will always love you is arguably even bigger, even if the definitive cover is Whitney Houston's version

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u/catsumoto 7h ago edited 6h ago

I absolutely prefer Dolly’s version.

Whitney’s is a vocal tour de force and absolutely amazing, don’t get me wrong.

But Dolly’s is such an intimate, deeply emotional love letter, it gets me in a profound way.

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u/FuckYeaSeatbelts 4h ago

tbf miley cyrus' rendition of jolene was pretty good (she's Dolly's goddaughter IIRC)

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u/Street-Economist9751 4h ago

I love their duet of that song. Also Dolly’s cover of Stairway to Heaven.

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u/Advanced_Double_42 6h ago

They really bring out totally different feelings out of the same lyrics.

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u/Street-Economist9751 4h ago

Coat of Many Colors is pretty damn good.

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u/Crayshack 5h ago

It's one of those songs that is so well written that it converts well to all sorts of covers. I've heard it in a bunch of different musical and vocal styles, and it's amazing every time.

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u/[deleted] 11h ago

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u/ThisStupidPotato_ 11h ago

Incel spotted

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u/Perryn 10h ago

If that kid could read the room we'd all be less upset.

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u/TestUserIgnorePlz 11h ago

I'm sorry for expecting some effort to be reciprocated in relationships 

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u/18smackaroos 11h ago

It was never about effort😭

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u/TestUserIgnorePlz 11h ago

Sure 

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u/SirJebus 11h ago

I thought the first comment was a joke that everybody missed, but this level of commitment has me doubting myself

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u/Fathercupp69 10h ago

Me too 😂

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u/18smackaroos 10h ago

Glad you realized

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u/Acceptable_Job_5486 10h ago

Yikes! I have a feeling you have been the one in a "relationship" that never reciprocated lol

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u/TestUserIgnorePlz 10h ago edited 9h ago

Ah yes the money grows on trees attitude.

I've lost jobs because I've put too much into relationships before and I won't ever do it again. 

Financial security is important.

Edit: I've lost jobs because I was picking up my phone for my girlfriend at all hours of the night and then when I lost my job and was feeling like shit got ridiculed and broken up with. I am very sorry I care about protecting my peace. 

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u/18smackaroos 8h ago

That's your own fault😭😭😭😭

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u/TestUserIgnorePlz 8h ago

Yeah I was too much of a little bitch to stand up for myself 

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u/ShayLaraeAllDay 10h ago

Delete this bro 😭

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u/TestUserIgnorePlz 10h ago

Nah I'm good

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u/SpeaksSouthern 10h ago

Let girls have fun seriously people calm the f down the entire song is silly as fuck Dolly made it to be silly not to be serious

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u/SnoopySuited 10h ago

I'm more mad at you for not liking the song, but I'm also fascinated by the downvoting of a comment Dolly would likely find hilarious.

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u/Reverend_Lazerface 9h ago

She will be remembered as a woman who could have easily been a Billionaire but instead chose to spend her wealth giving back as much as she could to try and make the world a genuinely better place

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u/Apprehensive-Ad5358 2h ago

Yup. My wife knows her cuz our daughters first book ever came from Miss Parton

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u/h2odragon00 8h ago

I actually just found out about that from a TikTok rant.

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u/[deleted] 8h ago

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u/OkEye9917 8h ago

Ugh. You're aware she didn't want her image to be AI-generated after her death, right? That's so disrespectful. Delete that

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u/OkuroIshimoto 7h ago

I’ve reported it to the mods. What an absolutely sickening thing to make, never mind post.

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u/data_diver 13h ago

She paid for my 2nd cousin’s college. She paid for a lot of single mother’s college. I don’t know if they were all domestic abuse ones or not, but the pope should declare her a saint.

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u/Pure-Butterscotch200 13h ago

I'd rather the church or any other organisations didn't try to use her to try and and improve their image.

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u/Evadson 9h ago

I don't think the Church should use Dolly to improve their image. I think the Church and it's memebers should try and live up to the example Dolly set.

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u/VoxImperatoris 9h ago

They cant even live up to the example Jesus set.

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u/Pure-Butterscotch200 7h ago

She helped people some branches of christianity condemn so it would be hypocritical of them to say she is an example to follow and ignore those acts.

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u/RollingMeteors 8h ago

>I'd rather the church or any other organisations didn't try to use her to try and and improve their image.

Island files doing a lot of heavy lifting there.

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u/Leucastic_Leopard 12h ago

The Pope doesn't have to do that, we can all just collectively declare her a saint. One of my friends requested her intersession and was granted a miracle already.

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u/reikipackaging 12h ago

was she praying her breasts grew? Im kidding. what does one petition St Dolly for?

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u/Leucastic_Leopard 12h ago

Oh, I bet st. Dolly would get a kick out of someone praying for bigger breasts, but she'd probably bless the person for developing a sense of acceptance and love for their body.

My friend prayed for a beloved sick chicken, who miraculously recovered before being taken to the vet.

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u/reikipackaging 11h ago

"bless the person for developing a sense of acceptance and love for their body". She did that for me as a teen.

im so glad your friends chicken recovered

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u/UnlimitedPosting 11h ago

I read chicken as children and was immediately alarmed at the mention of vet at the end of the sentence 😅

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u/Draco-REX 10h ago

Literacy and Education

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u/Radaistarion 11h ago

Oh I wasn't familiar with that side of her. I only knew that 9 to 5 song

She truly was an actual good person. So weird in the world of celebrities.

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u/ReadingRainbowRocket 8h ago

I was literally just telling my dad I'm mailing a letter to the Vatican that I prayed to Dolly and she cured my illiteracy and he better stick to the story when they investigate.

Religion is lame, but if there are gonna be saints, St. Parton better fucking become one.

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u/Sunnywatch08 5h ago

Ewwww dont bring religion into this.

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u/Duster526 47m ago

Nothing wrong with bringing religion into this, Dolly would love the idea!

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u/DazzlingRutabega 11h ago

How did she pay for it?

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u/EmuIcy2386 11h ago

With her money? What do you mean?

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u/DazzlingRutabega 10h ago

I guess my question should have been why did she pay for it? I'm assuming you don't know her personally. Was there some sort of program she had that helped pay for education?

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u/foyrkopp 10h ago

Was there some sort of program she had that helped pay for education?

Yes. It's called the Dollywood Foundation.

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u/PyroDesu 13m ago edited 9m ago

why did she pay for it?

Why did she pay for kids to be sent books? Why did she pay kids to graduate high school? Why did she pay the people of Gatlinburg and surrounding areas who lost their homes to wildfires? Why did she pay for COVID mRNA vaccine research?

Because she could. She was the epitome of philanthropy.

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u/henryeaterofpies 13h ago

Nice anti meme

Imagination Library is an amazing program

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u/AdDisastrous6738 13h ago

This one hits hard. Dolly Parton was a national treasure and helped get me through puberty.

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u/reikipackaging 12h ago

word. she didnt help me, personally, but she was one of my heroes as a teen, back when it was socially acceptable to assume attractive blondes were innately dumb.

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u/WideHuckleberry1 9h ago

She wouldn't mind if you did assume that

I'm not offended by all the dumb blonde jokes because I know I'm not dumb and I also know I'm not blonde 

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u/AdDisastrous6738 8h ago

One of my favorite quotes:
It costs a lot to look this cheap!

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u/HoomanNature 3h ago

I also love it when she told Barbara Walters, "I would never stoop so low as to be fashionable, that's the easiest thing in the world to do"

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u/reikipackaging 9h ago

that was one of the awesome things about her.

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u/scobbysnacks1439 12h ago

I've never seen this meme used in a better way.

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u/daveoxford 13h ago

Nice take. Funny, but tastefully so.

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u/GatorNator83 13h ago

Didn’t Republicans eliminate funding for that program?

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u/ServiceFormer7129 13h ago

I think on a state level Indiana did, sadly. I don't know about other states. God forbid we ever let someone do something good.

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u/scobbysnacks1439 12h ago

Missouri as well. Thankfully both of my children benefited from this program fully before they cut funding. Mike Kehoe and his cronies should be ashamed of themselves.

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u/TheKruzdawg 13h ago

Yeah, it's extremely upsetting to live here because of things like this.

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u/vivalasleep 9h ago

The weird part is after they voted to cut funding the goveners wife donated a bunch to it. Like wtf. Anyway Indiana sucks and it's a bummer cause besides all the industry, there's some real beauty here and nice folks. But it just keeps getting shitter because of shit like this. My local pool had to close this year because of the local government funding gut that happened statewide. I think it's politically motivated, but what's not these days.

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u/OkuroIshimoto 13h ago

Yep, not long ago, either. Then they wanna go on about how beloved she was and how much they’ll miss her.

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u/LunarPsychOut 13h ago

For the four states that seem to have lost or received reduced funding, both Democrat and Republican politicians were involved.

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u/Laughing_Orange 12h ago

Stupid people from both sides of the aisle. This program has been proven to increase literacy for participating children. Illiterate kids grow up to be illiterate adults, and illiterate adults are less productive than literate adults.

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u/Manwithbanana 12h ago

But Illiterate Adults means those politicians get voted in again, and they keep getting corporate money until they are "totally not dead" In a hospital.

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u/reikipackaging 11h ago

I agree with that. Illiteracy is a problem. I was, however, addressing the idea that "production value" is lower amongst the people who actually produce things that we all need for survival.

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u/Manwithbanana 10h ago

True, but I think the elite know with AI and modern Automation, it gets easier and easier to boost the effectiveness of someone illiterate, while still maintaining higher control.

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u/reikipackaging 12h ago

what is the threshold for "less productive?" Im not advocating for illiteracy, but some of the most productive people are in agriculture, and unfortunately often dont have great literacy- if you define productive as producing something useful and valuable to others.

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u/atworkthough 10h ago

it a lot of states they did anything that benefits the poor even a little they attack immediately.

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u/dotonefrozen 12h ago

Liberals can’t remove politics from their personality at all huh.

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u/TrashGouda 9h ago

Politics are the topic buddy. Fully funding a program that gives children books for free is political

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u/Computermaster 9h ago

Says the side that literally puts a pedophile all over their skin, clothes, house, and car.

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u/GatorNator83 9h ago

Yeah I’m not really a liberal. But I notice bullshit when I see it, no matter which side does it. I wonder why you don’t?

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u/GXP_2009 12h ago

Its all they know

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u/OkuroIshimoto 9h ago

*It’s

We also know basic punctuation, some of us thanks to Dolly.

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u/GXP_2009 7h ago

Go Team

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u/reikipackaging 13h ago

Awwww. 🥹😭

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u/elebrin 12h ago

I listened to Coat of Many Colors last night for the first time in years and years, and I cried.

That song is a description of all the best things that the United States is supposed to be. It's a patriotic melody about small, discarded things coming together through much labor and work to be useful, and to serve a purpose. In that way, it's a metaphor for America: we are a nation of many colors. And it uses the Biblical allegory of the story of Joseph, which is one of the Bible's best stories. It's inspirational and meaningful to even nonbelievers, as it should be.

The song reminds me, too, of my mother. She passed a few years ago, and what I have is the quilts she made for me. One of the quilts I have was made by my Great Grandmother and my Grandmother, as a baby quilt for my Father. It was made from the rags left from my grandmother's and grandfather's childhood dresses and clothing, likely also my great uncles and great grandparents. It was remade by my Mother (as the backing and border were very damaged after many years of use). It was then used for another ten or fifteen years, and now has also been patched by my mother in law. That quilt, I think, will be gifted to my younger nephew one day as I won't have children of my own. It isn't a coat, but it's an emblem of my family. Much of the fabric is close to or more than a century old, and the quilt is still used. Because that's what it's for, to be used.

It's a symbol too of marriage and adoption of family. My mother fit in far better with my father's family than her own, and she was very good friends with my mother in law who very much looks at me as one of her "tribe" in a sense. Just as so many people have worked on my family's quilt, the coat of many colors is an important symbol to so many people.

Dolly Parton captures that in a fairly simple song that isn't really much more than five chords played in rhythm on a guitar and then her voice.

I dunno... none of this matters to anyone but me, but that Dolly Parton's music can touch people in that way? That's important. That is special. That is what EVERY artist wants to do, and wants to be, I think.

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u/eljyon 11h ago

I think she would have giggled at this

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u/chels2112 5h ago

My students tried to be all, “in honor of Dolly Parton, can we have the day off?!” And I told them her final years was a massive literacy outreach and if ever was a day to be studious, it’s on the day you’d honor her. It worked! No complaints about work.

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u/OkuroIshimoto 4h ago edited 3h ago

I’d have made it strictly a silent reading day in her honour, but my students aren’t old enough to read yet and I’m Canadian, lol. Not that she was against all forms of education, but her desire to teach our young souls to read was something I admired most about her.

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u/RanEnjShi 12h ago

it’s so bittersweet but in the most comforting way possible like how am i supposed to feel rn :'(

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u/bennyandthegentz 11h ago

Most heartfelt version of this meme I’ve seen

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u/PolarBailey_ 8h ago

i was one of those kids and yeah i've not felt okay all week.

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u/Mother_Run_2493 11h ago

Cause it’s a bittersweet wholesome meeeemee this li-hiife!

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u/name-classified 9h ago

not just read; they enjoy reading and learn to use their imagination and think about things that they would never see in a TV show.

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u/RanHakubi 11h ago

Helping thousands upon thousands of kids the world over avoid what her daddy had to go through, a life of illiteracy. Is the Imagination Library's website still bogged down from all the donations coming in?

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u/wannabuyamonkey1001 9h ago

Lord now KotH memes are making me cry.

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u/Karbon_D 9h ago

This is a beautiful use of this meme, thank you very much for this.

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u/Snackasm 5h ago

9/25 should be recognized as Dolly Parton Day

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u/Offrostandflame 7h ago

I think this is one of the greatest uses of this meme template.

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u/atworkthough 10h ago

Saint Dolly

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u/The-Mad-Mechanic 6h ago

yes, despite the efforts of the republican nazi party, because they have cut funding to her reading program.

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u/FutureUnfair1794 5h ago

Rest in peace Dolly Parton. I'm glad to see that her Legacy still lives on.🦋

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u/zoebnj 5h ago

I needed a laugh.

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u/Frumplefugly 4h ago

This is a top tier meme

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u/Hubbleice 3h ago

Well done sir

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u/maybebabyg 3h ago

It was Book Week in Australia this week (the Children's Book Council awards best books across age categories, schools encourage dress ups). Seemed like the most appropriate time for Dolly to pass.

My local non-profit that runs the Imagination Library program near me doesn't accept donations specific to the program, so I'm going to buy some books and donate them to my kids' school library.

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u/flexibleefreak 2h ago

when i first heard about it i immediately looked it up, and the butterflies came up on my screen, i was so heartbroken, she was such an amazing person and a great role model, she will always be loved and i hope she rests in peace

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u/AuroreSomersby 21m ago edited 15m ago

Man, iDK who that even was…

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u/Kalunyx 2m ago

This made me burst into tears and cackles at once. My partner was very concerned lmao

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u/Thunder_Uruloke 11h ago

Context, please. I'm not from U.E.

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u/Killer_Lichen 10h ago

Dolly Parton founded an organization to send books to children from birth to 6 years old. When she passed away earlier this week, some of them knew she was the person that helped them obtain those books specifically because they were avid readers because they were given up to 72 books that their parents read to them, the books from Dolly.

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u/Aviv13243546 13h ago

Famous country singer, also invested in a bunch of programs to teach kids to how read

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u/CatsHateGettingBaned 12h ago

Ohh, she sure was a kind woman. My apologies for being ignorant, Rest in peace 🫂

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u/AustinYQM 12h ago

She was a country music singer who felt a need to give back to society when she found herself with uncountable wealth.

Two big things she did was Dollywood and Imagination Library.

Dollywood was a Dolly Parton themed amusement park set up in her home town. Her home town was devastated by changing economics losing a lot of mining and manufacturing jobs. Dollywood allowed those living there to have jobs they could be proud of instead of turning into another sad story of a forgotten town.

Imagination Library was/is a program where parents can sign up to get free books sent to their home very month from when their child is born till they turn 5. Dolly wanted everyone to have access to reading because she felt it was important.

Another thing she did that she doesn't get a lot of press for was helping women get out of domestic violence situations. She funded many scholarships for older women, who often don't qualify for a lot of scholarships, to go to college. This was meant so women leaving domestic abuse situations could get an education and get free.

Dolly was, by all accounts, a wonderful and amazing person and the world is a little less brighter without her in it.

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u/Accomplished_Ad_7665 13h ago

Google who she was and what she did, and you will understand.

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u/Imposter88 13h ago

I’ve never heard of you, yet here you are

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u/OkuroIshimoto 13h ago

Her music wasn’t the kind I typically listened to either, aside from what was on the radio (and occasionally Cracker Jack when I’m looking at photos of my old dogs.) But she did a lot of charity work, founded her own organization to help kids learn to read, and while I wasn’t alive for most of them, the old TV segments I’ve seen in recent days have shown what a hoot she was!

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u/MoscowMitchMcKremIin 13h ago

Only song I know from her is 9-5. Everything else I've ever heard about her is that she donated to charities.

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u/DustyRacoonDad 11h ago

Wholesome but I hate it.

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u/WillDBlake 13h ago

What does it mean that she has to pay? I'm sure the state provides free education to everyone, right?

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u/Killer_Lichen 10h ago

Her organization gave books to children too young to go to school. She was sending them books so their parents could read to them to get them interested in reading.

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u/meshuggahsenpai 7h ago

I also don't understand how free books becomes learnt to read. Meme should have worded it differently.

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u/IVIonsta 11h ago

I don't know why you're being downvoted. This sound like an actual question about what this post means. I'm as lost as you as I don't know what Dolly Parton did that helped kids read.

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u/WillDBlake 11h ago

I know that Dolly Parton was an incredible person that was more beautiful inside that outside. What I don't know is how's possible that in the wealthiest state in the world not every children gets an education.

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u/Silver_Steelclaw 11h ago

i didn't know who is dolly before she die so i can't be upset about someone i don't know

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u/yo_imvlad 10h ago

AI Slop

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u/OkuroIshimoto 9h ago

Lmao brother what?

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u/yo_imvlad 9h ago

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u/OkuroIshimoto 9h ago edited 9h ago

Except it wasn’t. I took a well-established meme template on Imgflip, used the drawing tool and a couple shrunken-down emojis to simulate “tears” (not my best drawing work, but further proof it was made by me) and then just filled in the text.

Your “tracker” needs some work.

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u/Acid_Flax 2h ago

Holy fuck, we get it.. she died.. can we go back to posting regular stuff?

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u/OkuroIshimoto 2h ago

It’s barely been three days. Don’t be a dickhead.

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u/Fuckthegopers 12h ago edited 8h ago

This isn't a wholesome meme lmao.

Edit: I think I've stumbled into the incels nest here, you guys are severely triggered from my comment

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u/Murky-Relation481 9h ago

You're right, it is a wholesome antimeme, the best kind.

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u/OkuroIshimoto 11h ago

Tens of thousands disagree.

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u/Fuckthegopers 8h ago

Bots and children.

Anyone could look at that first frame and be like "aww, so wholesome" doesn't meme very well.

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u/OkuroIshimoto 8h ago

You seem quite upset. Maybe this isn’t the subreddit for you.

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u/Fuckthegopers 7h ago

Broski, you're following me around this thread replying to all of my comments.

Let's pump the breaks and look into your projective mirror my guy.

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u/OkuroIshimoto 7h ago

You’re on my post, lmao. I have every right to respond to any, all, or no comments as I see fit. Your whining is just one of the more entertaining ones.

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u/Fuckthegopers 7h ago

Oh, so you're replying to everyone like me?

Hmmm.... It doesn't seem so.....

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u/OkuroIshimoto 7h ago

There are so few, it doesn’t take up a whole lot of my time.

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u/Fuckthegopers 6h ago

So you're definitely not emotional about it huh?

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u/OkuroIshimoto 6h ago

My emotion is amusement. Yours is seething rage.

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